Obesity:
I She wrote two bags of rice. One for her and one for her sister. Provisions and 5 cartons of noodles and a cash of 50k to buy her Christmas clothes.

Later again around February she requested for 200k to start palm oil business.

Help me I need advice on how to solve this. I am afraid of losing him.

Obesity:
I have something bothering me and I don't know if it's right. My guy is presently not in the country. He is in Ghana and I am in nigeria working. He has introduced me to his mother and the mother accepts me. I am working but there is something the mother is doing that I don't like. In December last year she sent me a list of things to buy for her. She wrote two bags of rice. One for her and one for her sister. Provisions and 5 cartons of noodles and a cash of 50k to buy her Christmas clothes.

So I asked her if the list is for her son, and she said her son doesn't have money yet, that I should buy them. For peace to reign o, I bought the things for her. Something I did not even do for my own mother, I was doing it for another woman. Later again around February she requested for 200k to start palm oil business.

When I told her I don't have, she should ask her son and she said, hope I know my fate is in her hand. That she has the power to make her son not to marry me again. So I sent the money to her. A month later again, she told me her daughter's phone was stolen and that she needs to buy a new phone. So I sent 50k to her and she said the money is not enough that she is using phone of 250k. That I should send extra 200k to her.

And that was when I said no. Enough. I told my fiancée about it and he said does it mean I will not take care of his family when he marries me? I had to tell him that I don't have such amount of money they are demanding. I only earn 80k from my work. And his family is trying to exhaust my savings. I don't have. And he said I should look for a way to give the sister the remaining 200k or I should forget about the marriage.

I have been crying since he told me this. I don't have 200k with me. The only money in my savings is 102K. I don't know what to do. He is so serious about breaking up with me, if I don't give the sister the money.

Help me I need advice on how to solve this. I am afraid of losing him.

drnoel:


Your village people are in control here. Use your tongue to count your teeth, maybe when you are done. You will see the hand writing on the wall.
Those people are using you, be wise.
A man that wants to marry you will be the one wanting to give you, even if he doesn't have.

Sandralight:
Immediately you wrote your fiance gave you an ultimatum to give his sister 200k or he will break up with you. I just knew this story is fake, no girl is that stupid or have low self esteem