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| Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 6:50pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
I don't want to bore you with much worse. I dated a girl for 5years. We started dating back then when we were in the university. She was very kind and very understanding. But she broke up with me and went ahead to date her colleague because he was more handsome (I'm not really that sweet to look at) She treated me like a piece of shit, like a used rag, not considering the fact that we were together for 5years. Now she broke up with him again and she's been begging me consistently for two years now wanting a relationship. I've blocked her on all platforms but she always uses new numbers to get with me which they all go into the "blocked zone". Back when we were dating. I was told by someone that I shouldn't leave the girl no matter what. Now this year, revelation has come out from two different people that I must take that girl back. That she holds a key to my financial breakthroughs. Not like I believe that bullshit anyways but It's kind of bothering me. 1. I feel like she lacks loyalty, how could I taie back someone who doesn't understand what loyalty is. 2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for? 3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now. 4. My ego is bruised because, she chose her colleague who had a GF over me who all I had was her. 5. I feel like her colleague is the person she really likes. She might be back because she isn't getting what she wants from him. Guys please advice me, How do I date who I hate and please teach me how to avenge myself? She hurt me so much when she left that I was bleeped up mentally up to the extent that I lost a huge sum of money and a source of income, I've been struggling since then. I even fell sick after that. An eye for an eye. I want to avenge myself please. Please teach me all the possible wicked things I can do even if I must took her back. cc: Martinez39s Skepticus Luminouz CaveAdullam MrBrownJay1 Faber Heartofcity12 Pukkalolo JESHAL007 Rizzputin Nonexistent1 @ everyone. Please save a brother. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Everyday247: 7:24pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
If she's disturbing you too much just say the word, I know a guy that could "take care of her" for you, and you'll never hear from her again. ![]() |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by luminouz(m): 7:28pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Meaning:Boss...this is a long my own experiences. I have a story to tell you. I am coming soon... Loading..20% |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Namaster: 7:40pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Take her back and donate your balls to a ritualist. You are very OBVIOUSLY the consolation price. She chose to be a SIDECHICK to a guy who already had a GF than be your main girl. She has ZERO respect for you. If you take her back, you'd FOREVER be a PLACEHOLDER until she finds the next dick she wants to jump on. At that point, all the work you've done to REPAIR your self-esteem will CRUMBLE like dry leaves. By the way, IGNORE the SPIRITUAL scammers who are telling you that she's the key to your BREAKTHROUGH. If they are so ATTUNED to the spiritual realm to the point of seeing the FUTURE, how come they've NOT seen their way to becoming a BILLIONAIRE. Don't they like financial breakthrough too? ![]() You are VULNERABLE. The scammers smell your waivering resolve so they are telling you what they THINK you want to hear. STOP consulting with CROOKS like that. Also, you have EVIDENCE that whatever they are implying is a LIE. She already caused you to LOSE a huge sum of money and a STREAM of income. Plus, stop thinking about "AVENGING" yourself. You already fuccked the girl for FIVE years. And the person she left you for has DISCARDED her like Suya wrapper. She's WORTHLESS to you. And she KNOWS it. Continue to IGNORE her. IGNORE her until she begins to doubt her own existence. NO need to do something SILLY to "avenge" yourself. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by EreluRoz: 7:43pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Don't take her back, any girl that can easily fall for a man just because of looks has high tendency of promiscuity. Also anyone who treats you bad in your down times does not deserve to be part of your good times. Somehow I felt your pains that's why I told you the truth unlike my normal self here. 😆. Heal and move on, your destiny can't be tied to someone that trash treated you. Loyalty is what a man should watch out for in a woman while comfort, leadership and core family values should be what a woman look out for in a potential husband. If you were my brother I'll personally chase her away from your life with or without your consent and Yes I go all length for my loved ones. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 7:48pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Everyday247:It's not like killing her please |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by gravity4(m): 7:51pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
EreluRoz:Hmm. Omo since them murder that girl, some girls don dey get sense |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Sonnobax15(m): 8:08pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
![]() Forget all those revelation bullshiit and never accept her back... Leave vengeance for God......... |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:14pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
luminouz:Please do boss |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:16pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Namaster:Thank you so much. We will ignore her from henceforth. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:18pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
EreluRoz:Thank you so much. I so much love you people on this platform. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by weslay: 8:19pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
I didn't read your post, but don't take her back. So long you're here lamenting, that means she has a 'comma' that you aren't comfortable with |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Dyfynezz12(m): 8:20pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
EreluRoz:Hmmm,sometimes I wonder if u have cognitive dissonance |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Wow... She has so manipulated u that u have lost Ur self worth to the point of not knowing what U want anymore. Talking about her being the keys to ur financial breakthrough. Omor anybody that tells U that shīt if U don't have money to lock them up use 2 by 4 on their heads nonsense |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by EreluRoz: 8:23pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Meaning:You are welcome. Forget about vengeance and focus on yourself, don't be in a rush to find love, do your thing and let it find you. Don't be in a hurry to replace her to spite her, just find peace and live your life. Don't stalk her on social media and don't let her stalk you, I hope you get what I mean. I wish you genuine happiness and may God heal and bless you in no distant time amen. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Faber(m): 8:25pm On Sep 06, 2024*. Modified: 8:42pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
First and foremost... there's no person anywhere in the world that is holding the key to your success, even twin brothers can both end up being broke or being rich or one being broke and the other rich. Their destinies are not the same or tied together. All those revelations that she holds key to your financial break through are lies and mere aberration Secondly you have to forgive her, stop hating on her and move on. Forgive her out of selfishness. When we forgive people, it makes us better because we are going to be more at peace with ourselves and achieve greater heights as our soul and spirits are free from grudges. So forgiving her will favour you more. 👇👇👇 2. I have a deep and an intense hatred for her. How can I take back someone I have a deep hatred for? At the bolded below, 👇👇👇bro I don't think you have levelled up, I am not saying that you are lying. But if you have really levelled up, you will be so busy with your new life and better babes that a girl you dated in Buhari's regime😂😂 will not bother you to create a topic about her on this forum. 3. She no longer meets my spec. I have a better taste now. Finally, the earlier you understand that some people are in your life to help you, some are in your life to deal with you and some people are in your life to teach you life lessons. All these people will come and go...everyone of them is important in your life journey as a man...so let her go, she was part of the group that came to deal with you and teach you some life lessons. Look for those that will help you to grow, bring them into your life. Stay blessed, stay focused, forward ever, backward never👌 Meaning:
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| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Lalami3232(m): 8:26pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
![]() She holds the keys to your financial breakthrough? ![]() Abeg can you ask the pastor wey prophecy to you say "who hold the key to Nigeria's breakthrough" because I wan check something. Do you remember Mazi Okafor's law of congo dynamics? Nairalanders, should we tell him? ![]() |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by EreluRoz: 8:27pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Dyfynezz12:look beyond some of my comments and you'll see clearly. Shalom |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:29pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
weslay:Thank you sir. I appreciate |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:30pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
dkidd:I might have indulged them too much. I'll desist from prophets of doom henceforth. Thanks sir |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:32pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
EreluRoz:It's been 3years since we broke up and she started getting with me last year which I've blocked her entirety. I don't do that stalking shit. Though I deflowered her, but she left, not like I did. Thank you so much Madam. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by EreluRoz: 8:32pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Faber:You are really growing up, I did a good job and I'm glad I thought you some lessons few years back when you were on rampage in this forum telling us how you use and dump women. You can now see I'm not wicked I only want you to follow the good path of life. Don't thank me, the changes I see in you is enough. Lastly visit any branch of our church around you Christ embassy and give your life to Christ. Shalom |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:32pm On Sep 06, 2024*. Modified: 9:54pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
some people will never succeed in life because of their own self (and their misplaced ego)... see this dude putting so much effort and energy on getting back at some worthless person out there. this woman shouldnt even remotely be in your mind, unless you want to remember the type of people to stay away from. why would you even want to spend your valuable time thinking about the past? take all what happened with this babe as a LEARNING EXPERIENCE and basta. at least, thanks to her, you now know the type of women to stay away from. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:33pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Lalami3232:Please tell me |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Meaning(op): 8:35pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
MrBrownJay1:Hmmm... Chai! I feel hurt but I'm grateful. The truth hurts anyway. Thank you so much sir. |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Nicepoker(m): 8:56pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
She finished you years ago. Guess what? She wants to come back and FINISH YOU COMPLETELY ![]() |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by yommysure(m): 9:05pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Bro NO take am back…. Meaning: |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Austeeenxx: 9:06pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Hehehe
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| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Kingking001(m): 9:58pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
After 5yrs she switch to a fine dude and u wan take her back.ok.listen to ur heart bro.once bitten...........? |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by OlawaleBammie: 9:59pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
EreluRoz:You are a very good girl But bad mouth won't let you gbadun |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by geewean(m): 10:01pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Understand this fact about majority of Nigerian women. The are transactionary minded in the space of love.Women don't love men but they are in love and loyal to their feelings.Dont ever trust a woman's words no matter how sweet it may sound but trust their patterns that's why you must be vigilant when you are with them and be unemotional else they will use you like rollon. She left you for a guy because he is handsome.This confirms that she was never in love with you but was monkey branching. Sit down think about how she and her ex fixed a dinner date, sent sexual WhatsApp messages and she said he is the best thing that happend to her.It graduated to them bathing together naked and her sucking his pipes ravishingly and him now stroking it into her couchy while she screams his name and even deeps it in her self.Remember how he spanks her ass well and keeps thrusting it inside her with her eyes deemed in awe of the sweetness of his moses rod and possibly swallowed his cum 😂😂😂😂😂.Is it that kind of fellow you wanna welcome into your kingdom? It's obvious you haven't healed from her totally and I will advise you do that or else you will miss out on more beautiful women in the future.You see that missing her is fictional not real.Its just a combination of chemicals( oxytocin) playing in your psyche.Delete her number and don't ever I mean don't ever stalk her for 6 months consistently I bet you that she will evaporate from your mind easily. Remember that by default, tomorrow is better that yesterday.She is your yesterday.Somebody better I mean 100x better than her awaits you ahead and if you don't build yourself to attract and keep that person na you loose again oooo. You are just an emotional asylum she is trying to seek refuge in and once she sees another handsome guy she will move. The best way to revenge her is to IGNORE her totally my brother don't pick her calls don't utter a word just be quiet and watch how she will be tormented mentally even if she sees the handsome guy. The world is counting on your for that big invention, solution and innovation.You might be the next Elon musk or Tech guru.Forget her Baba when money enter you take a trip to Maimi you go see better babes wey you go say knock your head for ever loving her sef. Baba make money ooooooooo |
| Re: Guys Please, Should I Take Her Back? by Fidecoo(m): 11:31pm On Sep 06, 2024 |
Meaning:Ahhh Chairman, you no die again?? As you Been yearn last year. You been say na only 6-12months you been get to leave. So wetin come happen, any new update? |
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