Obainoman6:
she's a baby mama to a soldier

Lumarstone:
Invite another girl to your house in her presence

PureFace1:
No matter how amicable a girl is toward you to the extent of thinking that she really like you romantically as long as she reject you then she's not really interested in you as you thought everything is just in your head.

Anything after a girl reject you is just a waste of time because there are several girls out there even better than her that will agree to your request immediately you ask, you just have to go and find them instead of wasting your time on someone that don't really give a fvck about you.

Obainoman6:
There's this girl in my neighborhood, she's very beautiful, yellow skinned and working class.
After very much hi and frequent discussions i told this girl that i really like her and want to boyfriend her and that's when she told me she's a baby mama to a soldier and she's not interested in any relationship for now.
But here's the thing, we connect very well even without words, we listen to the same kind of music, we both listen to radio and we watch the same kind of movies.
Before i even talk sef d girl don dey blush, she's a good girl and shy girl tho not like your typical Nigerian girl like...
I don't need anyone to tell me this girl likes me
But anytime i bring up anything like we being romantically or love stuffs like she gets off.
To be honest i can't even help pretending around her because i want us to be more than friends and i also don't want to be her love slave as well.

I feel like i should just give space or withdraw or even ignore, Please experienced nairalanders i need your honest opinions please.

Fiscus105:



Deceving urself, perhaps you too weak in the game of toasting lady. If ur game is top notch, this type of girls are the one that usually fall yakata for guy. THOUGH, IF YOU ARE GOOD IN MIND GAMES AND MANIPULATING WOMAN.

PureFace1:

Even if your game is top notch you are a fool if you think you can seduce every women.

Perhaps i'm more knowledgeable than you to know that it doesn't really worth the effort at the long run when there are plenty women that will dig you immediately out there even if she is playing hard to get i don't have time to waste on women that play stupid games and disrespect my time and I respect myself. i know that i am the prize here.

You are the one that's weak here for not realizing when a woman is just not interested in you and move on instead of wasting your time and resources away. Think about it would she reject Wizkid or Davido or even Portable ?

It is people like you that come online to wail when a woman take advantaged of you and used you. Why wouldn't they take advantage of men like you when you are just too desperate and don't understand what "No" is ? why wouldn't they disrespect you when you worship, give cheap attention, waste your time and chase them around like a dog on leash but in your delusional mind you think you are a gods player or seducer lol, you will hate yourself if you see what these women think of men like you, even if they later considered you it's because they ran out of options and they wouldn't really respect you or treat you well because they didn't really want you in the first place, you were the one chasing them around like a loyal dog.

Think about it would you really reject a beautiful woman that you are interested in and she asked you out?

Would any of these young women in Nigeria reject Wizkid, Davido or any celebrities that ask them for a date ? these women wouldn't even reject a guy with a good car.

Why wouldn't these women later act out and disrespect you when you just wouldn't take the word no, you must respect yourself first before people can respect you. You don't have any value if you think rejection is a challenge instead of moving on with your life, would wizkid or Davido, Asake waste time on a woman that reject them ? because if even a woman reject them they have thousands that will dig them.

Fiscus105:




You are just wrote long epistle that potraited you, not only a weak but a foolish guy, well, nobody do competition with you on woman matter and no where you read that you must able to convince all females in the universe, but if you ask a lady out once and because she says no you chickened out, I repeat you are a woke* teenage boy.

Fiscus105:




You are just wrote long epistle that potraited you, not only a weak but a foolish guy, well, nobody do competition with you on woman matter and no where you read that you must able to convince all females in the universe, but if you ask a lady out once and because she says no you chickened out, I repeat you are a woke* teenage boy.

PureFace1:


I get better result with less effort and respect myself.

You are the weak and foolish guy here and you can continue to waste your time away chasing women no one care, what did you achieve with all the chase ? You only make the women to think they are goddesses and must be worship because fools like you waste your time on them.

Fiscus105:



But u claimed to be a champion? Are you chickened out ur usually way?

Let me tell you another attribute that you possessed, women would easily win argument over you, even when ur own opinions are better, cos of ur weak trait in nature.
Another one is that, you are a type that woman can cheat on easily, owing to ur weaker instinct, take for instant, if ur wife coming late, if u ask her, from where, and shout at you back, you will give in and accept ur faith.

PureFace1:

Even if your game is top notch you are a fool if you think you can seduce every women.

Perhaps i'm more knowledgeable than you to know that it doesn't really worth the effort at the long run when there are plenty women that will dig you immediately out there even if she is playing hard to get i don't have time to waste on women that play stupid games and disrespect my time and I respect myself. i know that i am the prize here.

You are the one that's weak here for not realizing when a woman is just not interested in you and move on instead of wasting your time and resources away. Think about it would she reject Wizkid or Davido or even Portable ?

It is people like you that come online to wail when a woman take advantaged of you and used you. Why wouldn't they take advantage of men like you when you are just too desperate and don't understand what "No" is ? why wouldn't they disrespect you when you worship, give cheap attention, waste your time and chase them around like a dog on leash but in your delusional mind you think you are a gods player or seducer lol, you will hate yourself if you see what these women think of men like you, even if they later considered you it's because they ran out of options and they wouldn't really respect you or treat you well because they didn't really want you in the first place, you were the one chasing them around like a loyal dog.

Think about it would you really reject a beautiful woman that you are interested in and she asked you out?

Would any of these young women in Nigeria reject Wizkid, Davido or any celebrities that ask them for a date ? these women wouldn't even reject a guy with a good car.

Why wouldn't these women later act out and disrespect you when you just wouldn't take the word no, you must respect yourself first before people can respect you. You don't have any value if you think rejection is a challenge instead of moving on with your life, would wizkid or Davido, Asake waste time on a woman that reject them ? because if even a woman reject them they have thousands that will dig them.

Fiscus105:




You are just wrote long epistle that potraited you, not only a weak but a foolish guy, well, nobody do competition with you on woman matter and no where you read that you must able to convince all females in the universe, but if you ask a lady out once and because she says no you chickened out, I repeat you are a woke* teenage boy.

PureFace1:


You are just delusional, so not chasing women now mean women can easily disrespect me? dude i walk away from women because i respect myself and wouldn't tolerate any disrespect. You are a loser if you don't realize No is No and even if she want you to chase harder who want to be with that kind of shittty woman ? that will keep playing stupid games and wouldn't respect you.

So if you are a champion it mean you must conquer every women and turn your self to a loser and don't respect yourself and lose respect in the process?

I am not going to waste my time chasing a woman doesn't mean i don't know how to handle women when it come to other issues and tolerate disrespect.

You think bickering with women make you strong ? you are still a kid.

I will never be in relationship with a woman that disrespect me, if she disrespect me in the relationship i will end it.

SouthSouth1914:
You made a mistake asking her out! Don’t ask her again, just do your normal stuffs with her. If she gives up that ass, she will be the one asking you “What are we now”?

Exceed15:
Ignore her. Keep ur greetings short. Stop rendering any assistance. Stop texting,Calling, checking on her. When u keep chasing, u won't give her time to think about u.

Fiscus105:



But u claimed to be a champion? Are you chickened out ur usually way?

Let me tell you another attribute that you possessed, women would easily win argument over you, even when ur own opinions are better, cos of ur weak trait in nature.
Another one is that, you are a type that woman can cheat on easily, owing to ur weaker instinct, take for instant, if ur wife coming late, if u ask her, from where? and she shout at you back, you will give in and accept ur faith.