This life... you grow old and everyone is saying that's when you need kids. What about old people who lost their kids? Isn't that more painful That's why our parents used to have many of us and we had many bros n sis. All of dem no fit die. Culturally, there is nothing like barren women. They will give her onw orphan child or another. You as a kid will not know that is not her child, only the elders knew. but things have changed with modernity, everyone just behaves the way they feel like. there's access to information and there is fake community online but no family/commumity irl. That's why you have many sad people. family is not only blood

BigBashiru:


Your post is foolish. There's birth rate and death rate. If death rate is more than birth rate the sovereignty of a state (country) is at risk. That's why Japan and Western Europe are begging people to have kids.

Nigeria has a high birth rate and its good. Sovereignty is assured. Belgium killed 20 million people in congo to bring in white settlers but they failed.

High birthrate increases number of soldiers agai assuring Sovereignty.

Nigeria is smart its white man that's foolish. Western europe has weakened. Africans and blacks outnumber Europeans significantly the west hates this because it rains their colonial ambitions.

Lol!

You are naive. Gone are the days when power is determined by the number of soldiers. Today, ammunition and nuclear weapons show how strong you are.

Franzinni:
do you have kids ? If no ... Then I can understand your thinking.

But let me tell you, my kids saved my life ... In my darkest times , they guided me back to light ... They gave me a reason to keep pushing through ... When you look into the eyes of your offspring, and you hear them laughing and playing with such innocence and joy that transcends material possessions.

No born one were go kee you. Hv you not heard those son kee father stories in the newspapers? That's why baby dedication is important. Child bearing cannot be separated from the spiritual such as baby dedication ceremonies.

epainos:

Lol!

You are naive. Gone are the days when power is determined by the number of soldiers. Today, ammunition and nuclear weapons show how strong you are.

Ammunition is used by who? I don't engage those who just want to waste time in pointless arguments

BigBashiru:


No born one were go kee you. Hv you not heard those son kee father stories in the newspapers? That's why baby dedication is important. Child bearing cannot be separated from the spirit such as baby dedication ceremonies.

those son kill father stories is born out of father who failed to be a dad and instead was a father ... There is a difference ...

Now see human beings are like computer, we are programmable... If a father teaches his child what a father should, there is no way that child will turn on you ... Instead he will adore you like God on earth ... Remember , love is not automatic, it is built and if you don't built it, you don't expect it to be there.

BigBashiru:


Ammunition is used by who? I don't engage those who just want to waste time in pointless arguments

Lol! Can you see that your post is actually foolish and not mine. Lol! Carry 1 billion people from African nations to fight France. Na just one load of nuclear will finish the job. Dem go turn that 1 billion to suya in a min.

I am glad you know your league. Go find your IQ level to argue with..

wasco70:
Don’t hide under you don’t want to bear a single child , you are an Africa woman.

What’s exactly your problem.

Nothing is the problem.. Everyone has a choice to whatever they want. she is better than those that will give birth to children and neglect them to fend for themselves.. Pls let her be.. she is a strong woman to have defied society to be her own woman .

BGSM:

Are you in the same situation with her? Has abortion and hard drugs destroyed your life too?
Do you know the past life history and medical condition of those men you claimed doesn’t want to have a child? Please tell your common sense to wake up.

It’s obvious from your first sentences that you are myopic in your reasoning.

lol… I can’t respond to your sh!t

Imagine saying anyone not wanting kids have medical condition, you dense??
God forbid your kind sense

BigBashiru:


Nigeria is smart its white man that's foolish. Western europe has weakened. Africans and blacks outnumber Europeans significantly the west hates this because it rains their colonial ambitions.

Today african blacks number over 1 billion while the colonial savages of Western Europe are about 350million. We outnumber them. This in the long term will put an end to racism and colonialism.

Meanwhile their GDP per capita is super high while you are shouting "ebi n pa wa". Lol.

lexy2014:


this one is deceiving herself. every child knows its mother. after they sit around her, they will leave and go to the one that is their mother. she give herself hope on top other people children

she is not.. I am not into children myself ,so she is not alone in this. I dont miss motherhood at all.Pls let her be abeg.This is how you guys push people to do things they don't want . Mind your business and tend to your own children

epainos:

Lol! Can you see that your post is actually foolish and not mine. Lol! Carry 1 billion people from African nation to fight France. Na just one load of nuclear will finish the job. Dem go turn that 1 billion to suya in a min.

I am glad you know your league. Go find your IQ level to argue with..

No nuclear war has ever been bought. We are talking of conventional war.

African states are increasingly aligning with Iran and north Korea for nuclear cooperation.

It's game over for the western europe savages

OvertheTop:


That answer is the same as YES. (but i don't want to talk about it )

I know.
That would have opened her for further critical questions like what happened to the baby... miscarriage, deliberate abortion or still birth...

And this would help further reveal if she is suffering from post traumatic syndrome of those experiences and why she is afraid to have kids

Franzinni:
those son kill father stories is born out of father who failed to be a dad and instead was a father ... There is a difference ...

Now see human beings are like computer, we are programmable... If a father teaches his child what a father should, there is no way that child will turn on you ... Instead he will adore you like God on earth ... Remember , love is not automatic, it is built and if you don't built it, you don't expect it to be there.

I take an opposing view. Ye must be born again i.e. the new born child must be dedicated in a church or mosque to rid them of the evil adamic nature which they were born with.

That which is born of the flesh is flesh and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Ye must be born again

Who cares

BigBashiru:


I take an opposing view. Ye must be born again i.e. the new born child must be dedicated in a church or mosque to rid them of the evil adamic nature which they were born with.

That which is born of the flesh is flesh and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit. Ye must be born again

ok so you mean the red Indians or let's not even go far ... Nigerians pre colonialism were doomed be that ... Becasue by your logic ... Without dedication a child is evil ? Do you see your folly?

BigBashiru:


No nuclear war has ever been bought. We are talking of conventional war.

African states are increasingly aligning with Iran and north Korea for nuclear cooperation.

It's game over for the western europe savages

The so called weak white are moving into nuclear, and you are still talking of your conventional whatever style. So, when war starts, you will dictate how your opponent will fight, right? Na wisdom you post so? Can you see that your post is getting more foolish, yet you wrote mine was. I guess you can't see the foolishness in them yet. Low IQ.

Please, reply me again with another goolish response, and I will keep pointing out how foolish your posts are. I have advised you ....go find low IQ that your level is to argue, else you go wound yourself trying to be smart with me. Na post a post, na you come attack my post. Carry yourself commot, or you go injure yourself.

We're dey disguise, you go explain taya🤔🤔🤔

Nairalander248:
The last time I heard thing like this, na plenty abortion the person do, and was told she can't have children, and she's coming to tell us she no want... Na lie

But that doesn't stop her from adopting. I don't think she has issue bearing children

This one no get mama and papa again fir them to seat her down and talk sense to her mumu head

Shiorr

press9jatv:
Abeg my people, what of the menopause stage. I hope she will give birth when she reach menopause stage. She’s 42 years old already

Women are having children at the age of over 60 years now, thanks to technology

Nonsense

Many American, Asian, German, Swedish, Italian and other women are not seeking children. The truth is that women of the past, only had children to hold men. They used children to survive. Now that women can cater for themselves, they see children as a burden. Most Nigerian celebrity women have only ONE child to fulfill all righteousness. I honestly don't think most women care for marriage either. Many only do it for financial well being. Once the stigma of being unmarried is gone in Nigeria, I wonder what will happen.

Nothing to understand. Life na Choice we should learn to respect people's choices in life

Bluesearoll:
You Will finally understand when you are 60

how or why should that be anyone's biz?

Nkl4u:
Her life, her choice,her business

Check put thr MD of a new generation bank

Franzinni:
do you have kids ? If no ... Then I can understand your thinking.

But let me tell you, my kids saved my life ... In my darkest times , they guided me back to light ... They gave me a reason to keep pushing through ... When you look into the eyes of your offspring, and you hear them laughing and playing with such innocence and joy that transcends material possessions.

You have kids for your selfish purposes

nothing more.

The world is evil.

So why bring them here to suffer?

That's a great decision to take. I wish many young girls can do same.

Serendipity2023:


You have kids for your selfish purposes

nothing more.

The world is evil.

So why bring them here to suffer?

well your opinions are valid in your world, but it doesnt make it reality. Yes the world is evil the natural state of all things is negative, entropy... But it takes effort and focus to have positivity... I wish I could elaborate further but. I totally respect your opinion, but I respectfully disagree with it.

I can see why your exhusband divorced you. What else does a man need in a woman if not for love and procreation so that his lineage would not close.

Na her


Choice


Freedom of choice is allowed

Truths9ja:
Shade Ladipo Reveals Why She Doesn't Want To Have Children


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fS6nypyaolc?si=vWl0rPy-1SsiDgxK

Well it is her decision though.

Okete001:
Hehehe

Some don abort so tey dem womb don spoil no fit burn pikin again but go come dey sim day na dem no want pikin

If that's the case with this woman, she would have opted for surrogacy.