If a man wants you,


If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are, even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending, compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships, there is nothing cute about baggage, deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you, a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals, look for someone complimentary, not supplementary.
Dating is fun, even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes, when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

copied from my inbox.

Noted @Mr.lovedoctor

Loved this!

Ya,dts wt I call truth hurts.
Perfect advice,10ks sweetheart

"copied from my inbox".

Wow the person who send this to you really love you.

Very true.
@But I will like a guy to need me instead of wanting me.

So true. I can relate to some of the points in there

Agybabe:

Very true.
@But I will like a guy to need me instead of wanting me.

Aren't they technically the same.

Agybabe:

Very true.
@But I will like a guy to need me instead of wanting me.

A guy will want you first, before he will need you

aloy@emeka:

Aren't they technically the same.

if a guy says he wants a girl, its for the time being. But if he needs her it means he can't do without her, loves her and needs her to be always there to be a helpmate, etc. Analyse these two words very well.

chines4:

A guy will want you first, before he will need you

I disagree to agree with you.

Agybabe:

I disagree to agree with you.

Is it not shorter to say: I disagree with you?

Yes it is but i just felt like using it that way.

''Don't fully commit to a man ,who doesn't give you everything you need'' the only point i disagree with or maybe i didn't understand it well .can your throw more light on that. Cause i maynot even be able to afford for myself everything i need.

aloy@emeka:

All men are NOT dogs

Thank you op.

aloy@emeka:

Is it not shorter to say: I disagree with you?

point and kill!

Thanks ur d f*ckn best. Hope u will come back wit more

Poster,u deserve a kiss for dis n a warm hug but am not a lesbian so i wuld say thumbs up ,but ALL MEN R DOGS(yes,i said it) EVEN MY DAD!

kimberluge:

Poster,u deserve a kiss for dis n a warm hug but am not a lady-loving-lady so i wuld say thumbs up ,but ALL MEN R DOGS(yes,i said it) EVEN MY DAD!

Na waaaaaoh. What did he do to your mom?

kimberluge:

ALL MEN R DOGS(yes,i said it) EVEN MY DAD!

huh?

kimberluge:

but ALL MEN R DOGS(yes,i said it) EVEN MY DAD!

honi, is there sth you will like to tell us??

People do not take time to analyse the weird thought of others, but as long as it makes sense little bit by supporting them then it is the best post since slice bread. Most of what is written there are just rubbish, one mans meat is another mans poison, know your man and relate with him on your own terms and not what one faceless entity has to say to you.

Raising this thread up from the dead on purpose..
Some girls on this section really need it...

very interesting piece dt i think every woman shld read. a woman shld hv a life outside her man. many women act like dey r nothing without him.

Op u ar d best joor