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A Nigerian Woman, Margaret Oyibo Atayi, has allegedly committed suicide over her failed marriage.

The mother of two from Ugbokolo Local Government Area of Benue State was found dead three days after she was declared missing by her family members.

She was last seen around City College Of Education, Abacha road, Mararaba, Nasarawa State at about 3am on Friday, May 17, 2024.

Since then, all efforts to locate her whereabouts proved abortive until her sister, Ochanya Chelle, confirmed that she was found dead on Monday, May 20.

According to her father, Mr. Patrick Atayi, she committed suicide after falling into depression due to her marital crisis.

“Margaret was a mother of two children. She has been in depression for some time now due to mistreatment by her husband," he explained.

“She went out on that fateful Friday morning by 3am without the knowledge of anybody. Her body was discovered in the late hours of Monday, and every available evidence confirmed that she committed suicide.”

A close source who confirmed the incident to Idoma Voice Newspaper said; “This is very unfortunate. In an effort to search for her, I reached out to her father and discovered that she was a mother of two children and that she went into depression for some time, which led to her going out that Friday night at 3 am without anyone’s knowledge, resulting in this unfortunate incident. Please, no one should die in silence, no matter the situation you find yourself in. Please speak out; you could be helped and overcome it. Nothing is worth taking your life for or dying for. Above all, embrace God and enjoy the peace of God."

Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/5/nigerian-woman-allegedly-commits-suicide-over-failed-marriage-2.html

This Is The Continuation Of The DEATH NEWS

The post that announced her death on the front page of this forum say ritual killing is suspected to have caused her death.

Many commenters on that thread assume she went for hookup.

Now on this thread, we are told she committed suicide. Anyways, may her soul rest in peace.

But let's talk about why a woman will commit suicide because of a failed marriage. Slay queens are the ones that commit suicide because of failed marriages. Only a woman that married for public validation and to brag and intimidate her romance rivals will commit suicide when the marriage fails her because she can't withstand mockery and ridicules from those she has tried to intimidate. Most of the women in this category are the type that posts nice family photos online as a coverup while dying in silence. They either marry good men but use bad characters to destroy the marriages or behave well in the marriages but suffer because they used gold digging mentality to choose the wrong men. Quote me anywhere.

A failed marriage causes bitterness and is very difficult to bear. But a woman who didn't go into marriage for the sake of peer pressure will not commit suicide if the marriage fails her. She will not post nice family pictures online as a coverup when she is suffering in the marriage. She will either cope in the marriage or leave the man. Quote me anywhere.

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Those attacking my comment cannot point out any falsehood or injustice in my comment. They are attacking me because they cannot withstand the bitter truth in my comment. They are not able to deny the claims in my comment. Haters of balanced judgement. Does my comment support marriage abuse? No. Does my comment trivialize marriage abuse? No. Does my comment condemn every woman? No. My comment describes good women and bad women. Does my comment present men as saints? No. Does my comment justify abuse in any form? No. So, why are they attacking me? I have challenged them to point out any sentence or paragraph that supports marriage abuse in my comment. They have not been able to do so. But they are busy attacking me. Is it not stupid to attack what you cannot prove wrong? Some are saying that God will punish me. They think God is a sentimentalist like them.😂

The missing lady?

illicit:
The missing lady?

Exactly, My Brother

thats exactly what i said earlier about women being emotional beings, while a man would have jejely moved on with his life.

what else should a woman do but to divorce that abusive husband?! to think that she believed that death was the better solution than to walk away from that abusive marriage, kai...

She wasted the kpekus over a failed marriage.

Leave an abusive relationship/marriage.

So sad, may her soul rest in perfect peace... Amen!

There was another thread made about her and everyone assumed she had gone to cheat on her husband with her secret boyfriend, with a lot of people wishing d3ath on her. Anyone who wished for her safe return was called an sIut and d3ath was also wished on them. Now it's come out she was depressed. I truly wish she hadn't seen it as the only option. RIP. Please check on your friends and family members and remind them they're not alone, so they don't feel taking their life is the only option they have.

Any story that appears, children on Nairaland will take it as gospel truth.

1. “She was murdered.”
Child on Nairaland: I said it!

2. “She committed suicide.”
Child no Nairaland: Did I not say it before.

3. “She was gunned down while robbing a bank.”
Child on Nairaland: I’ve told you people before; slay queens are the biggest armed robbers.

4. “She died in her sleep.”
Child on Nairaland: Slay queens are unfit.

5. “She died of a broken heart.”
Child on Nairaland: E dey show for her face.

So on and so forth.

Una dey like tree; anywhere breeze flow, una go follow.

In life always learn to value your peace of mind. No one should force you to do what you didn't want to do

Are there even people enjoying a blissful marriage in this generation?

PerfectStranger:
Are there even people enjoying a blissful marriage in this generation?

Yes there are. So many of us are!

Negative news are just more all over the media!

You don't hear news about decent homes on the media because there's nothing to hear.

Divorce and find love again

RIP to her

Even beauty can't tell the true state of mind of a person

Wahala no dey finish...
In as much as love and marriage is a beautiful thing....please married people, learn to be mentally at alert and sound at every point in time while in the marriage...

If it becomes to unbearable abeg leave....there is no award for best marriage...

Killing one's self or been killed by one's partner in marriage was not the plan of God for marriage..

Life will throw things at us, but we need more than 'I LOVE U" to overcome.....

Any marriage that is messing with ur mental health is already a threat to ur live..

And for those that are not married, dont let what u read scare u...just learn to replace that 'I LOVE U' with "SOUND MIND AND SOUND MENTAL HEALTH "

marriage in reality is different from what u see on zee world or telemundo..make una mind dey ooo

Marriage can stain ur white too...so be open minded

She couldn't handle the heart break

Terrible, may her soul find eternal rest 🙏

Naija police don run assumptions

May her soul rest in peace.

And some people were saying she was into runs and thus used for rituals on the other thread. Nigerians, watch your tongues and stop being judgmental once you see a pretty lady.

Nairaland mods should confirm stories before posting. The family could sue Seun for this.

She went out at 3am to commit suicide? Or somebody killed her?

Such a pretty lady. People should learn to share their challenges to trusted ones.
Some people might be blaming the woman, not knowing that some men can be very bad in character.

I don't support any form of misgivings that arise in marriage or relationship. But d truth is that what men endure from women and move on, if u dish half of it to women they get into depression and suicide.

Idoma girls are always very beautiful. Why will such a beauty kill herself cos of man . Marriage is not a do or die affairs. She was still very young and more prospects would have come her way.

This fine beauty commit suicide? Really sad!

When they tell ladies to go to Churches, they will prefer to go to Clubs, and only attend Churches on Sundays, just to revalidate that they are still nominal Christians. No true Christian, or even an ardent Church goer will commit suicide. Not only Faith comes through Hearing. Encouragement, Inspiration, and Motivation to move on also comes through Hearing. When they advise people to go Church, they will focus on saying that Pastors are Scammers. Focus on how the Church improves your spiritual and mental health, and not on what the stupid Pastors are doing...

The lady is beautiful o