| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by naturefellow(m): 1:29pm On Jan 16 |
Do you still have a mental health, or your toxic boss has destroyed it already? |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by being(m): 1:30pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
A little bit above 100k Find a job that pays equal or above this and quit.. your current environment has become toxic.. not good for your mental & emotional well being!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Watinhapen(m): 1:32pm On Jan 16 |
Nobody has the right to insult you just because they pay you some money. If I were you I would’ve insulted that your boss since and walk out of that company. I will advice you to take your mental health and dignity seriously. You’re a man, don’t let another man trample on your dignity just because you work for him. Look for somewhere else to work. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by UnemployedGradu: 1:33pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.
I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.
I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.
Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.
He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.
But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?
Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.
So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...
Your advice pls I have been unemployed since hence from my status but from last month I got a job of #250k in an NGO, I have received my first salary on 30th December though I want to link you up but it depends on age. How old are you? |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Harbdulrafiu(m): 1:36pm On Jan 16 |
Pls If you can help me, studied Agricultural extension. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by theamazonguru(m): 1:37pm On Jan 16 |
kaywhy09:
Seems like Show off I don't get Is everything show off? Well I like to know how this is a show off. Someone is talking about what he is currently facing, you are saying it seems like show off. Well if it looks so, then it is. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Harbdulrafiu(m): 1:38pm On Jan 16 |
UnemployedGradu:
I have been unemployed since hence from my status but from last month I got a job of #250k in an NGO, I have received my first salary on 30th December though I want to link you up but it depends on age. How old are you? Pls If you can help me, studied Agricultural extension. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by theamazonguru(m): 1:41pm On Jan 16 |
OP,
E be like say, you are happy with the disrespect you get daily.
Otherwise, you won't be asking this question.
If I were you I would have long left the miserable job.
I can't be thinking of the next insults I will get while I am going to work.
Never.
I respect my joy, my peace and above all my self respect.
And given that you already got another offer that will pay almost the same salary, ómó I would gladly jump at that one.
Yes the salary is not better, but it will give you your sanity and self respect.
While you are there, you job hunt for better ones with your head raised high.
Choose what you like now.
At the end of the day, it is your life. 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by ukaface(f): 1:58pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.
I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.
I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.
Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.
He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.
But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?
Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.
So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...
Your advice pls Except if you love the insult then keep staying there You better resign and go to another job before you are left with no dignity and respect. Tor! 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by anslemarinze52(m): 2:29pm On Jan 16 |
parkervero:
One of the companies offered you 100k, accept it and quit your current job. But if you know your placenta was buried in your current company then continue to experience all manners of insults you are experiencing Just leave the op.. as if the boss gets what he's looking for he won't sack you immediately. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by anslemarinze52(m): 2:30pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.
I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.
I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.
Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.
He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.
But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?
Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.
So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...
Your advice pls You got no balls.. man up. The future is Great 👍. 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Aplaudez(m): 2:37pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.
I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.
I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.
Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.
He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.
But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?
Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.
So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...
Your advice pls It's like you're good at cooking and revamping cvs, please can I pm you please  Kindly response to me. 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Telltruth123: 2:39pm On Jan 16 |
Meerahbel:
Rule 1 Never get caught using company property (Internet, office vehicle for personal erand, wifi etc)
Rule 2 Don't forget rule 1
Drop your email, I have job for you, remote accountant if you interested.
You ain't got doh and yet you firing from all cylinders. Welcome to fatherhood, jump ship because baby food and pampers are expensive.
You financial target is actually poor for an accountant,150?! in 2-3 months babay things & ante-natal alone would probably gulp that up, you should be aiming for 2m in 6 months Please I am also interested in the remote job. I am an accountant. Thank you ma. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by tonicyril: 2:45pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.
I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.
I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.
Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.
He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.
But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?
Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.
So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...
Your advice pls you need advice?? Maybe u re truly what he calls you who knows?? Abi how can a reasonable man, a valued man, a man with high esteem will allow a baboon to be lambasting him upandan?? O wrong na.. Wait, how una dey stay for two weeks for this kain place self, I trust myself, I won't even resign before I leave u and ur work...iranu 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Mom007(f): 2:53pm On Jan 16 |
That man is abusing you and other staff. Please leave there and show him that he is not God. If you leave, he will probably calm down and begin to treat others better. Also, learn how to sell yourself and negotiate for better pay. Know your worth. If any employerbis offering you anything less than 200k, tell them that you will only work 4 days out if 5 or something like that so you can use the extra day off for your personal runs. Never let any employer feel they are your all in all unless they are paying you all in all money. I wish you all d best going forward, it seems your self esteem has taken a terrible battering. 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by AgbadoDie: 2:56pm On Jan 16 |
Aplaudez:
It's like you're good at cooking and revamping cvs, please can I pm you please
Kindly response to me. You can |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by AgbadoDie: 3:09pm On Jan 16 |
UnemployedGradu:
I have been unemployed since hence from my status but from last month I got a job of #250k in an NGO, I have received my first salary on 30th December though I want to link you up but it depends on age. How old are you? I am 28yrs. I will be glad if you link me up, pls |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by UnemployedGradu: 3:34pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
I am 28yrs.
I will be glad if you link me up, pls you are qualified..but wait will you be 28 this year or last year? 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by 7upnigeria: 4:13pm On Jan 16 |
Meerahbel:
Rule 1 Never get caught using company property (Internet, office vehicle for personal erand, wifi etc)
Rule 2 Don't forget rule 1
Drop your email, I have job for you, remote accountant if you interested.
You ain't got doh and yet you firing from all cylinders. Welcome to fatherhood, jump ship because baby food and pampers are expensive.
You financial target is actually poor for an accountant,150?! in 2-3 months babay things & ante-natal alone would probably gulp that up, you should be aiming for 2m in 6 months God bless you for even trying to help the guy. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by lomprico(m): 4:16pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Good morning, Nld Family.
I am seated in my office this morning typing this with very huge double thought and resentment to my job.
I am working with a manufacturing company in the South West state as an Accountant. The company faces a lot of hurdles and the part that affects the whole staff is paying of salary. If orders did not come, we expect salary maybe on the 12 - 20th of the new month. Note, my boss doesn't care if he is owing us salary or not. If I or any senior staff ask him about paying salary, he will directly ask you whether you brought any sales to the company or you gave him money to keep for you.
Ok, that's a bit of the place I work. But what is really bordering me now, since I came here last year, we haven't threaded the same path. We always misunderstood each other at every moment and he doesn't waste a moment to lambast me. Even when am right or wrong. Lastly, this week, he has been complaining since Monday till Friday, yesterday that since I came to the company, I have not added any single value to the firm. That I am just occupying the accountant seat for nothing but receiving salary.
He abuses me in front of any human being, both visitors, Junior staff, senior staff, his family, I mean anybody that comes, he will call me just to tell them how stupid I am to his firm just to shame me. I have expected him to sack me, yet, I don't see that coming and he is not doing like any who will sack me anytime soon.
But this year, we say NO GREE FOR ANYBODY. I went back to my digital works and he has been very mad that I am in his firm making use of my phone to post my business on Facebook and WhatsApp, that why should I do that?
Pls fams, does this really add up that I should resign? Hunger can't kill me because my online is paying and many jobs full here. I tried submitting my CV for interview and guess what, I went for 4 interviews this week only and has 2 interviews Monday and Tuesday next week. Also, 2 company's called me to resume work this coming Monday, one offered me 100k, the other 80k but I have declined 1 and will decline the other today. So, I am very sound that I can get a better place and i know my job very well. Why I am not doing up to his expectations is because the firm is big with 3 company's inside the industry and I am the only accountant, cashier, and Clark to myself. So, isn't easy. And he wants me to do both manual recording and digital recordings which I told him it can't work because it is only me.
So, should I quit or stay for few months because I have a financial target of 150k in 2 - 3 months time. Also, my girlfriend called me lately that she has taken in...
Your advice pls It's like your salary is huge, cos that's the only reason that I can fathom that is still keeping you there. 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by RuddyFusion(m): 4:19pm On Jan 16 |
What will I be doing in a place with so much mental abuse?
Your pay is small and the new offers you claim to have rejected are poor too.....
What exactly will one do with a job of 100 - 150k in today's Nigeria? What exactly?
If your online hustle pays, then face it and build it up..... 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by AgbadoDie: 4:28pm On Jan 16 |
UnemployedGradu:
you are qualified..but wait will you be 28 this year or last year? 28 by April this year |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by AgbadoDie: 4:29pm On Jan 16 |
RuddyFusion:
What will I be doing in a place with so much mental abuse?
Your pay is small and the new offers you claim to have rejected are poor too.....
What exactly will one do with a job of 100 - 150k in today's Nigeria? What exactly?
If your online hustle pays, then face it and build it up..... Yes, I want to face it squarely by March because I want to buy some equipments that are needed in some of the jobs they call me on in the online side |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by AgbadoDie: 4:33pm On Jan 16 |
Mom007:
That man is abusing you and other staff. Please leave there and show him that he is not God. If you leave, he will probably calm down and begin to treat others better. Also, learn how to sell yourself and negotiate for better pay. Know your worth. If any employerbis offering you anything less than 200k, tell them that you will only work 4 days out if 5 or something like that so you can use the extra day off for your personal runs. Never let any employer feel they are your all in all unless they are paying you all in all money. I wish you all d best going forward, it seems your self esteem has taken a terrible battering. Certainly, I would have dropped. But to be honest, 3 of our major staff didn't return this year because he is owing them huge salaru and it's a big blow to him. So, me the accountant come stop now, actually, it will cause him emotional trauma because the Admin block will be empty only with the secretary and receptionist left. But once I have good offer now up to 150k or 200k and the firm will pay me as at when due, I will stop. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Kings0042(m): 5:12pm On Jan 16 |
That's very good of you. Please I'm also a data analyst and Business Intelligence Analyst. I'm open for similar opportunities incase you have any to aid me with. Thank you.
Attached below is my mail id...
kingsley.agbo042@gmail.com |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Karlifate: 5:47pm On Jan 16 |
SharingIsLife:
They don't pay you as and when due.
They don't respect you.
You have other offers
Your gf is pregnant.
So, why are you asking us what to do?
OK, stay there till 2047. Nigerians are conditioned from childhood to always suffer before they make it, that's why the fear of unknown keeps them stagnant on bad jobs. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by samwash(m): 7:03pm On Jan 16 |
Your present job pays you 100k & you got an offer of almost same amount, moreso you receive insults upon insults yet you don't want to leave the toxic environment, and salary is not been paid as at when due.
What do you gain from that environment, abi you dey pay yourself salary before your oga actually pay you. If not that you are seeing sidecuts, I don't understand why you should be there. Abi you are planning to take over the company from your Boss. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by MeineMutter: 7:57pm On Jan 16 |
Write this down: the moment an accountant doesn’t start his or her career from a reputable multinational company or any of the Big 4 audit firms, such accountant shouldn’t stay more than 3 years, max in any local company. Otherwise, the accountant is on a looooonnnnnng thing.
Those stea1ing in a company would still stay I. Such companies sha and weather all the insults and abuses.
Brotherly, jé kí awó lo. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by nedekid: 8:47pm On Jan 16 |
Wahala. You said you got offer of 100k, does that mean you currently earn less than 100k as an accountant?  Kai, naija under apc has really dealt with Nigerians, haba! OP, just be patient until you find something better doing and then take your leave. Don't do it under quarrel situation. |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Aplaudez(m): 9:20pm On Jan 16 |
Please kindly help me with your WhatsApp contact.
Thanks |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by Aplaudez(m): 9:21pm On Jan 16 |
AgbadoDie:
Please kindly inbox me your WhatsApp contact.
Thanks
You can 1 Like |
| Re: Should This Make Me To Quit My Job? by duduade: 4:48am On Jan 17 |
UnemployedGradu:
your girlfriend has taken in.. don't you use Condoms? Of withdrawal? I have stayed with an ex girlfriend for 6 month and we had sex constantly but I was always using withdrawal and never got pregnant. So you have Normal sex 0f releasing semen inside her and you expect her not to be pregnant? So you can't purchase rubber The day this withdrawal method will mess you up your eyes go clear |
