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Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Newlymarried: 6:38pm On Apr 23 |
A Nigerian woman, Nneka Obani, who survived domestic violence has shared her story and advised women to walk away from abusive partners. |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Creamypie(m): 6:59pm On Apr 23 |
Forget this emotional blackmail. Na women way.very manipulative. na Only lazy and incompetent wives have househelps.not to forget the husband pays for her services to pamper his wife Let's hear from the husbands side first. See how quick she was to assert the house help was his babe, as if she knew it all along and kept quiet. Madam talk truth 8 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 7:18pm On Apr 23 |
Who brought the house help into the house? Why should a sane woman bring a matured woman in her home in the name of house help? When a married woman is not having her ways with her husband, she tends to accuse the innocent husband of sleeping with the house help. 6 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 7:42pm On Apr 23 |
So you knew he was sleeping with the househelp and you didn't send her away, immediately, and only decided to send her away when she stole from you? The story is not clear. 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kajaard: 7:47pm On Apr 23 |
This is the wives version of the story. I don't give verdicts until I hear both sides of the story (inclusive of the husbands version). Because people twist tales to get sympathy from online in-laws like us 2 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 7:51pm On Apr 23 |
thesicilian: Yes, and that is because there may be no evidence to support that notion, so now that the husband reacted violently to her telling the house maid to leave the house, what does that tell you about the irresponsible husband? And even at that, you expect her to allow the maid to stay in the house after stealing from her? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kobojunkie: 7:52pm On Apr 23 |
thesicilian:HUH? Didn't someone hail some woman called Chioma for accepting her cheating husband in the name of peace? Why is it unclear when another woman accepts cheating from her husband but not a house help stealing her property? 6 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 7:52pm On Apr 23 |
Zonefree: Accuse? Why did the husband react violently to a six month pregnant woman when she wanted the house maid to leave? And where is it said in the article that the house maid is a matured woman 4 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:00pm On Apr 23 |
Biglittlelois:The house help is matured, if not, the bittered ex wife would have been calling the innocent man a Paedophile all over social media. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:05pm On Apr 23 |
Creamypie: 1) Emotional blackmail when empty of what to say, you live with them to know what really happened abi? 2)You must be a crazy clown for the bolded you spewed 3) I thought Davido's chioma should be the "rolls modens" of every married woman for peace to reign according to morally bankrupt males like you, why are you shocked that she accepted her husband's "babe" and drew the line on stealing? 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Mariangeles(f): 8:09pm On Apr 23 |
The man that did this is possessed by legion of demons, and needs deliverance ASAP before he's destroyed. No person in their right mind can do this to anyone. 3 Likes
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Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:10pm On Apr 23 |
Zonefree: The cheating irresponsible violent ex is innocent? How? Why exactly wouldn't she be bitter to someone that almost killed her? 4 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:15pm On Apr 23 |
Kajaard: Na so, a man is the aggressor so logic failed you Reverse this scenario and watch this thread fly to 20 pages filled with insults from men without hearing both sides. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Creamypie(m): 8:16pm On Apr 23 |
Biglittlelois:thats y you are a fool. If she really believed that he was dating her, y did she wait until she "stole" b4 asking her 2 leave? What makes her think she stole it. Pls get off my mention |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:22pm On Apr 23 |
Creamypie: I won't get off your mention, you will learn logic tonight With the way the husband reacted violently to this scenerio, what makes you think she hasn't been asking the maid to leave without the husband stopping her effort? What makes you think the maid didn't steal? Were you there? Are you the husband? Are you the thief? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:25pm On Apr 23 |
Biglittlelois:Almost killed her? What proof do you have? 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Caaz: 8:26pm On Apr 23 |
So many fools supporting the man, because they're abusing their betterhalves at home. Messed up entities,so many of them are doing worst to their wives at home. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:30pm On Apr 23 |
Zonefree: Comprehension failed you? The broken glass and "sustained serious injuries" in the article skipped your eyesight? Serious injuries can't lead to death? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:41pm On Apr 23 |
Biglittlelois:So, you believed the words of a jilted and bittered ex Nigerian wife? What if she broke the glass? And where are the photos of her "sustained serious injuries"? 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 8:46pm On Apr 23 |
Zonefree: So we should believe you, an unknown moniker on a faceless forum instead of a woman that voluntarily said her story? Why not go to her page and ask her for details since you think you are that important to know more of what happened. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by emperor4love(m): 8:50pm On Apr 23 |
Una de try de marry mad people ooh |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Zonefree(m): 8:59pm On Apr 23 |
Biglittlelois:Women supporting women in full glare. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Tallesty1(m): 9:04pm On Apr 23 |
thesicilian:Normals na. Most times when a man stands up for a house help, next thing they do is to accuse him of sleeping with her. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 9:13pm On Apr 23 |
Zonefree: Rest Don't support women in your family when put in harms way, that's your business. 3 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by cococandy(f): 10:13pm On Apr 23 |
Tallesty1: This is how he stands up for the house help? 😒 7 Likes |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 10:21pm On Apr 23 |
Kobojunkie:Lol NO woman will accept cheating from her husband when the cheating is CONTINUOUS, in the SAME HOUSE she lives, and with a MAID she has CONTROL over. |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kobojunkie: 10:24pm On Apr 23 |
thesicilian:I disagree! There are cases out there of women accepting the maid as second wife. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 10:28pm On Apr 23 |
Biglittlelois:On the matter of evidence, did she mention any evidence that the maid actually slept with her husband or even stole from her? Did she mention what she supposedly stole from her? What if the maid was actually a hardworking, honest person that bothered the children (if any) and husband really liked, and when madam is beating her for stealing what might have just got lost, the husband decided to speak out for her? We all know that in most households with maids, the man dare not defend the maid when madam is beating her for fear of madam claiming they're sleeping together. 1 Like |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by thesicilian: 10:29pm On Apr 23 |
Kobojunkie:You go tell me which village you come from make I go check |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Biglittlelois(f): 10:46pm On Apr 23 |
thesicilian: So with all your baseless assumptions, the best way for the husband to defend the housemaid is to throw a glass table on a 6 month pregnant woman and seriously injure her in the process? Serious injuries that can be life threatening? You people will say anything, literally anything even if it sounds stupid, just to defend an idiot because he's a man. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by Kobojunkie: 11:16pm On Apr 23 |
thesicilian:Abeg no bring village inside wetin dey. |
Re: Woman Narrates How She Survived Violence From The Husband Because Of Her Maid by ChybuzzDD(m): 5:53am On Apr 24 |
Zonefree: Exactly. You know their tactics quite well. Na mumu dey believe their blackmailing stories 1 Like |
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