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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Dtruthspeaker: 4:48pm On Mar 08
Draslo:

...Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

Here is 3
1) Men now dont easily rape because pressure is low.
2) They dont easily get turned on or Hot
3) They dont get to fall for any woman's evil, so technically they escape Satan's assitant.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by seborrhic: 4:49pm On Mar 08
Porn has always been there.
SM and specifically smart phones just made it more accessible.
Right from days of cassette videos to CD's then DVD's porn videos used to be sold in different formats over the ages.
People used to go buy them then when CD's and DVD's where the rave,then watch at home.
But now with data you can watch anytime,anywhere.
Phones and SM are the only difference.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Pristine664: 4:50pm On Mar 08
Feldie:
I was unable to get the point you were trying to make. Men used to marry 10 wives and have concubines, that's no longer possible. Would you rather the man spend most of his time trying to have sex with his wife or girlfriend and becomes a woman wrapper or sleep with different women who are probably filled to the brim of their vagina holes with different sorts of diseases? It's better he masturbates. I do feel those onlyfans subscribers are weird though. You don't really have any reason to pay for nudity.

You have a point.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Divinediva2: 4:51pm On Mar 08
eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.

You sound just like an addict
This is how Sammy used to list the benefits of dry gin untill his kidney failed

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by TUTU147: 4:51pm On Mar 08
Porn and masturbation are silent killers,it almost ruined my life.The cause of weak erection is as a result of too much masturbating.I thank God I escaped it,and I pray for anyone going through same stress of quitting masturbation to receive the grace to quit.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by eliwa47(m): 4:51pm On Mar 08
It's their choice nah undecided
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by MuMuOnBail: 4:51pm On Mar 08
Na wa ooo


I don't know why emphasizing more on men masturbation and shy away from women.

This women masturbate more often than men, even virgin girls that haven't had real sex masturbate too. angry

I have in numerous occasions caught women watching porn too (in a train and park)

They scrub their p*ussy with their middle finger while taking their bath, therefore end up pleasuring themselves.

Sometimes I wish I knew how to masturbate, it should have saved me a lot financially

Any small Konji I will start scrolling through my phone looking for the available side chicks or potential once to come and cure my Konji.
I will have to prepare her transport (to and fro), give my house help money to prepare her favorite when she decide to come (Or going to a eatery, or to a 3/4 star hotel), I must also prepare to surprise her with a gift she have been pestering me to get for her, this will trigger her to F*ck me Crazy and give me her best performance, and Also I will have to reserve Extra cash for miscellaneous after cumming.

Imagine jerking off with Victoria Cake's videos, I will save myself from all the stress and expenses.
The money will be sent to my Wonderful queen and wife, and my beautiful Angels in Sweden undecided


Those that watches porn and masturbate don't know what god have done for them grin

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Divinediva2: 4:52pm On Mar 08
Feldie:
I was unable to get the point you were trying to make. Men used to marry 10 wives and have concubines, that's no longer possible. Would you rather the man spend most of his time trying to have sex with his wife or girlfriend and becomes a woman wrapper or sleep with different women who are probably filled to the brim of their vagina holes with different sorts of diseases? It's better he masturbates. I do feel those onlyfans subscribers are weird though. You don't really have any reason to pay for nudity.


Porn and masturbating are different,porn addiction is a dangerous thing

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by kals4luv990(m): 4:52pm On Mar 08
eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.
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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Ketamine9000mg(m): 4:52pm On Mar 08
How this topic take make am to front page?
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by kals4luv990(m): 4:53pm On Mar 08
TUTU147:
Porn and masturbation are silent killers,it almost ruined my life.The cause of weak erection is as a result of too much masturbating.I thank God I escaped it,and I pray for anyone going through same stress of quitting masturbation to receive the grace to quit.
no be masturbation give you weak erection boss

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Emmanuel30a2: 4:55pm On Mar 08
We don't care about whatever ruins the lifes of men, as long as it ruins their lifes...
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by STEWpid(f): 4:55pm On Mar 08
Chai..



A thread on Gbola and Poosie!!


The two most natural mystery of collaboe.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Moniya4Real(m): 4:58pm On Mar 08
Addiction is , I think, the problem here and not really porn per se. A close friend recently told me he just quit masturbating , which he started indulging in since 1999. That’s like 25 years of self- servicing . I asked how he was able to halt the act when he got married and he said he still used to do it whenever his wife denied him sex that he doesn’t want to cheat on the wife.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Elsueno: 4:58pm On Mar 08
I don't even mind porn addicts....d real annoying peeps are chronic masturbators, these guys fit masturbate at work, even in a room way other people dey if they think U are asleep or not paying attention to them.

May God cure them. Amen, grin

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Emma09(m): 5:00pm On Mar 08
Na when we dey small I watch porn last. While growing up, I just decided to quit watching it and even hate having it on my phone. Me wey get pikin wey dey always hold my phone and watch videos on it, I should avoid putting porn on my phone.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by wiseoneking: 5:00pm On Mar 08
thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong with a little porn. Just like a little wine. The key is to have self discipline, so you don't get addicted
It only takes a little to become addicted. Mr Wine, You can never become a drunkard a day but gradually. STOP PORN and your masturbation cycle would be interrupted. Add the Word of God by your strong confession of faith and prayer, and optionally get accountability partner to share you progress/ challenges to your freedom.

I can help if you are a chronic porn-masturbating addict but you MUST be ready to do it in a most God fearing way for a good result. All things are possible to him to believers. Get in touch.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by betonnaira: 5:00pm On Mar 08
Nothing wrong
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Slizzords: 5:03pm On Mar 08
My own is worse, I have prayed, fasted and done everything. I have been watching porn and masturbating everyweek for the past 8years. Sometimes I feel like killing myself
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by JooEeL(m): 5:04pm On Mar 08
eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.

Brilliant.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Mathain19(m): 5:05pm On Mar 08
"Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod".

Depending on the individual.. Not everyone really maturbate after watching porn. People watch porn for various reasons, it is left for the individual to decide what to do after watching porn .
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by iamtardey: 5:06pm On Mar 08
Make I go check latest on pornhub

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Elsueno: 5:08pm On Mar 08
TUTU147:
Porn and masturbation are silent killers,it almost ruined my life.The cause of weak erection is as a result of too much masturbating.I thank God I escaped it,and I pray for anyone going through same stress of quitting masturbation to receive the grace to quit.

Masturbation aside, Baba better go hospital Woh, make doctor cure U sharp sharp.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by HenryTimes: 5:09pm On Mar 08
This is topic self?
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Slizzords: 5:11pm On Mar 08
TUTU147:
Porn and masturbation are silent killers,it almost ruined my life.The cause of weak erection is as a result of too much masturbating.I thank God I escaped it,and I pray for anyone going through same stress of quitting masturbation to receive the grace to quit.
How did you do it bro? Honestly am tired, the thing is demonic

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by triple996(m): 5:11pm On Mar 08
Draslo:
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

Porn is a serious problem in this generation. Only those who are addicted and battling with porn addiction can understand. Most people quoting u to say trash are low key porn addicts who are crying silently but dont want to admit their problems.
PORN ADDICTION IS A MENACE

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by nedekid: 5:11pm On Mar 08
Oga, if you don't want to watch, kukuma stop. No be by force.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Way4orward: 5:11pm On Mar 08
I watched porn every free time I have. It's cool.

Nobody have any opinion about my life.

I Hustle and I don't beg
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by dgagar(m): 5:12pm On Mar 08
Draslo:
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.


I have 1347 porn on my phone and i will keep downloading more. I love it with passion. It's safer than contacting one stupid STD or HIV.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by MrBroke(m): 5:15pm On Mar 08
eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.


Difference between you and the OP is education. You are educated and he's not
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Bmaster(m): 5:16pm On Mar 08
porn is the reason many guys don't look fresh anymore.those ingredients that will nourish and give their body a good youngling look,they abuse it.

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