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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by UptownVibes(m): 8:00am On Feb 09
Cassandraloius:
Why did he give birth to them without knowing his responsibility?
Why did the woman open legs for an irresponsible man.. Let her take care of the kids alone,and assume the man is late. Arresting him won't make him change.. Abi he go dey make money inside cell to take care of the children. He is just not responsible .. Maybe a drunk,womanizer or a gambler.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Adeneeyee84: 8:01am On Feb 09
Deadbeat father of the century

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by ivolt: 8:03am On Feb 09
Princedapace:


Which kind country be this? So, women cant take care of them selves?
Did you even read the news?

You mean women should take care of jointly made children while
the men roam about spending on clubs and hookup babes?

If you don't want to care for children, don't have kids.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by buJu234: 8:05am On Feb 09
Jennyclay:
If you know you would turn out to be a useless irresponsible headless father then stay away from a relationship/marriage. undecided

It’s high time the court make it Mandatory punishment for any man that can’t take good care of his wife, children or girlfriend undecided

Nonsense men everywhere!!

Girl friend ke..

Dey play..

Girl friend bill is her own father's responsibility not the boyfriend ok

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by lawrenzooo: 8:12am On Feb 09
ivolt:
Many bubbles will bursts the day Nigeria enacts a proper and mandatory childcare regardless of marital status.
Currently, some baby fathers have to be begged via uncles and their parents before they give a dime.
Some even punish their "disobedient" baby mamas by witholding the children school fees and brag about it.

Before you talk about being "trapped" with pregnancy, you are only justified in 2 scenarios.
The first is rape and the other is that you are so mentally slow that you don't know that what you engaged
in can lead to pregnancy.

To enact such Law their has to be proof beyond doubt that you are the Father. Trust me some men would deny paternity until they are confronted with undeniable evidence (DNA test). Hopefully we get there someday.
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by franugo(m): 8:13am On Feb 09
Jennyclay:
If you know you would turn out to be a useless irresponsible headless father then stay away from a relationship/marriage. undecided

It’s high time the court make it Mandatory punishment for any man that can’t take good care of his wife, children or girlfriend undecided

Nonsense men everywhere!!

Girlfriend ke?
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by lawrenzooo: 8:14am On Feb 09
post=128363601:

Will you stop that please.

#RespectWomen Humans.
#Be a Gentleman.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by ivolt: 8:19am On Feb 09
lawrenzooo:


To enact such Law their has to be proof beyond doubt that you are the Father. Trust me some men would deny paternity until they are confronted with undeniable evidence (DNA test). Hopefully we get there someday.
For sure some men will deny but this is mute, it takes less than 6 days to confirm or deny the paternity of a child.

Majority won't deny like the man in this article, he simply doesn't want to pay for personal reasons.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by sageb: 8:22am On Feb 09
NaijaCoverBlog:


Source: https://punchng.com/akwa-ibom-court-orders-mans-arrest-over-refusal-to-care-for-children/

Serves him right
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Fiscus105(m): 8:22am On Feb 09
Bulldozer90:
Nothing will come out of it. Family issues are best handled traditionally and not in court.



And u dnt think, families hadn't be exhausted before wife headed to court?


Is it possible for wife not to report him to his people first, before going to court?


You guys should think deeply and broadly before writing on public forum pls.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Trophy12: 8:24am On Feb 09
Jennyclay:
If you know you would turn out to be a useless irresponsible headless father then stay away from a relationship/marriage. undecided

It’s high time the court make it Mandatory punishment for any man that can’t take good care of his wife, children or girlfriend undecided

Nonsense men everywhere!!
this woman have been waiting for your comment cuz your own eh , is something else anyway u get point Sha . But at times no go just talk waiting go make swear for u grin
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Panda7(m): 8:29am On Feb 09
If the said children do not live with the man, the court has no warrant to arrest him because children are supposed to provide help to their parents and that does not necessarily exclude financial help provided the parents have provided shelter.
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by chidi2003(m): 8:32am On Feb 09
Strafudeen:


Leave that witch alone oo...or else you will get hypertension and stroke
Don't be offended with Jennyclay! She needs economic employment. She will keep on ranting - unless - you will help her out!

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Strafudeen: 8:33am On Feb 09
chidi2003:

Don't be offended with Jennyclay! She needs economic employment. She will keep on ranting - unless - you will help her out!

Is her olosho work no longer paying
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Skillsnigeria: 8:34am On Feb 09
Hmmm
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by MASTERMIND04(m): 8:35am On Feb 09
Princedapace:


Which kind country be this? So, women cant take care of them selves?
As in ehnnn... Some women are funny. I don't know who told them that a man should take care of them o

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Hayaoga1(m): 8:39am On Feb 09
Jennyclay:
If you know you would turn out to be a useless irresponsible headless father then stay away from a relationship/marriage. undecided

It’s high time the court make it Mandatory punishment for any man that can’t take good care of his wife, children or girlfriend undecided

Nonsense men everywhere!!

Madam abeg remove the girlfriend
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by waveman2: 8:42am On Feb 09
Most Nigerian women are generally lazy that is why oyinbo no dey look their face for abroad.Go abroad family responsibility is shared between the man and the woman except the man is financial really ok.But here dem go marry man and expect him to carry the whole financial burden including that of their families.Nigerian men are really wonderful.
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Sparrk007(m): 8:45am On Feb 09
Jennyclay:
If you know you would turn out to be a useless irresponsible headless father then stay away from a relationship/marriage. undecided

It’s high time the court make it Mandatory punishment for any man that can’t take good care of his wife, children or girlfriend undecided

Nonsense men everywhere!!
Sister remove girlfriends let their parents cater for them till marriage grin grin
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Princedapace(m): 8:49am On Feb 09
ivolt:

Did you even read the news?

You mean women should take care of jointly made children while
the men roam about spending on clubs and hookup babes?

If you don't want to care for children, don't have kids.
Has any woman ever been arrested for abandoing their kids? Or dont women also abandon kids? Most times, men fund these kids alone even if the woman is with them. So, what is stopping women from doing same? The last time I checked, women abandon kids too and no one has ever arrested them.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Originalsly: 8:59am On Feb 09
Fiscus105:




And u dnt think, families had exhausted before wife went to court?


Is it possible for wife not to report him to his people first, before going to court?


You guys should think deeply and broadly before writing to public forum pls.


This seems to be a common problem... people just jump8ng to conclusions without paying attention to details. The judge is the man's brother ... so why would one even suggest the matter wasn't taken up by the family? Most likely he told family members they can kiss his ass ... that nobody can make him pay .... so they turned to the courts. He must be a werey for his brother to send him to prison.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Bulldozer90: 9:32am On Feb 09
Fiscus105:




And u dnt think, families had exhausted before wife went to court?


Is it possible for wife not to report him to his people first, before going to court?


You guys should think deeply and broadly before writing to public forum pls.
some things are beyond the courts. The court can punish him for not taking care of his children but that in itself will neither change the life of the children nor help the marriage. Even the punishment itself is legally weak in basis. Family is the most delicate institution and must be handled a such.
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by yeslollipop(f): 9:35am On Feb 09
waveman2:
Most Nigerian women are generally lazy that is why oyinbo no dey look their face for abroad.Go abroad family responsibility is shared between the man and the woman except the man is financial really ok.But here dem go marry man and expect him to carry the whole financial burden including that of their families.Nigerian men are really wonderful.

Nigerian women are one of the most hardworking women on earth, stop with the huge lies.
They are one of the few who have been able to juggle work and childcare, with no stress.

Men pay child support abroad to their "oyinbo wife". Stop with the hate against your own. No young and beautiful Oyinbo woman would look at your face twice, much less have your child unless you are a pro basketballer, well known actor, wealthy businessman or she needs to fulfill her fantasy of the infamous big black kock.

The best oyinbo YOU can probably get is the one who has been ran through by several white and black kocks, has been divorced at least twice and is old and looks like a whale. 🐋 The rejected ones grin grin grin

Go to foreign forums and see how they are looked down upon, for letting themselves lay down with a black man and becoming a baby mama to a black man.
The only incentive is if the black man comes with some big fame and mullah. Otherwise, the stigma remains forever. To the average oyinbo, you are a walking pernis. That is, you are only good for a shag.

Hardly do I know a family man who provides 100% for his family in Nigeria. When you are not Dangote or Otedola. Taaaah!!! How much is your yeye salary?
Abi is it not the same Nigerian men complaining of no jobs and N50K, N70K salary?

"Nigerian women are generally lazy" You think when you date an oyinbo, when you both come back from work after a stressful day... she will enter kitchen and start cooking while you lie down in the room watching Manchester vs Chelsea Match. Ndi ara! You go enter kitchen dey cut tomatoes and carrot 🥕. grin

I'm sorry to say, but you are a moomoo man.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Jokerman(m): 9:40am On Feb 09
They are much in Lagos.

You'd see their wives struggling and struggling to make ends meet...

Yet these same men will be chasing other women around with their 1 kobo..

It's a sad situation

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Jokerman(m): 9:41am On Feb 09
waveman2:
Most Nigerian women are generally lazy that is why oyinbo no dey look their face for abroad.Go abroad family responsibility is shared between the man and the woman except the man is financial really ok.But here dem go marry man and expect him to carry the whole financial burden including that of their families.Nigerian men are really wonderful.

Most Nigerian men are wicked.

If they don't kill their wives they won't be happy... And they will still be chasing other women around

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Jokerman(m): 9:42am On Feb 09
Princedapace:

Has any woman ever been arrested for abandoing their kids? Or dont women also abandon kids? Most times, men fund these kids alone even if the woman is with them. So, what is stopping women from doing same? The last time I checked, women abandon kids too and no one has ever arrested them.

Oga, God places responsibility on Man not woman..

This does not mean a woman should not help.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by mobileboy: 9:49am On Feb 09
Implement this in the North and see quarter of the adult male population going to jail

All them almajiri fathers
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by shiwex: 9:54am On Feb 09
All these rubbish laws from the west will not work in Nigeria. This is the same way the West women started to manipulate the society. You don't know the guys story so don't judge. What ie have now in the west is the guy cannot even see their children, they have been kicked out of their homes. Its all emotional manipulation by women. Niger men will never accept this.
Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Opeyemic01: 9:55am On Feb 09
This is good, don't give birth to children you can't take care of.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by yeslollipop(f): 9:58am On Feb 09
Jokerman:


Most Nigerian men are wicked.

If they don't kill their wives they won't be happy... And they will still be chasing other women around

Do not be surprised, even after killing their wives their next line of thought is "she has destroyed his life, making him land in jail."

Nigerian women have been able to juggle work, childcare, in - laws and so much more without stress, often neglecting themselves in the process.

Even the average "slay queen" on getting married will open a makeup store, sell cloths online or do something, anything to bring some bread home.
Majority of Nigerian men CAN SIMPLY NOT AFFORD to be the sole providers in the family but they boost their ego online by false statements.

If he provides his wife and children with all their needs singlehandedly, let him add her to Nairaland and let her testify.
You think providing for the family stops at giving her 4k to make pot of soup? grin Ndi ara
All the women in my apartment block go to their offices and shops in the morning and still manage to cater for the wellbeing of their children.

I magine that some of their husbands come online with the same sentiments. What a shame!

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by yeslollipop(f): 10:02am On Feb 09
shiwex:
All these rubbish laws from the west will not work in Nigeria. This is the same way the West women started to manipulate the society. You don't know the guys story so don't judge. What ie have now in the west is the guy cannot even see their children, they have been kicked out of their homes. Its all emotional manipulation by women. Niger men will never accept this.

Taking responsibility for your child is not a "rubbish law".

If it is, it simply makes you a rubbish, failed and useless father.
Take care of your kids or be ready to go to jail.

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Re: Akwa Ibom Court Orders Man’s Arrest Over Refusal To Care For Children by Jokerman(m): 10:20am On Feb 09
yeslollipop:


Do not be surprised, even after killing their wives their next line of thought is "she has destroyed his life, making him land in jail."

Nigerian women have been able to juggle work, childcare, in - laws and so much more without stress, often neglecting themselves in the process.

Even the average "slay queen" on getting married will open a makeup store, sell cloths online or do something, anything to bring some bread home.
Majority of Nigerian men CAN SIMPLY NOT AFFORD to be the sole providers in the family but they boost their ego online by false statements.

If he provides his wife and children with all their needs singlehandedly, let him add her to Nairaland and let her testify.
You think providing for the family stops at giving her 4k to make pot of soup? grin Ndi ara
All the women in my apartment block go to their offices and shops in the morning and still manage to cater for the wellbeing of their children.

I magine that some of their husbands come online with the same sentiments. What a shame!

I respect women a lot... With what I have seen ehn?? Imagine some women be feeding family on meagre teaching salaries, and their husband will be at home doing nothing with 3/4 children...

I can't begin to say.

When a man is going is duty, the woman will sing his praises, and will even offer to assist at home

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