I have something that's bothering my mind for now, my girlfriend is pregnant for me but she is staying with her parent for now but she is sick, she sent a text message to me that she went to the hospital yesterday to take 2 drips but she didn't tell me that she was admited in the hospital so her family relative now call me that her mom call her that my girl friend was admited in the hospital for 2 days that i didn't show up and i didn't call her and I tried to explain to her relative that she didn't tell me anything that she was admited in the hospital that all what she told me that she went to the hospital to take some drips and she told me that why didn't I call to know how she feeling and I told her my mind that I'm broke right now that was the reason why I didn't call her and that was the reason why I didn't come over to check on her in her parent house and her relative now said I should send my account number to her that she will send some money to me, I was shy and I don't feel comfortable for her sending money to me, I feel like it's an embarrassment to me and it's not that I'm a proud person I feel it's a shame to me , i haven't send her my account details yet, I just want to know if it's wrong or right for my girlfriend family to be sending money to me , pls I need an mature advice.

And you say she's carrying your child.

Pius4luv2023:
I have something that's bothering my mind for now, my girlfriend is pregnant for me but she is staying with her parent for now but she is sick, she sent a text message to me that she went to the hospital yesterday to take 2 drips but she didn't tell me that she was admited in the hospital so her family relative now call me that her mom call her that my girl friend was admited in the hospital for 2 days that i didn't show up and i didn't call her and I tried to explain to her relative that she didn't tell me anything that she was admited in the hospital that all what she told me that she went to the hospital to take some drips and she told me that why didn't I call to know how she feeling and I told her my mind that I'm broke right now that was the reason why I didn't call her and that was the reason why I didn't come over to check on her in her parent house and her relative now said I should send my account number to her that she will send some money to me, I was shy and I don't feel comfortable for her sending money to me, I feel like it's an embarrassment to me and it's not that I'm a proud person I feel it's a shame to me , i haven't send her my account details yet, I just want to know if it's wrong or right for my girlfriend family to be sending money to me , pls I need an mature advice.

Don't send your acct details... It's not pride, it is keeping the little self worth and respect you have left to protect.
Try to source for money elsewhere and ensure to visit her - It's important

Pius4luv2023:
my girlfriend family to be sending money to me , pls I need an mature advice.

How did they move from scolding u for not checking in their daughter to send ur account number......I'm not understanding....

That said .....Collecting money from ur to be- inlaws is the monster of all see finish....na set up for embarrassment ane insult

Pius4luv2023:
I have something that's bothering my mind for now, my girlfriend is pregnant for me but she is staying with her parent for now but she is sick, she sent a text message to me that she went to the hospital yesterday to take 2 drips but she didn't tell me that she was admited in the hospital so her family relative now call me that her mom call her that my girl friend was admited in the hospital for 2 days that i didn't show up and i didn't call her and I tried to explain to her relative that she didn't tell me anything that she was admited in the hospital that all what she told me that she went to the hospital to take some drips and she told me that why didn't I call to know how she feeling and I told her my mind that I'm broke right now that was the reason why I didn't call her and that was the reason why I didn't come over to check on her in her parent house and her relative now said I should send my account number to her that she will send some money to me, I was shy and I don't feel comfortable for her sending money to me, I feel like it's an embarrassment to me and it's not that I'm a proud person I feel it's a shame to me , i haven't send her my account details yet, I just want to know if it's wrong or right for my girlfriend family to be sending money to me , pls I need an mature advice.

But are you not the same guy who claimed last year that your EX has 2 children for you? AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND WAS TRYING TO COMMIT SUC*DE?


what really is wrong with you?

You don't need advice or help IF YOUR STORIES HERE ARE EVEN TRUE.

Send your account number jare, country hard.

They should send the money to your girlfriend so that she can then send it to you without anyone knowing the source of the money. It's a simple sturvs

Pius4luv2023:
I have something that's bothering my mind for now, my girlfriend is pregnant for me but she is staying with her parent for now but she is sick, she sent a text message to me that she went to the hospital yesterday to take 2 drips but she didn't tell me that she was admited in the hospital so her family relative now call me that her mom call her that my girl friend was admited in the hospital for 2 days that i didn't show up and i didn't call her and I tried to explain to her relative that she didn't tell me anything that she was admited in the hospital that all what she told me that she went to the hospital to take some drips and she told me that why didn't I call to know how she feeling and I told her my mind that I'm broke right now that was the reason why I didn't call her and that was the reason why I didn't come over to check on her in her parent house and her relative now said I should send my account number to her that she will send some money to me, I was shy and I don't feel comfortable for her sending money to me, I feel like it's an embarrassment to me and it's not that I'm a proud person I feel it's a shame to me , i haven't send her my account details yet, I just want to know if it's wrong or right for my girlfriend family to be sending money to me , pls I need an mature advice.

Tell her to please send the money to her relative (your girl) that she needs it more than you right now.

Foodqueen:
And you say she's carrying your child.

Yes

Pius4luv2023:
I have something that's bothering my mind for now, my girlfriend is pregnant for me but she is staying with her parent for now but she is sick, she sent a text message to me that she went to the hospital yesterday to take 2 drips but she didn't tell me that she was admited in the hospital so her family relative now call me that her mom call her that my girl friend was admited in the hospital for 2 days that i didn't show up and i didn't call her and I tried to explain to her relative that she didn't tell me anything that she was admited in the hospital that all what she told me that she went to the hospital to take some drips and she told me that why didn't I call to know how she feeling and I told her my mind that I'm broke right now that was the reason why I didn't call her and that was the reason why I didn't come over to check on her in her parent house and her relative now said I should send my account number to her that she will send some money to me, I was shy and I don't feel comfortable for her sending money to me, I feel like it's an embarrassment to me and it's not that I'm a proud person I feel it's a shame to me , i haven't send her my account details yet, I just want to know if it's wrong or right for my girlfriend family to be sending money to me , pls I need an mature advice.

You are already in for a big thing, so whether you have pride or not, you must humble yourself, send the account number to that person, once you receive alert use it to visit her and get some provision for her with part of the money.

As it is now, you can't afford to pay the hospital bills neither can you afford to pay for the drugs

So let her know the source of the money you use for getting the provisions and still give her pocket money to hold from that money

Then go back and look for more money because you just started

Next time you will keep condom around you

Foodqueen:
And you say she's carrying your child.

He thought is a Rocket science

He just started

He is yet to price pampers and baby needs

well this is coming late, but for anyone that might be in the same situation in the future...
don't send your account number, source the money elsewhere and ensure you visit, and when you do, don't go there and start acting like a pvssy... act like the man you are and own up to your consequences...

your dick was working, but your finances wasn't... this is your karma, face it head-on... you won't be the first and definitely won't be the last...