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Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:45pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Now when I see lots of guys talk about "game" and how to get women or handle women yihmi yihmi yihmi, yihmi this yihmi that. I just wonder how blessed they must be to have that luxury of time to talk about women on a daily. I mean, some dudes have made themselves professors of women affairs and they pride themselves in something as irrelevant as such. I really don't know about women, and I don't wish to know. There are really important things in my life than to waste my time studying about women. Therefore, my thread is aimed at men. Young men who still have a great deal of time ahead of them so, dear young men. This is for you. This is going to be a very lengthy post but believe me. It will worth your time. * * That being said. On Emeka Ike's ordeal. In the comings days, we'll have several cases and even worse cases if care is not taken. Why? The reason is because mannishness is gradually going into oblivion. I'm not sorry to say but many men these days have nothing to offer aside money. I don't wanna talk against rich guys 'cause I'm well to do too, but I gotta be honest. Many rich guys are nothing. Remove the money they have from them and they won't be able to keep a single woman. Have you not seen cases where many women left their husbands just as they went broke? I clearly understand that you can't forcefully keep a woman, and that women are like birds. And once the the branch breaks, the bird flies. Know this for sure. You don't have the absolute control over what people do to you. But you have the absolute control over how you react 1 Like |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:46pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
When I see men come online to cry a river over what ladies do to them. I really in my mind can't understand why. I mean when a lady pulls a fast one on you, you can quietly give her a taste of her own dose. Measure for measure, instead of coming on to seek pity parties. Lemme take you back in time. Those days in the days of our fore fathers. There was more mannishness. You'd see a rich man/ son of a rich man who would pretend to be a poor man, he would suffer and sometimes would have to work his way up from the bottom. He would suffer, go thru pains with tears, sweat and blood. And along the line, there would be a lady that'd fall in love with him whilst still in his struggling state. Princes those days were subjected to even more sufferings and pains. Many of them had to lead men to war and they had to suffer twice as many men. In some tribes. Men had to battle by combat before they could even get a wife. Men had to toil hard. Some seasons they reaped bountiful harvests. Some seasons the reaped sparingly after haven gone thru hard work. The disappointment, shame and reproach were necessary for the emotional strength men had those days. The point in all this is that, men had to suffer to transit from boyhood to manhood. Girls don't have to do that. Once they they start seeing their monthly flow, they become women. 1 Like |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:47pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
These days. Since it's easier for men to be rich being stupid. Men don't necessarily have to go thru sufferings to become rich. Since the advent of social media. A guy can wake up, go online, speak few nonsense, apply lipstick or blink his eyes and by the end of the month he is cashing out big. I'm not saying this is bad. We all got to eat. But there is nothing to strengthen the guy emotionally unless, if he had a very strong masculine figure in a father which is very rare because, since African men have embraced westernisation to the extent of kneeling to propose to a lady. A foolish man is a man that accepts everything that is presented to him. A wise man choose what is only good for him and rejects the rest. Westernisation is cool but, we shouldn't accept everything that comes with it. Their culture is basically a reverse of the African culture. In Africa, the man is the head of the house but over there, the woman is the head of the house. Here in Africa, our women kneel themselves down for their husbands but, over there the man kneels to propose. Now look at it from this angle. That's the reason their society is deteriorating. Lots of paternity fraud, homosexualism to mention a few. This is the same thing African men emulate because they want to be perceived as woke. Woke gini? You wey don use sedatives. Now it brings a lot of shame when men come online to rant about how their women are given them lots of issues. It only means one thing. There is nothing you can do about it. No man comes here to seek opinions on what to do when his kid wrongs him, he has the absolute authority over his kids and may decide to or not punish them. Men who come online to rant about their wives are simply the ones who lack the necessary weapons to take care of their wives. If you can deal with someone, there is no point reporting them to strangers. The reason men come online to rant about their wives is because they do not have a single authority over their wives, which is basically wrong. The moment you pay her bride price, you take over from her father and begin to raise her. 1 Like |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:48pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Your bible says "The meek shall inherit the earth" and not "The weak shall inherit the earth." Who is a meek man? A meek man is a very strong man who decides to hide his strength and pretends to be weak until the day of need. A meek man has a weaponry for correcting, destroying and creating but decides to not use it unless it's compulsory. Your bible also says "...be wise as a serpent". Why would the bible say that the serpent is wise? It's basically because the serpent is subtle. Genesis 3:1 Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field. To be subtle simply means to be mysterious. When many men flaunt their wealth towards ladies. They shouldn't blame these ladies for playing a fast one on them. That's the only thing they have to offer. And ladies don't reject such offer. Now it's a very stupid feminists BS to believe "your wife must know everything about you." No matter how hard you try. You can never know everything about your wife so, why should she know yours. Some men talk too much. That's how they end up revealing everything about themselves to their wives. Note that, it's against the law of masculinity for a man to talk to much. In talking too much, you reveal your weaknesses. Which sets you up as a prey. Making your wife a signatory to your accounts and properties is nothing but a sheer display of foolishness. Your wife must not know what you are worth. Be as formless as the water. A kid who grows up in a house where the mother controls the father will definitely grow up to be a weak man. Many men are foolish today because they grew up seeing their fathers acting all lovey-dovey with their mothers instead of being a leader.They are the ones who will attack you whenever you call women out on their unculturedness. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:49pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
I saw a thread where a guy grew a cold feet to proceed in the marriage plans with his girlfriend. The appalling thing is, every single woman who replied to that thread told the OP to abort mission. But some men tried to justify the gf's unculturedness and advised the OP to proceed. I mean what! Some men these days are lesser than a used menstrual pad.Well, It's not their fault. I mean, what much could they learn from their spineless fathers? Therefore, youngings out there. It is a waste of human precious time to wake up everyday to learn about women.Learning about women is the number one sign of lack of direction. In a race, you don't focus on other sprinter's training. You focus on your own training. The most important thing is to learn to become a man, emancipate thyself. Take home: You may agree with this or not but this infact has worked for me more than anything. • It is entirely stupid and un-African for a man to cry. I made that decision when I was 8 years of age never to shed tears for any reason. Tears don't solve any real life problems. No matter how hard you try to justify it. Tear is a sign of weakness and this world doesn't really care about men. These days when I see men cry, especially celebrities who are supposed to be a figure.It just weaks me. That's why women see men as jokes. Mannishness is not about beards. Many men with beards are stupid. •Don't be moved by tears. I'm never moved by anybody's tears, except my kids. I came to this decision when I was 16. I feel tear is a very powerful manipulative weapon and that's why women cry a lot. Women will try to shift you with their tears. Anyone who shed tears wants to manipulate you except of course, kids. Even kids sometimes. • Don't talk too much. It's not a man's thing to talk too much. In talking too much you say more than what is necessary, what is irrelevant and secrets about yourself. Which leads to a lot of disrespect. 2 Likes |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 4:50pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
•There is nothing special about sex. Don't become stupid because of sex. In the name of trying to bed a lady, some men have subjected themselves to a lot of ridiculous treatments. They've endured so much disrespect and insults. Some even waste lots of money just because of this sex. A woman who knows you'll do anything to have sex with her has a leash on you. Married men, if you didn't have sex with your wives you won't die. When you make the move once and she denies you. Leave her alone. Asking why is a sign of foolishness. If she respected you enough she'd be the one to explain herself. Don't be needy. Neediness makes you look weak. A man who sees no big deal in sex is a scary man to ladies. You can't manipulate him. He doesn't want you. If you're not his boss, you can BS him and get away with it. Don't place sex above your self esteem. Yeah! You may get the sex on the long run but, you can never get your respect back. •Men don't take pieces of advice from the community. A man must have a father figure that he can seek knowledge from. Someone who knows more than you in a certain arc of life. On the other hand. Men kill me these days when they bring their relationship problems online. Relationship isn't what your problem should be. Your purpose should be your problem. Don't be quick to bring your problems online you have a brain. Please use it. Without any remorse. There are many stupid adult men roaming around these days. Men in ladies undies. Imagine a man who dedicates his time to how to get girls and sleep with them. No wonder many of them grew up to be foolish. Our fathers those days were devoted to their purpose, their hustle and only use women for relaxation and pleasures. To be continued... 2 Likes |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by Jb95(m): 4:55pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
You have gained an ardent follower 3 Likes |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by Karlifate: 11:35pm On Dec 31, 2023 |
Good points. 👍 2 Likes |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by abba190: 12:23am On Jan 01 |
muchas gracias hermono 2 Likes |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by Angrigowt: 6:39am On Jan 01 |
Go fix your wrinkled face |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:14am On Jan 02 |
Angrigowt:Angry Goat. Your moniker is quite interesting |
Re: Basically For Men..... Series A. by abba190: 6:19pm On Jan 03 |
FRANCISTOWN:waiting for u to continue |
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