In what circumstances,can u term 'falling in love' to be wrong? Cause i just get myself broken
by the one i trully love, and how can i cope without her in my life. Pls sm contribution,

Sorry about ur heart break. I have not gone thru it before but I think You should cry ur heart out then get up, do things u like doing,have friends around. Try not calling the person Life continues.

Being heart broken can sometimes be fun! It bring out the worst and the best from the couple. It add or subtract wisdom to the individuals; it is one way to understand the power of our emotion.

I have gone through one, and it was both painful and fun. It make me a better and more understanding person. I know one thing though: I CAN NEVER PASS THROUGH ANY ONE AGAIN. NOT FROM LOVE, NEVER!


Sometimes, when it happen, you would wish the world come to an end. Disappointment in capital letters. Pain on your heart as if pierced by a sharp arrow. It is only if you did not invest in the relationship that you would not be hurt. And a wicked soul that sparked the problem, may feel unconcerned.

Mind you, the cause of heartbreak can be both internal or external. Internal, when either or both party are involved. External, when a third party enter the picture. Third party can be, gossipers, liars, husband/wife snatcher, parents, materialsm etc.

When it happen, there are ways to make it less painful. The world would not come to an end.

You need support to lean on. My adopted sister play a crucial role. We talked about it. And many more.

People often says "cry your heart, move on"! It is easier said than done. Who wear the shoe know it all. While the statement is true, it may be insufficient.

You can forgive. How easy is it to forget?

You just have to choose between wrecking your life with worry and picking up the broken pieces for mending! Life is short already, don't shorten it further!

I dread heartbreaks. though i have never been a victim and do not hope to be one. i have been through it with a few friends, and i know a mess they turn into during such period. i suggest you just forget about it and move one.

That is the real problem. Forgetting about! It is difficult to forget, my friend.

Thankz all for the contributions, its kind of a bit hard 4 me to carry on now,
all because we get to see each other every single day , i only hope that Heaven
will see me thru, Am hurt,

Do u really want to get over it?

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The experience of a broken heart could be so painful and demoralising. I got my heart broken just once and the experience wasn't too good because i was still quite young then

It happened in my second year in the university(2001) and i was just 20yrs then. I loved that girl more than my life then and i believed she felt the same way too until she came up with ace. she couldnt even find a better day to do that to me except on my birthday.

The only thing i can advise is to brace up and look before u leap

Being heart broken is never really one sided at the end of the day, especially when the couple ideally loved each other.

U may be d one to suffer d pain now, but a time will come when d other will suffer, which is usually more,(when obviously she realizes) but by this time its usually too late, to have a come back. At that time u feel very good with urself, in control of an another's emotion, that may not be able to save or help.

No body can tell u how to get over it, just get over it.