hi,

my name is James and I am from the UK. I just recently moved over to Ghana to do alittle business there. I dated many Ghanaian women but lately I have lost the same love for them I had women I came. They just irritate me alot right now. I dont know why some naija guys go gaga over the Ghanaian honeyz. yes some are nice but their attitude annoys me. I have tried to link up with Nigerian women here but they are very standoffish. Perhaps they only date their Nigerian men or so i have been told. I can't help but notice that many Nigerian women are fine as hell, and I am sure if I can get past their shield they may not be all that bad inside. I think initially they put up a protective shield but after a while they may be nicer. Alot of Ghanaians bad mouth Nigerian girls as evil and such but I can't help but notice how hot they are. It's like the forbidden fruit I need to have a bite. Someone introduced me to one fine actress in Ghana and she is from NJ(stella or something) and she was the bomb. I really wish I could date a beautiful Naija lady with class and good manners but I have no idea where to start. Please advise me and keep it 100% no trolling. Thanks

U can send ur email address and ur details to this mailbox(dancok24@mtnnigeria.blackberry.com)or if u use BB,pin me 30fd5e6c.

there are good and bad girls in Nigeria and every other place but thing is they never write it on their foreheads.
the qualities you want in a woman and the person who you really are will go a long way in helping your choice.
P.s-You are going to hear lots of silly things about naija girl from some goats here.but i promise you,70 percent of them are baseless generalizations.goodluck!

@slimyem yeah im sure i will but if i want to look for good one where do i start. I have seen hot nigerians in nightclubs here in ghana and they are smoking hot. its hard to ignore the primal instinct to just want to impregnate one of them but of course that is just lust. i want a beautiful girl with good character. most of them are really standoffish here especially the lighter skinned ones

Lefu it's okay, we know you really like 9ja girls so commot from the closet and please drop the UK act 

see, you can just walk up to a girl on the street or pick someone up in a club if all you are about is hot botty but if you serious and homely,you'd need to have some kind of social circle.hang out with reasonable friends,have them introduce someone to you,go to parties,join a club and bla,bla bla.socialise well and be yourself.you might just get lucky.

SAFO:

Lefu it's okay, we know you really like 9ja girls so commot from the closet and please drop the UK act 

lefu cannot type 2 sentences in pure english.he's transparent enough.we all know he sells boole(roasted plantain)at mushin.
This is beyond him.

@slimyem  yes I think i need to build a social circle because i don't have the balls to do street pick ups. agree that if i wanted quick booty the nightclub would be best but i am looking for a potential relationship not just sex but love too

There are many at school and universities here and they kind of like going to bars and restaurants. I wish i could link with with some respectable naija cats here. that way I can have a wing man.

^^
on point.
I was going to comment on his clearly superior diction.

@mrCork 100+ million people and all of them are no good? Come on! there is loads of women they can't be all bad,  I swear Naija guys don't want to share their women . Stop being greedy and share the hot women with the rest of us,

Gmong, today just might be your lucky day.
Been searching for a ghanaian guy for ages.
Kidding.

Make friends with any Nigerian you can, especially older aunties and uncles. I'm sure they'll be able to arrange an introduction.
That way, there'll be no fronting as u both are game.
All the best.

@some-girl lol sorry to disappoint you but I aint ghanaian. I just live here. Thanks for the tip. I think it could come handy.

slimyem:

lefu cannot type 2 sentences in pure english.he's transparent enough.we all know he sells boole(roasted plantain)at mushin.
This is beyond him.

Gmong:

@mrCork 100+ million people and all of them are no good? Come on! there is loads of women they can't be all bad,  I swear Naija guys don't want to share their women . Stop being greedy and share the hot women with the rest of us,

u sure you re not whom I suspect?

Gmong, so where are you from? just curious. . .

@mykali - Well I live in Buckinghamshire, Marlow. thats where my home is. its quite really far away from central london. But at the moment I am working with a swiss firm here in ghana.  I live at West Legon at the mo. Not far from the Legon Uni here.