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You are too controlling and maybe you don't know it yet....
Your wife is an adult o... There's a limit to which you can interfere in her life..

As regards to the second issue;, allow her to talk to her family the way she sees fit... Even if she talk with them every minute.. Are you trying to cut her off from her family??

Coming to the first question; are your family members or hers jobless that they always want to come visit frequently?
Tell her to talk to her family while you talk to your own... That they should give you both space....

Davisk11:
Heaven knows I'm not trying to cut her off her family even she can attest to it...but is the only her elder brother that calls everyday is what I'm not buying the idea....thanks for your input

Sometimes we need to watch our actions, because sometimes we can inadvertently cause unintended problems...
It's her phone...
It's her data/airtime...
It's her brother for god's sake!!! Allow them...
Even if it's her friend, they might be so close that they talk to eachother daily.. it shouldn't bother you...
She cooks, she takes care of you and the household... What else do you want?
Allow her to be free...

Puss360:
Sometimes we need to watch our actions, because sometimes we can inadvertently cause unintended problems...
It's her phone...
It's her data/airtime...
It's her brother for god's sake!!! Allow them...
Even if it's her friend, they might be so close that they talk to eachother daily.. it shouldn't bother you...
She cooks, she takes care of you and the household... What else do you want?
Allow her to be free...

Thanks alot sis I will work on everything as you said may God almighty give me the strength to adjust..I pray peace reign in your family too

Some guys don't know how to take advantage of situations....

Me wey my gf fit dey cook for kitchen wey I go waka behind open boxer just chuk preek inside ass for no reason ... come see cat & dog struggle while I steal meat run away ....

If she is calling her friends abi na wetin, remove the left booby dey suck .... her attention would be divided in no time ....

Many guyman are too serious with life especially those that lacks parental care would want to put all the pressure On their wife without knowing how to convey the messages to her psychology.....

Play with your woman ... no be everything be overserious ... na so Redpilling dey Start....

Women ain't serious species you have to be unserious to make her serious 🙄