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Is He Serious? by Finevv: 1:56pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
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Re: Is He Serious? by tutuwater(m): 2:01pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
@ op please if you cant take infidelity do not tolerate it. If he shows remorse then accept him and love him for him. by the way be sure he really loves you and he is not in the relationship for something else. |
Re: Is He Serious? by Kx: 2:05pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv: He[b] may[/b] be right. Most guys, irrespective of their country of origin, could have lots of girlfriends but deep in their heart, they truly treasure a particular one. As wrong as it may sound, it is the bitter truth. |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 2:06pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv: Huh You lost me there maam. |
Re: Is He Serious? by tutuwater(m): 2:12pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Yorisb:@Yorisb lets spare her the stereotyping for now she could have been misled by various naysayers around. |
Re: Is He Serious? by Finevv: 2:13pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
by the way be sure he really loves you and he is not in the relationship for something else. |
Re: Is He Serious? by tutuwater(m): 2:21pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
you are closer to him than we her, so take your time to understand him and know what he is looking for outside with others and if you can satisfy him with those things. if you can not then it is better to quit the relationship. but my guts tells me he loves you because it is hard for men to tell their partner about their weakness for ladies. so please if you can help him grow out of it. |
Re: Is He Serious? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv:[size=14pt]Take a chill pill! You can agree that cheating is not a Nigerian thing. It's Global, but maybe you've been hearing things about Nigerian men, or actually reading things about Nigerian men from this site, and you are erroneously coming to a conclusion that it is a Nigerian thing!. . . No! It's not. It's part of his individuality, his personality that's why he was quick to admit falling for women, as his biggest weakness. And well, he's actually working on it. But for how long, is what we dont know. You dont know, i dont know! You are the one directly affected, so you should decide how long you will tolerate a cheat, with the potential of leaving you with a heartbreak and a catastrophic damage, to your emotional infrastructure. . . I wont say he is using you, that may just be a weakness of his. I'll also indulge you to use your initiative. Know your limits, and when to say enough is enough. Infidelity should not be tolerated, but now, you are already playing it down with an emotional wild card. The earlier you face reality, the better. He has NO RIGHTS whatsoever, to toy with your emotions. You should make that pretty clear to him, and then, his response, and subsequent actions would give you an elevation as to where to base your final decisions about you two on. . . [/size] |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 2:29pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
tutuwater: Fully taken/spared. . . . |
Re: Is He Serious? by omega25red(m): 2:47pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
this post is fake. The poster could have just said i am dating a nigerian man but the poster mentioned where he was from "Edo" she (allegedly she) also mentioned that "i'm a white woman" who still talks like that? i call fake post |
Re: Is He Serious? by Finevv: 2:55pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
omega25red: Lol, well, I do still talk like that and think it's important to point out that I'm not Nigerian, and mentioned where he's from because again thought it might be important with regards to his background, But I'll leave it to you to dwell on if I'm fake or not. sexkillz: @sexkillz - nice one, thanks, It did make me rethink the issues we're having, |
Re: Is He Serious? by Eiregirl(f): 3:56pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
I don't envy you. If you're going to accept it, then he's going to do it for as long as he can. I don't accept the excuse that he has a weakness for women. If that's the case, then don't be in a relationship!!!! |
Re: Is He Serious? by iice(f): 5:03pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Regardless of where he's from, he's a man and human being. You need to have a good talk with him, what you want, what you hope to have with him, what he wants, what he hopes to have with you. What values are important to him, to you, what you will stand for, what he will stand for etc. Then open your eyes and watch. For the life of me, i can't understand why people can't read other people especially after forming a bond with them. |
Re: Is He Serious? by ronkebp(f): 5:08pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
@ Poster, it is either this man loves you or he needs something from you, but i would go with the former, or else he would not still be with you. No matter how he strays he would still comeback to you. I will advice you not to tolerate that!!! utter nonsense!! let him know your stand about the whole thing, or else he would keep doing his thing and thinking you will always forgive him. |
Re: Is He Serious? by Finevv: 5:29pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
ronkebp: |
Re: Is He Serious? by omega25red(m): 5:37pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv:so now that you know you made a mistake accepting his B.S, what are you going to do? |
Re: Is He Serious? by Finevv: 5:40pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
omega25red: Pray. |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 6:12pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv: Maybe dry fasting as well? |
Re: Is He Serious? by Finevv: 6:21pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Yorisb: Considering flagellation too, lol |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 6:47pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv: I agree. He deserves all he gets. . . |
Re: Is He Serious? by xxcarolxx(f): 6:53pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Only you can decide whether you can tolerate his cheating, Can hear him saying baby don't you know your the only one for me, your the only one i love, Bla bla bla, My ex tried to tell me it was a black thing, Which i laughed at and proceeded to throw him out of the house, You will have to stand up and say enough is enough that you are not willing to tolerate his cheating, Hope things work out for you, |
Re: Is He Serious? by Dyt(f): 6:56pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Is YORISB serious wit DYT |
Re: Is He Serious? by Natasha2(f): 7:00pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv:I don't think you need advice just look at what you're saying like you've dated all Nigerian men phewwwwwwwwwww anyways thank God others have advised you |
Re: Is He Serious? by corkpikin(m): 7:07pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Poster Pls work on your Bedmathic equation may be that is what is chasing your edo boy away |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 7:18pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Dyt: 'Sup Mon Chérie? |
Re: Is He Serious? by omega25red(m): 9:23pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Finevv:Pray? what are you praying for? that you get pregnant and be stuck with him for ever or that he gives you the disease you have been waiting to get all this time he had been cheating or maybe you will pray that he repents and becomes a Xtian? |
Re: Is He Serious? by Dyt(f): 10:52pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Cool dearest YORISB u nt ansad me? |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 10:57pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Dyt: Mon Cherie, what has YORISB done again 2 deserve such frowner from your majesty? |
Re: Is He Serious? by Dyt(f): 11:04pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
U ignored me |
Re: Is He Serious? by Yorisb: 11:05pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
When, Where, how? |
Re: Is He Serious? by Dyt(f): 11:10pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
Sobs oya kiss me |
Re: Is He Serious? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Nov 18, 2011 |
@op just let him know how bad u feel about this whole thing,n if he's not willin to change then get him off ur life |
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