A friend of mine recently had serious issues with his wife who accused him of not writing anything on her facebook wall other than the 'you are welcome' messgae she got from him when she open her Facebook account. She accused him of writing on others' wall except hers. My friend said he did not have to share a messgae meant for his wife with everybody. Please house, whT is your take on this as I need to convince the parties. Thanks

Why r dey makin a big deal out of nothin. Its obvious d guy doesnt fancy PDA, so d wife shld either live wt it or stop checkin walls ha husband has commented on.

Shikena!

I can't even understand why personal relationship with ones wife should be brought to facebook. My fiancee too almost went mad because of my posts on FB; told me the posts may affect her. I told her WTF is her business with what I post on my FB wall.

The problem probably goes beyong FB and hos comments. The wife probably feel that there is a disconnection between them and she does not know what it is. Most women do this when they feel they don't get enough attention: they lash out at the nearesy thind they can lash out at

I probably share the same opinion as most of you do. Come to think of it how many of your married friends on facebook write on theire spouses' wall. They probably would say everything when they are together, on phone or through text messaging. I tire for this woman oh. I think I would suggest a couple retreat to my friend this christmas so that they can have time together. They probably are not having enough of each other recently.

muyete:

A friend of mine recently had serious issues with his wife who accused him of not writing anything on her facebook wall other than the 'you are welcome' messgae she got from him when she open her Facebook account. She accused him of writing on others' wall except hers. My friend said he did not have to share a messgae meant for his wife with everybody. Please house, whT is your take on this as I need to convince the parties. Thanks

It's up to them, they have their own reasons which may not be valid for others

Yes oh.The wife can pull down the heavens and scream herself hoarse.
She snatched the man from another girl by flashing cleavage @ fbk?
He impressed,wooed and married her by posting long epistles on her wall?
They met and contracted their marriage on fbk via mutual friends?

Yeye dey boom!

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Dis d hghest level f insecurity. D wife is not sure of hr hubby's love. Pls tel e guy to alwys tel his wife he loves hr

chaircover:

Don't they talk at home? 

Only God knows how many marriages have broken up because of this facebook wahala.

Wahala

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What is that about. The man comes across as an agbaya though

I don't ever write to my spouse on FB, why should I? What I could write there I could write on a piece of paper and stick to his forehead (or forfeit the paper, and when he's asleep write it in permanent marker)

My private life is just that, I don't feel the need to play it out in public.

N101:

My private life is just that, I don't feel the need to play it out in public.

Tell that to the fo[i]o[/i]ls who use Facebook to update the world about every detail of their lives.

Here's a sample of an annoying Facebook WALL conversation:
Character 1: I woke up feeling good. Woke up next to this hot chick! Wink! Wink!
Character 2: Hope you used protection. Lol.
Character 1: Of course I used protection. What do you think?
Character 3: . . . . .(inserts the 'I-like-this' sign)
Character 2: So, which condom did you use? Personally, Trust Condoms will always be my first choice.
Character 4: Hahaha. . . . .man you're the bomb!. . . . .(inserts another 'I-like-this' sign)
Character 5: Seems like somebody has been a naughty boy. . . (wink! wink!)
Character 1: Not that bad. . . .just hormones raging. . .
Character 2: And hot chicks too available. Lol.
Character 3: By the way, what happenned to Sandra? Thought you two had a thing.
Character 1: Sandra is history mehn! Linda is my number 1 lady right now.
Character 3: Who'z Linda??
Character 1: WTF? You don't know Linda? That Barclays banker with big b[i]o[/i]obs and s[i]e[/i]xy legs?
Character 3: Oh! That Linda. . . . !! Gerraoura here mehn! You bad boy!! You're the s[i]h[/i]it! Inbox me mehn!
Character 1: Sure I will. Check yo inbox. . . . . . . . . . . . . .

Now. Now. Now. The above im[i]b[/i]eciles have just displayed their stu[i]p[/i]idity to the whole world and after the milk has already been spilt, they think they can rescue the situation by running to dear "inbox" for refuge. Like the rest of us will suddenly find them "smart" for conveniently utilizing the inbox. Silly people will always be silly. Fo[i]o[/i]lishness has no cure.

@ OP,
Your friend's wife should be glad she has a thoughtful husband who respects what they share. The whole world doesn't need to know some stuff. Facebook should be banned! Walahi! 

N101:

I don't ever write to my spouse on FB, why should I? What I could write there I could write on a piece of paper and stick to his forehead (or forfeit the paper, and when he's asleep write it in permanent marker)

My private life is just that, I don't feel the need to play it out in public.

Good talk!

if he likes.

I agreed with my wife that we should not be facebook friends so that she can be free to express herself without thinking of how i will feel with every post she puts on facebook.I did that because i trust her and also because we have different character traits.She is an extrovert while i am an introvert and therefore i will like her to feel free and express herself in the best way she wants.

chyket:
I agreed with my wife that we should not be facebook friends so that she can be free to express herself without thinking of how i will feel with every post she puts on facebook.I did that because i trust her and also because we have different character traits.She is an extrovert while i am an introvert and therefore i will like her to feel free and express herself in the best way she wants.

Eeyah.