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Pecoleee345:
Ehya happy 30yrs anniversary in marriage.

Common sense says Only a married niccompoop will give judgment based on one side story without asking questions.
If am crying about my marriage here is it your cry?? Abi I come meet you for advise or open threads on NL about my marriage??

Being married is bleeping big deal and only married people knows.....Only someone in a shitty marriage will say otherwise.

Honestly, you need help. Venteing your anger on everyone is not going to help you. If you feel hurt, divorce her if you can't because of your children, try and forgive and let go. For your mental health.
Why acting as if you're stuck in a hurtful marriage and don't know how to attain peace of mind?

[quote author=Magicalsineros post=130309785]Honestly, you need help. Venteing your anger on everyone is not going to help you. If you feel hurt, divorce her if you can't because of your children, try and forgive and let go. For your mental health.
Why acting as if you're stuck in a hurtful marriage and don't know how to attain peace of mind? [/quGod.

The way you people just talk hogwash on SM really amazes me.

Mental health?? U better take a chill pill and know it a faceless forum.

My wife is beside me here chilling this one is telling me about hurtful marriage.

Being blunt doesn't mean one isn't have a wonderful marriage always remember that.


I will write whatever I like is your headache to interpret whichever way you like.

Lovecode89:
Three years into marriage with a son. he resigned from his job immediately after the wedding, stop making effort to get another job. No business pursuit, no skill.
Left all the bills on the struggling wife. The marriage became so dry, no romance, the wife is always sad and over burden. Yet he wants intimacy from the wife. The wife deprived him for months.

How can she handle such marriage?

Separate from him. It is as simple as that. He'll be forced to sort himself out. If possible, leave the kid with him too. That'll only wake him up all the more.

But I'm guessing that while she can consider separating from him, her maternal instincts might prevent her from living her son behind or want him to experience a divided household. The said husband knows this. And it is enabling him.

thesicilian:
You'll have to manage him like that while helping him find another job or find a way to persuade him to get a skill. But whether he's doing well or not, you shouldn't deny him intimacy otherwise you're just compounding the problem.

The worst Contributions On Nairaland in The Year 2024 !!

You Can't even wait till December to Take Trophies of Yearning Yenyenyen

Magicalsineros:
Why would a woman give her body to a man who can not shield her when responsibility set in? A man who knows how to get erection, have se.x, must be able to take care of responsibility that comes with it. A woman's body is very delicate and should be explored by only a man that value and treat her well

My Pain is When Women Get Sense Than Men ....

The Learning Curve Could be Faster for Women at Adolescent(Boys & Girls Tingy) but at Full Maturities is Where Boys Should become Men ...

The Real Issues is Where Boys Remain Boys in 30s-40s .... It's Evil for The Societies & That's How Women Would Assume Masculinity Roles Because They Wouldn't Wanna Let their Children Suffers Due to Cowardice of Their Dads !!

Lovecode89:
I'm just worried and tired. He don't want to take up small job either. So many private school around us, I have encouraged him severally to pick up a teaching job, but he kept on complaining on the small salary.
He prefer to be relaxing at home than trying little thing. Is this a character of a man that loves his wife and child?

He is a Madman too Full of Himself ....

Adenuga Self don drive Taxi Before for US ...

If he no gel ... just drop his ass ....

Meanwhile, Pray about everything to Remove Hands of "Our People" from Village .... Their own na to Spoil Joy .... Pray about Your Moves too So as to Avoid Make Satan use you do "Dorime" .... !!

Pecoleee345:
Like they make it look like the man is just a log of wood during those period doing nothing and not dropping a single kobo.

That 2022 I paid the house rent and was still dropping whatever I see but due to the fact she was the one dropping the lion share.....I was lazy and not ready to work.

She started telling people she was tired and complaining like this.......Men I went through depression.

This was a woman i married jobless and can't even boost of 100k in her account then.
The business she runs i set it up for her.

Things change last year and table has turned......now that same woman now expects me to give her money freely and help her family members....lol

She herself no the love I have for her is now 20% and she always blaming the devil for her behaviors but for me I can only labor on my kids.

You are Still at Fault Brother !!

Women Couldn't be Blamed for Men's Job ...

Whatever You make your wife to become is what she become ...

They are like Liquid Metals, Whatever You Solidified Them Upon is How They Serve You whether in Poverties or Riches .....

The First Game a "Man" Must Learn is How to Possessed The "Brain-Box" of His Wife Without That, You will lose Control & She is Bound to Wreck You


You are also making another silly mistake already ... Laboring for your kids, Same kids she will use her emotional Bond with them to rewire them against You then You will enter another round of depression because your kids ain't recognizing your efforts .....

Baba, Run Your Wife Street before she run you street .... if she see say u be OG, Ajeh, She go Oblige & even feed her entire family unto your mouth ...

You will be collecting Without shishi .... That's how those playboys run women & the winning is always 100% everytime ....

Game Up ... Relationship Market is Steeper Than Politics.... Na same format but different Field !!

DonroxyII:
The worst Contributions On Nairaland in The Year 2024 !!

You Can't even wait till December to Take Trophies of Yearning Yenyenyen

Lol
One of my many ways of de-stressing myself after a hard day's work is to sit back and view Nairaland comments. Especially those borne out of superficial understanding or just plain tomfoolery.

thesicilian:
Lol
One of my many ways of de-stressing myself after a hard day's work is to sit back and view Nairaland comments. Especially those borne out of superficial understanding or just plain tomfoolery.

Someone has been begging a Useless Man for 3years & You are still asking her to be begging ...

The reason why Nigerian Men are Irresponsible is because There is no Law against Irresponsible Men ....

Even if the law Favours your Irresponsibilities, it doesn't mean Natural Law wouldn't Queried Your Stupidities......

The Useless Man is Genetically Useless to even Himself ... Which Sane Man would lie idle for 3years ....

Olohun Maje, I wouldn't be owkay with My Brain & Mental Set ....

Ohboy, ... I have seen a Useless Man that left his wife in the hospital when it was time to pay for delivery ... She asked the wife, didn't you bring any money to clear yourself... the wife said No ... He said then be living here then & dashed off .....

The wife had to pay for everything from pregnancy to delivery .. wife got the boy into school .... without collecting ....

Many Useless Men Abound because there is no Law Charging them to their Responsibilities! ....

God help me Up, Una Go Change ... Aswear!

DonroxyII:
Someone has been begging a Useless Man for 3years & You are still asking her to be begging ...

The reason why Nigerian Men are Irresponsible is because There is no Law against Irresponsible Men ....

Even if the law Favours your Irresponsibilities, it doesn't mean Natural Law wouldn't Queried Your Stupidities......

Come to think of it, there's no law against irresponsible women also

The Useless Man is Genetically Useless to even Himself ... Which Sane Man would lie idle for 3years ....

The guy appears irresponsible, I agree. But he's still her husband.

Olohun Maje, I wouldn't be owkay with My Brain & Mental Set ....

Ohboy, ... I have seen a Useless Man that left his wife in the hospital when it was time to pay for delivery ... She asked the wife, didn't you bring any money to clear yourself... the wife said No ... He said then be living here then & dashed off .....

The wife had to pay for everything from pregnancy to delivery .. wife got the boy into school .... without collecting ....

Many Useless Men Abound because there is no Law Charging them to their Responsibilities! ....

God help me Up, Una Go Change ... Aswear!

Lol. Why didn't she carry money along to the labour room na, when she knows the kind of man she married? But on a more serious note I have my own way of collecting money from such irresponsible men to give to their wives on admission. When I finish with him it's not with clear eyes he'll run and go look for money to come and pay for so and so in the hospital (money that will be mostly refunded to the wife secretly)

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DonroxyII:
You are Still at Fault Brother !!

Women Couldn't be Blamed for Men's Job ...

Whatever You make your wife to become is what she become ...

They are like Liquid Metals, Whatever You Solidified Them Upon is How They Serve You whether in Poverties or Riches .....

The First Game a "Man" Must Learn is How to Possessed The "Brain-Box" of His Wife Without That, You will lose Control & She is Bound to Wreck You


You are also making another silly mistake already ... Laboring for your kids, Same kids she will use her emotional Bond with them to rewire them against You then You will enter another round of depression because your kids ain't recognizing your efforts .....

Baba, Run Your Wife Street before she run you street .... if she see say u be OG, Ajeh, She go Oblige & even feed her entire family unto your mouth ...

You will be collecting Without shishi .... That's how those playboys run women & the winning is always 100% everytime ....

Game Up ... Relationship Market is Steeper Than Politics.... Na same format but different Field !!

I need to know this first before replying you length.

Are you married......if you are how many years

condensedmilk:
There's no fun in olosho

Why get into something you will regret later in life?

And you had the time to reply someone whose comment has already defined? Please ignore her.