kingyang:

Very nice poem , well written. Until you're married you will understand. I'm 100 percent against men beating their wives/spouses, or anything that leads to fight, death but women will push you to a point of regrets. The earlier they control their tongues, the better. They shouldn't forget that they are talking to a human not animals or objects. I always walk away when in confrontation because I have seen the outcome several times.

u are wrong, I was beateb by my husband because I didn't reply his rant

VaginaAcademic:
if she was a Saint you think he would stab her I've been in a similar situation it was just the grace of God I didn't act on my emotions, some women will push you to do unbelievable things.

I don't even understand why you keep using the word "saint" as if the woman could be a criminal or some sort of an offender.
How many people have you made angry? Why didn't they kill you? Someone made you angry and the best thing to do is to murder him or her.
Killing someone for doing something that makes you angry shouldn't be the act that comes to your mind as a response. No justification for killing that woman no matter what you might have imagined to be her "sin".

VaginaAcademic:
if she was a Saint you think he would stab her I've been in a similar situation it was just the grace of God I didn't act on my emotions, some women will push you to do unbelievable things.

kingyang:

Very nice poem , well written. Until you're married you will understand. I'm 100 percent against men beating their wives/spouses, or anything that leads to fight, death but women will push you to a point of regrets. The earlier they control their tongues, the better. They shouldn't forget that they are talking to a human not animals or objects. I always walk away when in confrontation because I have seen the outcome several times.

Princessfumi:
u are wrong, I was beaten by my husband because I didn't reply his rant

These guys are kids, don't mind them. I'm a married man and I understand that if my wife ignores me, at times, it makes me angry too. But the truth is that wives ignoring husbands' rants could mean they're trying to prevent the issue from escalating by not saying the wrong words back. The husbands response to the anger is what separates individuals.
These ones think that there is a manual for what makes husbands angry with their wives: like talking back or being stubborn

EEIA:

Is your vagina still tight?

See question oo? You is your rod still thick?
EreluRoz no gree for am oooo

tsdarkside:


until they get too old and nobody will be interested no more....😂😂
the instinct of the man is to get a fresher younger woman....always....

you know them, women are commodities for sexual exchange,

Mrkindness:
you know them, women are commodities for sexual exchange,

dont say something like that....

threatin your women bad always attract curses....

darkwan:


dont say something like that....

threatin your women bad always attract curses....

not me that's how northern Muslims sees women.

Any woman or man wey hit me wallai tallai na double e go collect and provocation begets retaliation.

EreluRoz:
Well, that's how I feel. If someone shouts at me or aggressive towards me I run away.

you will run away from everybody then

TimT:
See question oo? You is your rod still thick?
EreluRoz no gree for am oooo

My Rod is a gallant General
Active in service. 😎

maasoap:






These guys are kids, don't mind them. I'm a married man and I understand that if my wife ignores me, at times, it makes me angry too. But the truth is that wives ignoring husbands' rants could mean they're trying to prevent the issue from escalating by not saying the wrong words back. The husbands response to the anger is what separates individuals.
These ones think that there is a manual for what makes husbands angry with their wives: like talking back or being stubborn

my husband is hot tempered he gets angry over every damn thing, nd his insult can make someone commit suicide , the worst part his parents are late there's he fears nobody, nd if I tried telling people what he's doing, another trouble will start. .kai I don't deserve this...it is well

EEIA:

My Rod is a gallant General
Active in service. 😎

Cadet rest!!! ...

TimT:

Cadet rest!!! ...

EreluRoz must gree for it this year.

EEIA:

EreluRoz must gree for it this year.

... No go ra.pe person o... ..
If dem no gree for you, but vaseline...
U sef no gree for the boner...

EreluRoz:
You will start using your fist after shouting, it's a gradual process

,

To start with it, I don't have such strength to come and waste on fist actions.
I am too busy and over occupied, to have time for fist actions.

I will just simply walk away after I have poured out my anger and made myself clear.

Religion of WaR and not peace,

BRATISLAVA:


Verbal abuse isn't abuse? Using anger for emotional manipulation isn't a form of abuse employed by many men?

You mustn't batter a person before it's abuse

people csn raise their voice to make a point clear. People can become emotionally depressed and shout it off. The life is strange and People are different. In the context of my talk I said don't generalise. There are cool and calm devil's out there

Princessfumi:
my husband is hot tempered he gets angry over every damn thing, nd his insult can make someone commit suicide , the worst part his parents are late there's he fears nobody, nd if I tried telling people what he's doing, another trouble will start. . kai I don't deserve this...it is well

Try to be talking to him when he's not angry: that you don't like how he normally reacts, most especially when he is angry, that he makes you feel less of a human.

karmaolu1:
Religion of WaR and not peace,

All what you saw here is religion because they're Muslims, you piece of shit, mothefvcking fanatics.
The woman lawyer who murdered her lawyer husband in Lagos state and another woman lawyer who murdered her own lawyer husband too in Ibadan practise religion of war too?

maasoap:


Try to be talking to him when he's not angry: that you don't like how he normally reacts, most especially when he is angry, that he makes you feel less of a human.

most time he apologizes but that won't stop another one from happening.. aside that he doesn't help me with anything in the house when he's free, even when I'm very exhausted and if I ask him for help whala will start again, it's just too exhausted I almost lost my life some months ago I fell when I was carrying a bucket of water..hummm om thinking of leaving the marriage I'm tired I'm too young to be going tru hard time

tsdarkside:


in the last days the heart of men will grow cold....

before men just became angry and shouted at them when women become annoyin and the issue was over....now its very dangerous for women to become annoyin and men dont see them as the problem in their lives....

bible is not a joke....

You have the timing wrong, actually it was before women couldn’t talk back to men and had no rights

It is now that women have the opportunity to do that without getting beaten, imprisoned or killed at no consequence

Lastly as far as your hearts are growing cold and you are killing only the women in your families, the rest of us will only read your news and laugh here on Nairaland

Princessfumi:
most time he apologizes but that won't stop another one from happening..

That's the problem, he is supposed to be growing up in all aspects of his life, getting mature everyday. That's what I do, keep being better for myself, wife and kids because no one is perfect. We just need to recognise our flaws and work on it.

aside that he doesn't help me with anything in the house when he's free, even when I'm very exhausted and if I ask him for help whala will start again, it's just too exhausted I almost lost my life some months ago I fell when I was carrying a bucket of water..

Even if his job or schedule doesn't allow him to help, there is what I called incentives. Husbands can motivate their wives with that, just what individual can afford. I do that once in a while.

hummm om thinking of leaving the marriage I'm tired I'm too young to be going tru hard time

Leaving! If everything doesn't work, may be separation is what you need and not outright divorce. Sometimes, all what it takes for husband to realise the importance, usefulness and worthiness of his wife is her wife's absence, not divorce. If he misses you and make steps to reconcile, that should give you opportunity to renegotiate.
Hang tight!

Mayplays:
You have the timing wrong, actually it was before women couldn’t talk back to men and had no rights

It is now that women have the opportunity to do that without getting beaten, imprisoned or killed at no consequence

Lastly as far as your hearts are growing cold and you are killing only the women in your families, the rest of us will only read your news and laugh here on Nairaland

maasoap:

That's the problem, he is supposed to be growing up in all aspects of his life, getting mature everyday. That's what I do, keep being better for myself, wife and kids because no one is perfect. We just need to recognise our flaws and work on it.


Even if his job or schedule doesn't allow him to help, there is what I called incentives. Husbands can motivate their wives with that, just what individual can afford. I do that once in a while.


Leaving! If everything doesn't work, may be separation is what you need and not outright divorce. Sometimes, all what it takes for husband to realise the importance, usefulness and worthiness of his wife is her wife's absence, not divorce. If he misses you and make steps to reconcile, that should give you opportunity to renegotiate.
Hang tight!

hummm, thanks for the piece of advise

Mayplays:
You have the timing wrong, actually it was before women couldn’t talk back to men and had no rights

It is now that women have the opportunity to do that without getting beaten, imprisoned or killed at no consequence

Lastly as far as your hearts are growing cold and you are killing only the women in your families, the rest of us will only read your news and laugh here on Nairaland

okay oo....

maasoap:

That's the problem, he is supposed to be growing up in all aspects of his life, getting mature everyday. That's what I do, keep being better for myself, wife and kids because no one is perfect. We just need to recognise our flaws and work on it.


Even if his job or schedule doesn't allow him to help, there is what I called incentives. Husbands can motivate their wives with that, just what individual can afford. I do that once in a while.


Leaving! If everything doesn't work, may be separation is what you need and not outright divorce. Sometimes, all what it takes for husband to realise the importance, usefulness and worthiness of his wife is her wife's absence, not divorce. If he misses you and make steps to reconcile, that should give you opportunity to renegotiate.
Hang tight!

as I'm typing this I now live inside a shop, he said he will kill me I had to leave the house before ge came back from Work.. my 1 year old daughter is with me, m

Princessfumi:
as I'm typing this I now live inside a shop, he said he will kill me I had to leave the house before ge came back from Work.. my 1 year old daughter is with me, m

Like I said, if you are real though, you should try to separate from him for a while. You will survive if surviving is what still keep you hanging around him. What city or state is that?

maasoap:

Like I said, if you are real though, you should try to separate from him for a while. You will survive if surviving is what still keep you hanging around him. What city or state is that?

abuja, kuje to be precise I dropped the kid with him this morning, I couldn't keep her in the shop cos she's still a baby

Princessfumi:
abuja, kuje to be precise I dropped the kid with him this morning, I couldn't keep her in the shop cos she's still a baby

I don't even have anyone around the area. May be he's tired of the relationship or he's just difficult to live with

maasoap:

I don't even have anyone around the area. May be he's tired of the relationship or he's just difficult to live with

hummm God will see me tru this difficult time

Take it or leak your as*