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Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:45pm On Dec 31, 2023
Now when I see lots of guys talk
about "game" and how to get women
or handle women yihmi yihmi yihmi,
yihmi this yihmi that.

I just wonder how blessed they must
be to have that luxury of time to talk
about women on a daily. I mean,
some dudes have made themselves
professors of women affairs and they
pride themselves in something as
irrelevant as such.

I really don't know about women, and
I don't wish to know. There are really
important things in my life than to
waste my time studying about women.
Therefore, my thread is aimed at men.
Young men who still have a great deal
of time ahead of them so, dear young
men. This is for you.
This is going to be a very lengthy post
but believe me. It will worth your time.
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That being said. On Emeka Ike's ordeal.
In the comings days, we'll have several
cases and even worse cases if care is
not taken.
Why?
The reason is because mannishness
is gradually going into oblivion.

I'm not sorry to say but many men
these days have nothing to offer aside
money.


I don't wanna talk against rich guys
'cause I'm well to do too, but I gotta
be honest.
Many rich guys are nothing. Remove
the money they have from them and
they won't be able to keep a single
woman. Have you not seen cases
where many women left their husbands
just as they went broke?

I clearly understand that you can't
forcefully keep a woman, and that
women are like birds. And once the
the branch breaks, the bird flies.
Know this for sure. You don't have the
absolute control over what people do to
you. But you have the absolute control
over how you react

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:46pm On Dec 31, 2023
When I see men come online to cry a
river over what ladies do to them.
I really in my mind can't understand why.
I mean when a lady pulls a fast one on you,
you can quietly give her a taste of her own
dose. Measure for measure, instead of
coming on to seek pity parties.


Lemme take you back in time. Those days
in the days of our fore fathers. There was
more mannishness. You'd see a rich man/
son of a rich man who would pretend to
be a poor man, he would suffer and
sometimes would have to work his way
up from the bottom.

He would suffer, go thru pains with tears,
sweat and blood. And along the line, there
would be a lady that'd fall in love with him
whilst still in his struggling state.

Princes those days were subjected to
even more sufferings and pains. Many
of them had to lead men to war and
they had to suffer twice as many men.

In some tribes. Men had to battle by
combat before they could even get a wife.

Men had to toil hard. Some seasons they
reaped bountiful harvests. Some seasons
the reaped sparingly after haven gone thru
hard work. The disappointment, shame and
reproach were necessary for the emotional
strength men had those days.
The point in all this is that, men had to suffer
to transit from boyhood to manhood.
Girls don't have to do that.
Once they they start seeing their monthly
flow, they become women.

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:47pm On Dec 31, 2023
These days. Since it's easier for men to be
rich being stupid. Men don't necessarily have
to go thru sufferings to become rich. Since
the advent of social media.
A guy can wake up, go online, speak few
nonsense, apply lipstick or blink his eyes
and by the end of the month he is cashing
out big.

I'm not saying this is bad. We all got to
eat. But there is nothing to strengthen
the guy emotionally unless, if he had a
very strong masculine figure in a father
which is very rare because, since African
men have embraced westernisation to
the extent of kneeling to propose to
a lady.

A foolish man is a man that accepts
everything that is presented to him.
A wise man choose what is only good
for him and rejects the rest.


Westernisation is cool but, we shouldn't
accept everything that comes with it.
Their culture is basically a reverse of the
African culture. In Africa, the man is the
head of the house but over there, the
woman is the head of the house.
Here in Africa, our women kneel themselves
down for their husbands but, over there
the man kneels to propose.
Now look at it from this angle. That's the
reason their society is deteriorating. Lots
of paternity fraud, homosexualism to
mention a few.

This is the same thing African men emulate
because they want to be perceived as woke.
Woke gini? You wey don use sedatives.

Now it brings a lot of shame when men
come online to rant about how their women
are given them lots of issues.
It only means one thing. There is nothing
you can do about it.
No man comes here to seek opinions
on what to do when his kid wrongs him,
he has the absolute authority
over his kids and may decide to or not
punish them.

Men who come online to rant about
their wives are simply the ones who lack
the necessary weapons to take care of
their wives.

If you can deal with someone, there is no
point reporting them to strangers.

The reason men come online to rant
about their wives is because they do not
have a single authority over their wives,
which is basically wrong.
The moment you pay her bride price,
you take over from her father and begin
to raise her.

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:48pm On Dec 31, 2023
Your bible says "The meek shall inherit
the earth"
and not "The weak shall
inherit the earth."

Who is a meek man? A meek man is a very
strong man who decides to hide his
strength and pretends to be weak until
the day of need. A meek man has a weaponry
for correcting, destroying and creating but
decides to not use it unless it's
compulsory.

Your bible also says "...be wise as a
serpent"
. Why would the bible say
that the serpent is wise?
It's basically because the serpent is subtle.

Genesis 3:1 Now the serpent was more subtil
than any beast of the field.


To be subtle simply means to be mysterious.

When many men flaunt their wealth towards
ladies. They shouldn't blame these ladies
for playing a fast one on them. That's the
only thing they have to offer. And ladies
don't reject such offer.

Now it's a very stupid feminists BS to
believe "your wife must know everything
about you."
No matter how hard you
try. You can never know everything about
your wife so, why should she know yours.

Some men talk too much. That's how they
end up revealing everything about themselves
to their wives. Note that, it's against the law
of masculinity for a man to talk to much.
In talking too much, you reveal your weaknesses.
Which sets you up as a prey.

Making your wife a signatory to your accounts
and properties is nothing but a sheer display
of foolishness.

Your wife must not know what you are
worth. Be as formless as the water.

A kid who grows up in a house where the
mother controls the father will definitely
grow up to be a weak man.

Many men are foolish today because they
grew up seeing their fathers acting all
lovey-dovey with their mothers instead
of being a leader.They are the ones who will
attack you whenever you call women out
on their unculturedness.

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:49pm On Dec 31, 2023
I saw a thread where a guy grew a cold feet
to proceed in the marriage plans with his
girlfriend. The appalling thing is, every single
woman who replied to that thread told
the OP to abort mission. But some men
tried to justify the gf's unculturedness
and advised the OP to proceed.
I mean what! Some men these days are
lesser than a used menstrual pad.Well,
It's not their fault. I mean, what much could
they learn from their spineless fathers?

Therefore, youngings out there. It is a waste
of human precious time to wake up everyday
to learn about women.Learning about women is
the number one sign of lack of direction.
In a race, you don't focus on other sprinter's
training. You focus on your own training.

The most important thing is to learn to
become a man, emancipate thyself.

Take home:
You may agree with this or not but this
infact has worked for me more than anything.

• It is entirely stupid and un-African for
a man to cry. I made that decision when I was
8 years of age never to shed tears for any
reason. Tears don't solve any real life problems.
No matter how hard you try to justify it.
Tear is a sign of weakness and this world
doesn't really care about men.
These days when I see men cry, especially
celebrities who are supposed to be a figure.It
just weaks me. That's why women see men
as jokes. Mannishness is not about beards.
Many men with beards are stupid.

•Don't be moved by tears. I'm never moved
by anybody's tears, except my kids. I came to
this decision when I was 16. I feel tear is a very
powerful manipulative weapon and that's why
women cry a lot. Women will try to shift you
with their tears. Anyone who shed tears wants
to manipulate you except of course, kids. Even
kids sometimes.

• Don't talk too much. It's not a man's thing
to talk too much. In talking too much you say
more than what is necessary, what is irrelevant
and secrets about yourself. Which leads to a lot
of disrespect.

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:50pm On Dec 31, 2023
•There is nothing special about sex. Don't become
stupid because of sex. In the name of trying to
bed a lady, some men have subjected themselves
to a lot of ridiculous treatments. They've endured
so much disrespect and insults. Some even waste
lots of money just because of this sex.

A woman who knows you'll do anything to have
sex with her has a leash on you.
Married men, if you didn't have sex with your wives
you won't die. When you make the move once and
she denies you. Leave her alone. Asking why is
a sign of foolishness. If she respected you enough
she'd be the one to explain herself.

Don't be needy. Neediness makes you look weak.

A man who sees no big deal in sex is a scary man
to ladies. You can't manipulate him. He doesn't
want you. If you're not his boss, you can BS him
and get away with it.
Don't place sex above your self esteem. Yeah!
You may get the sex on the long run but, you
can never get your respect back.

•Men don't take pieces of advice from the
community. A man must have a father figure
that he can seek knowledge from. Someone
who knows more than you in a certain arc
of life. On the other hand. Men kill me these
days when they bring their relationship problems
online. Relationship isn't what your problem
should be. Your purpose should be your problem.

Don't be quick to bring your problems online
you have a brain. Please use it.

Without any remorse. There are many stupid
adult men roaming around these days. Men in
ladies undies. Imagine a man who dedicates his
time to how to get girls and sleep with them.
No wonder many of them grew up to be foolish.
Our fathers those days were devoted to their
purpose, their hustle and only use women for
relaxation and pleasures.

To be continued...

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by Jb95(m): 4:55pm On Dec 31, 2023
You have gained an ardent follower

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by Karlifate: 11:35pm On Dec 31, 2023
Good points. 👍

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by abba190: 12:23am On Jan 01
muchas gracias hermono cool

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Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by Angrigowt: 6:39am On Jan 01
Go fix your wrinkled face
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:14am On Jan 02
Angrigowt:
Go fix your wrinkled face
Angry Goat. Your moniker is quite interesting
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by abba190: 6:19pm On Jan 03
FRANCISTOWN:

Angry Goat. Your moniker is quite interesting
waiting for u to continue

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