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Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Anthonia69(f): 6:16pm On Feb 01
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Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 4:54am On Feb 02
DrFunmisticGlow:
Eben reverend sisters and full blown hijabites have been raped before. Men should cultivate self control and discipline. Simple
True
Now answer
How many Rev sisters
How many recalcitrant women
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 4:55am On Feb 02
DrFunmisticGlow:
A mentality like yours is why many men will die alone in old age
so
Is that supposed to scare us
We already dying alone while carrying worthless ungrateful women's burden with their bastard children (30% fà)
Better tí díè alone than tó bẹ́ẹ̀ scanned and then die alone
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by DancingDagger(m): 11:56am On Feb 02
Anashe:


This is how you fail exams. You're on the wrong thread. Read!



Yet it’s about the most liked🤡
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Blackdisciple(m): 11:42pm On Feb 02
Sure it's for women because it's a rubbish talk 😭
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by pansophist(m): 11:53pm On Feb 02
There is no such thing as a friendzone.

Or let me put it this way. Only an idiot ends up in the friend zone.

If a woman does not want you, accept it, and move on. She is just one, out of billions out there, and it is your desperation to personalize her that makes you see her as what she is not. Just like you, she is an imperfect, insecure, mortal human.

Real men are rejected also, rejection speaks more about the rejecter, as much as the rejected. A child will always choose a biscuit over a million-dollar cheque, but that doesn't mean the cheque has lost its value.

Being rejected is not evidence of a defect, it can be, but it is not always. Rejection can also be evidence of a lack of depth, superficiality, and even stupidity of the rejecter.

If your intentions are pure, you know you wish her well, and you have tangible and intangible resources to make her life easier if she comes into your life, then it's her loss if she rejects you.

If you separate emotions from reasoning, then you should ask yourself why you are grieving over someone who doesn't want you, and even make it clear so you don't waste your time.

Real men accept they are not wanted and leave, but idiotic men lock themselves in the friendzone hoping for a miracle, which will always never happen.

So yea, there is no such thing as friendzone, just as no one will make you a slave without your consent.

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Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 9:48pm On Feb 08
DrFunmisticGlow:
Eben reverend sisters and full blown hijabites have been raped before. Men should cultivate self control and discipline. Simple
Men?
What%age of men rape?
Talk like an educated person now
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 9:49pm On Feb 08
DrFunmisticGlow:
A mentality like yours is why many men will die alone in old age
We've always died alone.
We embrace it
But you see women dying alone is ugly cos now their dumbasses have to sell old wrinkled puccy to their children's mate to survive
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:31am On Feb 09
Cromagnon:
Men?
What%age of men rape?
Talk like an educated person now
This is a dumb question. No matter what number the percentage is, it is too high. Nobody deserves to be raped.
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Silentgroper(m): 11:30am On Feb 09
pansophist:
There is no such thing as a friendzone.

Or let me put it this way. Only an idiot ends up in the friend zone.

If a woman does not want you, accept it, and move on. She is just one, out of billions out there, and it is your desperation to personalize her that makes you see her as what she is not. Just like you, she is an imperfect, insecure, mortal human.

Real men are rejected also, rejection speaks more about the rejecter, as much as the rejected. A child will always choose a biscuit over a million-dollar cheque, but that doesn't mean the cheque has lost its value.

Being rejected is not evidence of a defect, it can be, but it is not always. Rejection can also be evidence of a lack of depth, superficiality, and even stupidity of the rejecter.

If your intentions are pure, you know you wish her well, and you have tangible and intangible resources to make her life easier if she comes into your life, then it's her loss if she rejects you.

If you separate emotions from reasoning, then you should ask yourself why you are grieving over someone who doesn't want you, and even make it clear so you don't waste your time.

Real men accept they are not wanted and leave, but idiotic men lock themselves in the friendzone hoping for a miracle, which will always never happen.

So yea, there is no such thing as friendzone, just as no one will make you a slave without your consent.



Some decides to lurk around the friendzone cause of the coochie only ... When they get it they bounce ...


Just to say . Your write up is apt as hell...
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by pansophist(m): 3:01pm On Feb 09
Silentgroper:



Some decide to lurk around the friendzone cause of the coochie only ... When they get it they bounce ...


Just to say. Your write-up is apt as hell...

Wrong strategy. That's giving too much value to the coochie. In this coochie democracy, a man will lurk around just for one?

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Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Raalsalghul: 6:38pm On Feb 09
DrFunmisticGlow:
Men please learn how to look after yourself. Cook, clean up after yourself, please don't sleep with a woman without protection if you know you are not ready to be responsible for her and the child.

Sound.
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Silentgroper(m): 10:11pm On Feb 09
pansophist:


Wrong strategy. That's giving too much value to the coochie. In this coochie democracy, a man will lurk around just for one?
some guys would let no coochie pass them by without them having a taste of it ..


They don't care if they have access to 100 coochies ..
That very one which is proving stubborn is the one they'll want to devour with optimum satisfaction ..


You get nw
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 6:49am On Feb 15
DrFunmisticGlow:
This is a dumb question. No matter what number the percentage is, it is too high. Nobody deserves to be raped.
You are a dumb person to compare minority with all men
It'd like me calling all women prostitutes because of few ones
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by DrFunmisticGlow: 9:35am On Feb 15
Cromagnon:

You are a dumb person to compare minority with all men
It'd like me calling all women prostitutes because of few ones
I never said all men rape. I know they are in the minority, but no matter how much of a minority they are they are still too many. Theyshould not exist. Besides these minority are painting the majority in a bad light. Bad men thrive when good men keep silent.
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 8:36am On Feb 17
DrFunmisticGlow:
I never said all men rape. I know they are in the minority, but no matter how much of a minority they are they are still too many

agreed



.. Theyshould not exist.

agreed



.Besides these minority are painting the majority in a bad light.

no, you are



.Bad men thrive when good men keep silent.
what is holding your hand
Are you a bad man
Did you report them and good men refuse To help?
Are good men wizards to know rapists by just feeling the spirit. ?
You go school na
Pretend like you learnt something there now
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:08pm On Feb 17
Cromagnon:


agreed





agreed





no, you are



what is holding your hand
Are you a bad man
Did you report them and good men refuse To help?
Are good men wizards to know rapists by just feeling the spirit. ?
You go school na
Pretend like you learnt something there now
Pertend you don't know that The actions of rapists, molesters, pedophiles, wife beaters and so on affect how women will see all men. They are the reason the average woman cannot walk down her street safely at night. Let's not talk about kidnappers, ritualistic and robbers.

The same way the actions of a few scammers, 419ers and yahoo yahoo boys paint all Nigerians in a bad light to the international community. So why haven't you done anything to stop it? Why didn't you report the ones you know to the authorities, afterall you also went to school.

Mtcheew!!!

Talking as if the average nigerian man treats women with respect and values their opinion. They will only listen when it is from their fellow men.
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 2:00am On Feb 19
DrFunmisticGlow:
Pertend you don't know that The actions of rapists, molesters, pedophiles, wife beaters and so on affect how women will see all men.
They are the reason the average woman cannot walk down her street safely at night.
Wrong
Most women walk safely
They just scared cos they refused to stay safely in the cave and wanted To experience danger like the men knowing full well they are not equipped for the ordeal

That's a choice

You could've been a housewife but chose to risk it all on career

Don't cry now

Guys Have accepted our fate

Or you think we don't want sugar mummy
You think we walk Safely

No, we risk it cos the family must be provided for

Let's not talk about kidnappers, ritualistic and robbers.
Yet we all go out everyday
Ppl have car accidents
I don't see you ditching your cars



Anyone who paints all of something based on a tiny %age is fool

The same way the actions of a few scammers, 419ers and yahoo yahoo boys paint all Nigerians in a bad light to the international community.
Yet we dominate
Victim hood will not help you

So why haven't you done anything to stop it? Why didn't you report the ones you know to the authorities, afterall you also went to school.

Mtcheew!!!

Talking as if the average nigerian man treats women with respect and values their opinion.
Yes they do
Otherwise you would not be allowed to own a phone
You would've been stoned to death

But we don't do that
But CNN propaganda Don dabaru una feminist brain


They will only listen when it is from their fellow men.
Are you a man
How do you know what men listen to

Not all men get to talk woman

If you Talk rubbish you will be shut up violently
So men only talk when it makes Sense

But women just run their mouth cos men made a rule not to hit women, yet feminists stupidly say men, don't defend them.

Very funny of y'all
Very funny indeed
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by DrFunmisticGlow: 7:55am On Feb 19
Cromagnon:

Wrong
Most women walk safely
They just scared cos they refused to stay safely in the cave and wanted To experience danger like the men knowing full well they are not equipped for the ordeal

That's a choice

You could've been a housewife but chose to risk it all on career

Don't cry now

Guys Have accepted our fate

Or you think we don't want sugar mummy
You think we walk Safely

No, we risk it cos the family must be provided for


Yet we all go out everyday
Ppl have car accidents
I don't see you ditching your cars




Anyone who paints all of something based on a tiny %age is fool

Yet we dominate
Victim hood will not help you



Yes they do
Otherwise you would not be allowed to own a phone
You would've been stoned to death

But we don't do that
But CNN propaganda Don dabaru una feminist brain



Are you a man
How do you know what men listen to


Not all men get to talk woman

If you Talk rubbish you will be shut up violently
So men only talk when it makes Sense


But women just run their mouth cos men made a rule not to hit women, yet feminists stupidly say men, don't defend them.

Very funny of y'all
Very funny indeed

@ bolded
It shows that you are very ignorant and poorly traveled with no empathy, only good for beer parlor talk.

@ red
You just confirmed your foolishness with temerity. You have no knowledge of how things came to be qnd lack critical thinking skills.

Why should a woman be a stay at home wife? Forsaking her identity and surname to be somebody's wife, putting her life,risking her body to bear his children and risking her financial future into the hands of a man who doesn't appreciate the fact that being a housewife is way harder than having a career. Into the hands of a man like you who doesn't know the true value of what a housewife contributes to the family by sacrifice herself.

Into the hands of a man whose still cheat on her, still abuse her, still run away and abandon her to fend for children.

God never intended for women to stay at home. Society didn't even intend for women to stay at home all through the centuries. In biblical times women never stayed at home. Even the Proverbs 31 women stayed at home. All through history only the wives and daughters of nobility and royalty stayed at home with the intention of rearing them to be beautiful and dainty so as to be auctioned off for marriage.
The working class husband's, wives and children worked for a living.

Women worked during world War I & Ii.
Women only had to stay at home after the war because many physically and mentally unstable war veterans returned and needed work, it was dangerous to keep them idle. There was also an economic boom post WWII with the addition of rapid industrialization and inventions in the last century. It was due to this that one person's salary was enough to look after a family. That is not the case today. I recommend you read history books and critically appraise them.

@ purple: Men are more likely to get into car accidents than women. Look up the statistics.


@ brown: The real person with a victim mentality here is YOU. Crying about CNN agenda and feminism. You are just angry as men because the power you wield in society is decreasing both in the home front and in the workplace. Feminism was never meant to replace nor emasculated men, but to make women treated like human beings, not property. Although I agree that the movement was polluted as all good movements are e.g EndSars, civil rights, ROE v WADE, black lives matter.

@ green: I don't need need to be a man to know what men listen to. Even AI can figure that out.

@blue: your mouth is smelling on this forum. As I have typed and proved. The only person writing rubbish is YOU so SHUT THE FVCK UP and logout if you refuse to learn something. I will no longer waste my energy to type to your replies or give the time of the day to a cowardly man who has all the smoke for a weak woman like me🤭🦋 but is silent like a 🐁🐁 in front of his peers. Good day

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Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 3:39pm On Feb 21
DrFunmisticGlow:

@ bolded
It shows that you are very ignorant and poorly traveled with no empathy, only good for beer parlor talk.

@ red
You just confirmed your foolishness with temerity. You have no knowledge of how things came to be qnd lack critical thinking skills.


You are the fool
Notice how you have no facts
Just insults
Shows how your mother failed to train you
Now you've taken after her
So I will redoing in kind
.
Why should a woman be a stay at home wife?


To take care for her children you dolt

. Forsaking her identity and surname to be somebody's wife,


What is her identity
Cumbucket?

.
putting her life,risking her body to bear his children and risking her financial future into the hands of a man who doesn't appreciate the fact that being a housewife is way harder than having a career. Into the hands of a man like you who doesn't know the true value of what a housewife contributes to the family by sacrifice herself.


Winter is coming
Wet will see who is risking her life
You with no man
Or men protecting their families from slavery

.
Into the hands of a man whose still cheat on her, still abuse her, still run away and abandon her to fend for children.

Why did you pick an abuser (cos your mom din teach you how to pick a man)
Men don't run away(women leave 80% of the time
Why won't he abandon you ń you chose a useless man using wrong criteria now blaming the world for your foolishnesd

.
God never intended for women to stay at home.


Are you God
Better read your Bible well and stop blaspheming

Why is it only women that can have children
How many useful things can women replace men at without perishing in large numbers.
How many of you are welders plumbers or hunters?
Better stop drinking oyinbo kool aid
. Society didn't even intend for women to stay at home all through the centuries. In biblical times women never stayed at home. Even the Proverbs 31 women stayed at home.


See spirit of confusion

. All through history only the wives and daughters of nobility and royalty stayed at home with the intention of rearing them to be beautiful and dainty so as to be auctioned off for marriage.
The working class husband's, wives and children worked for a living.

So you prefer to be working clad instead of nobility
Is now I know your mad


.
Women worked during world War I & Ii.


So you want war to continue
Ment

.
Women only had to stay at home after the war because many physically and mentally unstable war veterans returned and needed work, it was dangerous to keep them idle.

But you want to keep them idle now. It's no more dangerous abi
You see your smooth brain on display


. There was also an economic boom post WWII with the addition of rapid industrialization and inventions in the last century. It was due to this that one person's salary was enough to look after a family. That is not the case today. I recommend you read history books and critically appraise them.

Women doubled the Labour supply and halved earnings
You better read economics books and stop listening to propaganda to make you abandon your primary role and become a wage slave to firms that will spit you out if you can't come to work on time 3 times while wise women are raising their children so the state does not make them into degenerates like you.

.
@ purple: Men are more likely to get into car accidents than women. Look up the statistics.


Men drive more than women
Look up the statistics

.

@ brown: The real person with a victim mentality here is YOU. Crying about CNN agenda and feminism. You are just angry as men because the power you wield in society is decreasing both in the home front and in the workplace.


What power
We can take whatever we want if we choose to
You can only yap like this cos men make it so
Or is it policewoman that will enforce your privileges
Even those few men that do its because the other men don't want to beat them up and they respect your right to choose to be a slave.
Go work and pay taxes let's see how it will turn out for you when you're too old to have children or get a man you want and have to manage whatever you can get
95% of women cannot retire o
Life is tough as an old woman with no children o


. Feminism was never meant to replace nor emasculated men, but to make women treated like human beings, not property. Although I agree that the movement was polluted as all good movements are e.g EndSars, civil rights, ROE v WADE, black lives matter.


Of its polluted then you leave
But go on
We are going to pop corn to watch the train wreck
Shebi you're all panicking now that men are ignoring you and calling out your bs


.
@ green: I don't need need to be a man to know what men listen to. Even AI can figure that out.


Keep telling yourself that
Shebi you have coconut head
You will learn the hard way

.
@blue: your mouth is smelling on this forum. As I have typed and proved. The only person writing rubbish is YOU so SHUT THE FVCK UP and logout if you refuse to learn something. I will no longer waste my energy to type to your replies or give the time of the day to a cowardly man who has all the smoke for a weak woman like me🤭🦋 but is silent like a 🐁🐁 in front of his peers. Good day
they're out is
No home training
Now covering it with she doesn't need a man
Na, you can't get one and none wants you that's why you're unraveling

But you will make an excellent learning tool for the ones coming behind you

An example if what not to do
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 5:57am On Mar 14
DrFunmisticGlow:

@ bolded
It shows that you are very ignorant and poorly traveled with no empathy, only good for beer parlor talk.

@ red
You just confirmed your foolishness with temerity. You have no knowledge of how things came to be qnd lack critical thinking skills.

Why should a woman be a stay at home wife? Forsaking her identity and surname to be somebody's wife, putting her life,risking her body to bear his children and risking her financial future into the hands of a man who doesn't appreciate the fact that being a housewife is way harder than having a career. Into the hands of a man like you who doesn't know the true value of what a housewife contributes to the family by sacrifice herself.

Into the hands of a man whose still cheat on her, still abuse her, still run away and abandon her to fend for children.

God never intended for women to stay at home. Society didn't even intend for women to stay at home all through the centuries. In biblical times women never stayed at home. Even the Proverbs 31 women stayed at home. All through history only the wives and daughters of nobility and royalty stayed at home with the intention of rearing them to be beautiful and dainty so as to be auctioned off for marriage.
The working class husband's, wives and children worked for a living.

Women worked during world War I & Ii.
Women only had to stay at home after the war because many physically and mentally unstable war veterans returned and needed work, it was dangerous to keep them idle. There was also an economic boom post WWII with the addition of rapid industrialization and inventions in the last century. It was due to this that one person's salary was enough to look after a family. That is not the case today. I recommend you read history books and critically appraise them.

@ purple: Men are more likely to get into car accidents than women. Look up the statistics.


@ brown: The real person with a victim mentality here is YOU. Crying about CNN agenda and feminism. You are just angry as men because the power you wield in society is decreasing both in the home front and in the workplace. Feminism was never meant to replace nor emasculated men, but to make women treated like human beings, not property. Although I agree that the movement was polluted as all good movements are e.g EndSars, civil rights, ROE v WADE, black lives matter.

@ green: I don't need need to be a man to know what men listen to. Even AI can figure that out.

@blue: your mouth is smelling on this forum. As I have typed and proved. The only person writing rubbish is YOU so SHUT THE FVCK UP and logout if you refuse to learn something. I will no longer waste my energy to type to your replies or give the time of the day to a cowardly man who has all the smoke for a weak woman like me🤭🦋 but is silent like a 🐁🐁 in front of his peers. Good day
Yep you're done
Enjoy dying alone
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by DrFunmisticGlow: 12:07pm On Mar 14
Cromagnon:

Yep you're done
Enjoy dying alone
This is all you have to say.
So much for being the logical gender.

Dying alone is not an effective threat. We all die alone anyways. Besides men are more likely to die lonely than women are
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by Cromagnon: 9:28pm On Mar 16
DrFunmisticGlow:
This is all you have to say.
So much for being the logical gender.

It is logical
80% of feminist die alone, google it


Dying alone is not an effective threat.

Yes it is
Just wait for the second shoe to drop
You will beg homeless men to marry you then

We all die alone anyways.

Keep telling yourself that

Besides men are more likely to die lonely than women are
exactly
We used to it
We designed to handle it

Y'all ain'

Winter is coming
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by torqque7(m): 11:05am On Mar 17
EreluRoz:
Give your women ATTENTION and CARE else she'll slip away. If you can't offer this two then leave women alone.
STORY STORY..if you like give her your life if she is for the streets she will always be for the streets even if na you first knack am..speaking from experience man..this babe begged me not to break her heart o lol,I just dey look am as she dey beg because I know say she go still fvck up based on say na student she be but I just follow am jeje until she finally fvckup and I catch am lol..I was extra nice to her because I was her first but that was still not enough for her o,most irritating thing be say the guy wey knack am was without con.dom sef and Yahoo boy wey no sabi construct complete sentence 🤣🤣. You won't believe this babe sabi jealous well well.
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by EreluRoz: 11:11am On Mar 17
torqque7:

STORY STORY..if you like give her your life if she is for the streets she will always be for the streets even if na you first knack am..speaking from experience man..this babe begged me not to break her heart o lol,I just dey look am as she dey beg because I know say she go still fvck up based on say na student she be but I just follow am jeje until she finally fvckup and I catch am lol..I was extra nice to her because I was her first but that was still not enough for her o,most irritating thing be say the guy wey knack am was without con.dom sef and Yahoo boy wey no sabi construct complete sentence 🤣🤣. You won't believe this babe sabi jealous well well.
She doesn't love you, or was not content with you. Maybe the other guy got her through gifts
Re: Straight Talk: Just For Women : Advice Men On Anything by torqque7(m): 4:00pm On Mar 17
EreluRoz:
She doesn't love you, or was not content with you. Maybe the other guy got her through gifts

Maybe he did I don't know and I don't even care because she proved how cheap she is and not worth my commitment so we move..

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