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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by PastorOlokonla: 9:22pm On Mar 08
LegendHero:
Nonsense!

Porn is not ruining anybody life. I don’t know where you guys got this fake narrative from.

Oshey, Legend of Xvideos!

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by ThothHermes: 9:28pm On Mar 08
Draslo:

You think you're so smart that's why it's good too be informed. At least you went to school and know that English words borrow from Latin pass any other language.

Sacral is from the Latin word SACRUM which means sacred bro
Oga. No chakra is more sacred than the other. Even from your picture, you can see that the other chakras are named for where they are located.
Crown, third eye (between the two physcial eyes) heart, throat, solar plexus, root (the base of the spine).
Likewise the sacral chakra, it has nothing to do with sacredness, the origin of the word notwithstanding.

https://www.spine-health.com/conditions/spine-anatomy/sacrum-sacral-region

You are just too proud to admit that the eazzzy1 guy destroyed your argument completely.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Pennilessword1: 9:47pm On Mar 08
Draslo:
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

At least you won't go out and rape women.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by limcar: 9:50pm On Mar 08
Laurene:
Talking from experience
do you mind if i eat your puci
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by reciprokal: 9:52pm On Mar 08
4KNGOATS:

This one no b only dry mumu na wet idiotic bastardzzz
lolz
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Bode2: 9:52pm On Mar 08
GodHimself:
Facts.

It’s tough, this war on men. The strange woman is now accessible with a mouse click.

Sexual energy is being harvested; precious life force wasted; prefrontal cortex blown out.

Ambition, drive, focus, strength, self Control drained in huge volumes daily.

Hmmn, flesh and blood has not revealed this to you...

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Damian911: 9:56pm On Mar 08
thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong with a little porn. Just like a little wine. The key is to have self discipline, so you don't get addicted
Exactly brother
Not all gamblers, alcoholics are depressed
Whatever you do, moderation is key

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Damian911: 9:59pm On Mar 08
eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.
Undiluted facts no cap kiss
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by limcar: 10:03pm On Mar 08
porthouse7:
go and self-service in peace, but don't be broke try Bleep some pussy too
will you suck my dick
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by limcar: 10:07pm On Mar 08
4KNGOATS:
Whoever supports porn is a bastardzzz.
Take away porn today, you've literarily solved 99.09% of world's problem at large. Quote me wrong
you are a useless man. Fool. If i catch you, you will watch porn by force
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by limcar: 10:10pm On Mar 08
Emarc16:

Truly porn and masturbation ruins... I battled that for years. I took the bold step last year Dec and since this year I have stayed away from both. I'm much happier, my erection and early morning boner is back perfectly and I fire well without issues. Take the bold step today and call it quit and heal yourself from it. Maximum 3 months you will feel refreshed.
you know how to suck pussy?
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Laurene: 10:12pm On Mar 08
Elsueno:


Trust me, it was an unforgettable experience & d dude no even send me self.... in fact, since when I catch am, nigga no even bother to pretend anymore sha grin.... Eventually I changed room after a semester sha. Currently d dude is already married with kids self, while I stay dey single 😭😭
But the dude is YOU!
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Hahjascho(m): 10:36pm On Mar 08
Damian911:
Exactly brother
Not all gamblers, alcoholics are depressed
Whatever you do, moderation is key
Believe me...there's nothing like moderation. Once you start, it ends in disaster. It's the bitter truth.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by EvergreenDiarie: 10:41pm On Mar 08
This is the voice of the devil ooo grin grin cheesy grin grin grin
thesicilian:
There's nothing wrong with a little porn. Just like a little wine. The key is to have self discipline, so you don't get addicted
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Boniwhite: 10:42pm On Mar 08
poweredcom:
Name your favourite porn stars

Lexington steele
Rico strong
Prince yeshua
Wesley pipes
Mandingo
Peter North
Brian pumper (dude is a bhastard always cracking egg of beeches faces )

Nina hartley
Syren de mer
Dee williams
Nyomi banxxx
Cherokee d ass
Ayana angel
Jazmine cashmere
Pinkyxxx
Delotta brown
smh
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Hahjascho(m): 10:50pm On Mar 08
Guys!

This is a bitter truth that's so hard to decipher.

Man (his soul) is created with an energy, meant to be creative and do great exploits. One of the things that leaks one's energy is this masturbation/porn. You will never realise this except one genuinely breaks free. It could be hard to believe.

Many might want to justify and disapprove this but, it's the truth.

This is the same thing a smoker would say when criticised and asked to quit smoking...even when it's clearly written that smokers can possibly die young. It's that so bad.

My opinion: Nothing is impossible. It may be hard to stop but, your soul and generation outside you will thank you.

Someone once said here that: 'A man without self discipline and self control is like a ship floating in an ocean without a sailor/captain. With time, it drowns.'
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Blessedarethepe(m): 11:07pm On Mar 08
Coolboy009:
Bro you are wrong, according to research, 78% of men do practice masturbation. And they are not all necessarily idle or they don't have a partner. The problem is addiction. Once you are addicted to masturbation and porn just like other addictions, it is not easy to quit. And this is why is not easy; when you are addicted your brain is used to the release of excess neurotransmitter called dopamine, which is responsible for pleasure. The more erotic the porn you watch is, the more dopamine your brain release. As time goes on the level of dopamine in your body will start dropping (because you are burning more than what your body can replenish) and once that happens you will no longer have pleasure in doing what you used to enjoy doing, like social activities or other important activities in your life. So you will always want to go and watch more hot porn and masturbate to it because that is the only activity that can stimulate ur already depleted dopamine. At this level, you will no longer enjoy normal sex with ur partner like before, or you might not even have an erection at all. Addiction is bad
since the problem is over secretion of dopamine in the body, can having sex too much have the same effect since it is also secreted during normal sex
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Lincton: 11:16pm On Mar 08
I respect people's privacy and their fun that gives satisfaction
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Damian911: 12:13am On Mar 09
Hahjascho:
Believe me...there's nothing like moderation. Once you start, it ends in disaster. It's the bitter truth.
Is it all gamblers that are living bad? Or alcoholics?
The truth is majority may be but the few smar ones applied moderation.
Whatever you do ensure moderation laced with serious discipline.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by SaturnNick(m): 12:33am On Mar 09
slaawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
You must have something to say ooo
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by komzy589(m): 12:37am On Mar 09
Divinediva2:

Ok Billie Irish
Kanye West
Lamar Odom
Just to make a few,porn addiction makes you a slave,and drinking too much water can cause water poisoning which can lead to death in few seconds at least 500 people die yearly of water poisoning

First step to knowing you are a slave to porn is extreme denial
Your in step one
See this one using Kanye West as a lesson😁.
I used water as an example because no matter how much one likes drinking water, when one is full, one will stop.
There’s no such thing as addiction to drinking water, but trust your type. You will always advise on that too.
You’re the one that need help. Referencing someone that his life is better than your full generation 😁😁
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Johnjustice: 5:59am On Mar 09
Op like someone said, moderation is key, some watch porn but not addicted to it.

Your claim that porn affects life is not true, unless the person can't control themselves, some people that watch porn every now and then, are still very successful than some who never watched...life is relative its myopic to generalise...there are more important issues to talk about.

A lot of religious people don't watch porn but their life is not successful, they are not happy.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Tzar(m): 6:55am On Mar 09
I hope you know that no sexual activity for men is worse than masturbation/porn.
Men who do not ejaculate frequently (3times weekly) are over 50% more likely to suffer protrate cancer/enlargement and erectile dysfunction.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by thesicilian: 7:39am On Mar 09
EvergreenDiarie:
This is the voice of the devil ooo grin grin cheesy grin grin grin
Don't be blind to reasoning and wise to religion. Religion has never helped anyone
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by LordReed(m): 7:43am On Mar 09
Draslo:

A man's sexual energy is sacred. It is not a toy. If you are a rabbit and like to Bleep, Bleep women. If you can't afford women or have an STD, you can abstain till when you can afford shit. The rate at which men release when masturbating is a whole lot less energy zapping as when you actually Bleep. This constant but low energy release over a given time is 10 times more release than actually fucking twice a week. Malt and milk cannot reclaim this lost energy. If it did, sportsmen and women would go to competitions with their partners and Bleep like say tomorrow no dey. It's deeper than many people like to go. I no dey fear rabbit hole. I suppose be FBI or CIA agent. 😁 Sports competitions are the only activity that enforces non sexual activity during competitions. E get why! You should research the word self-servicer from the UK. Like the history of the word in football

It just seems like you are decrying porn/masturbation addiction. Any form of addiction is bad, doesn't make anything you are addicted to automatically bad. You do realise people get addicted to sex don't you? Are you going to label sex then as bad?

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by 4KNGOATS(m): 8:27am On Mar 09
limcar:
you are a useless man. Fool. If i catch you, you will watch porn by force

grin grin grin see this big mumu who told you I don't watch porn?? Confused degenerate.what am saying is we're not supposed to be supporting porn.porn is not a good thing bro it destroys your fkn life
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Hahjascho(m): 9:16am On Mar 09
Damian911:
Is it all gamblers that are living bad? Or alcoholics?
The truth is majority may be but the few smar ones applied moderation.
Whatever you do ensure moderation laced with serious discipline.
Hmn...there's a very thing line between moderation and getting stuck.

In fact, the assumed moderation is like a long time seed, potentially enough to wreck havoc.

They all have the same consequences whether short term or long term.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Hahjascho(m): 9:18am On Mar 09
Tzar:
I hope you know that no sexual activity for men is worse than masturbation/porn.
Men who do not ejaculate frequently (3times weekly) are over 50% more likely to suffer protrate cancer/enlargement and erectile dysfunction.
This has already been debunked by verified professionals and doctors. Not true.
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Hahjascho(m): 9:20am On Mar 09
Johnjustice:
Op like someone said, moderation is key, some watch porn but not addicted to it.

Your claim that porn affects life is not true, unless the person can't control themselves, some people that watch porn every now and then, are still very successful than some who never watched...life is relative its myopic to generalise...there are more important issues to talk about.

A lot of religious people don't watch porn but their life is not successful, they are not happy.
You need to review your definition of being 'Successful '.

Or how do you define Success?
Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Coolboy009: 9:28am On Mar 09
Blessedarethepe:
since the problem is over secretion of dopamine in the body, can having sex too much have the same effect since it is also secreted during normal sex

No, it does not have the same effect, the reason is this. The major cause of the addiction is the porn. Porn scenes are hyper-stimulating triggers that lead to unnaturally high levels of dopamine secretion. So when you are having normal sex with a partner, your body naturally secretes normal dopamine. And even if u are having too much sex with a partner, you can only experience sex exhaustion in which your body can naturally recover if you pause for some time, rest and eat good food. Also, note that whenever you have natural sex with a partner, you feel satisfied, happy and relaxed. (Feeling like a champion..lolz) This will boost your self-esteem and your overall mental health. On the other hand, if you masturbate to porn after the act, you will start feeling guilty, regretful and sad which will lead to depression and your overall mental health is messed up. So the effect is not the same.

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Re: Why Porn Is Ruining The Lives Of Men by Blessedarethepe(m): 9:35am On Mar 09
Coolboy009:

No, it does not have the same effect, the reason is this. The major cause of the addiction is the porn. Porn scenes are hyper-stimulating triggers that lead to unnaturally high levels of dopamine secretion. So when you are having normal sex with a partner, your body naturally secretes normal dopamine. And even if u are having too much sex with a partner, you can only experience sex exhaustion in which your body can naturally recover if you pause for some time, rest and eat good food. Also, note that whenever you have natural sex with a partner, you feel satisfied, happy and relaxed. (Feeling like a champion..lolz) This will boost your self-esteem and your overall mental health. On the other hand, if you masturbate to porn after the act, you will start feeling guilty, regretful and sad which will lead to depression and your overall mental health is messed up. So the effect is not the same.



Guilty, regretful and sad for what reason?? I slightly disagree that people feel this way though.

So guys, SHARE if you feel this way after watching porn or masturbating. And LIKE if not.

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