my babe and i hav bin dating for d past 3 yrs and though we love each oda, d rlshp cant b described as a roller-coaster one(we've had reasons to breakup @ times).she was ma first bleep and vice versa). however during our last attempt to reconcile, she told me dt during d last breakup, she made out wit anoda guy. (during one of our breakups, she once told me somfn similar, only for ha to tell me she was jokin). i have never bleeped any oda babe in ma life before, even during our breakups.i feel so let-down and i doubt if i'd ever love ha again like before, though she's a gud person and she 's well behaved. hw can one clear such tots frm one's mind??

you just have to accept it. i mean she didn't cheat on you. you guys were broken up so she was fair game.
if you still care about her, just forget it and move on

she didnt even do nothing if *making out* is what i understand it to be.
Besides,she wasnt cheating.she had everything reason to make out or sleep with whoever since you guys had broken up.
Get over yourself man and look beyond your nose.focus on how happy she makes you and what a wonderful person she is.

d rationale behind ma sadness is d timelag mehn. we broke up for 3 months only for us to cme back and she dropped d bombshell.

Go ask Ross and rachel.  

OP, You guys were on a break. So technically, she didn't cheat on you.
But if you can't deal with it, walk away or get even.  

dademola:

d rationale behind ma sadness is d timelag mehn. we broke up for 3 months only for us to cme back and she dropped d bombshell.

3 months is quite long. 1 week sef too much. You don't expect most people to wait that long. Well, look on the bright side, she f*ked someone else and still came back to you; maybe the other guy wasn't that good. 

dademola:

d rationale behind ma sadness is d timelag mehn. we broke up for 3 months only for us to cme back and she dropped d bombshell.

3 months and all she did was make out   count your self lucky. Abeg forget that non issue and fix your relationship bec ;Duse the next 3 months you break up will be more than just amake out session

d ish is dt she never struck me as dt kind of babe. i tot she was one of dose babes dt will lock-up for sometime(considering all we've bin thru togeda). and if i may ask, wot kld b worse dan dis

lindabon:


3 months is quite long. 1 week sef too much. You don't expect most people to wait that long. Well, look on the bright side, she f*ked someone else and still came back to you; maybe the other guy wasn't that good.  

dats consoling



poster

you sef wan eat your cake still get am

dademola:

d ish is dt she never struck me as dt kind of babe. i tot she was one of dose babes dt will lock-up for sometime(considering all we've bin thru togeda). and[b] if i may ask, wot kld b worse dan dis[/b]

a number of things could have been worse. example what if you found out that she picked fights with you just because she needed an excuse to break up to marry someone else? or what if after the 3 months when you went back to get her back she refused to take you back or you find out that when you broke up she slept with a friend or your brother or you found out she had been cheating the whole time you were together or you find out that when she said she made out with a guy she realy meant that she gave him a bj and you have been kissing her.

im not trying to create more issues for you to think about but seriously you guys were broken up and with that fact she can do what ever or who ever she chooses. if you are going to get back together you need to just suck it up and move on from what it is that is pissing you off or set her free. trust me you wont be missed.

dademola:

d ish is dt she never struck me as dt kind of babe. i tot she was one of dose babes dt will lock-up for sometime(considering all we've bin thru togeda). and if i may ask, wot kld b worse dan dis

why do/did you think/expect her to lock up for sometime?
How would she have known you guys were going to get back together?
And if i may tell you,these are what could have been worse-what if she had caught on some disease of some kind when you went back to her?,what if she was pregnant or in another serious relationship?what if she didnt even tell you about it and you got to find out much later?

it all boils down to one thing: if a babe don straff once, dia's no stopin ha again. . it took me like 4 months to lay her while it only took d guy 2 months. na to dey straff ha remain joor