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Good day romancelanders ,happy Sunday to you guys,I have an issue I want table before you my friends and I trust your judgement on this issue, alright I'm 28 years old and I've been into lots of relationships but one thing I've observed is that no girl has ever bought any gift for me despite my heavy spending and when I confront them,they'll say they don't have money,a lot of them see me as rich even though I'm just managing,just that I'm not the stingy type...how do I go about this please

MrNice04:
Good day romancelanders ,happy Sunday to you guys,I have an issue I want table before you my friends and I trust your judgement on this issue, alright I'm 28 years old and I've been into lots of relationships but one thing I've observed is that no girl has ever bought any gift for me despite my heavy spending and when I confront them,they'll say they don't have money,a lot of them see me as rich even though I'm just managing,just that I'm not the stingy type...how do I go about this please

Oga dey don't see u as rich .
U get car

Cesarr1:
Oga dey don't see u as rich .
U get car

😂😂they see u as Apa

MrNice04:
Good day romancelanders ,happy Sunday to you guys,I have an issue I want table before you my friends and I trust your judgement on this issue, alright I'm 28 years old and I've been into lots of relationships but one thing I've observed is that no girl has ever bought any gift for me despite my heavy spending and when I confront them,they'll say they don't have money,a lot of them see me as rich even though I'm just managing,just that I'm not the stingy type...how do I go about this please

Stop it. Stop wasting your resources on ladies. That's how most of them do. When you start ascending gifts and other materials on them they will think you have and they are ready to lock their own purse to give out to you. They don't know that we guys are just striving to make up to responsibilities, no be say the money dey so much like that but a mumu girl and greedy girl will not reason like that Na you go use your brain as a guy man make you no go finish your hard earned resources because of all these stupid, selfish and greedy ladies we have outside. Be wise

Aleem26:
😂😂they see u as Apa

Sorry what's apa

Lol..... most Nigerian relationship is largely an exploitation arrangement against the man...

U are the one that must tip the scales in your favour by avoiding hungry girls at all cost, especially hungry, entitled, unkind girls without shame..

U are nothing to them but a means to an end, and the reason they will never return any nice gestures to you, or go out of their way for you the way you do for them is because they already have the mindset the legs they spread is greater than wateva you can do for them....

Ayomide11111:
Stop it. Stop wasting your resources on ladies. That's how most of them do. When you start ascending gifts and other materials on them they will think you have and they are ready to lock their own purse to give out to you. They don't know that we guys are just striving to make up to responsibilities, no be say the money dey so much like that but a mumu girl and greedy girl will not reason like that Na you go use your brain as a guy man make you no go finish your hard earned resources because of all these stupid, selfish and greedy ladies we have outside. Be wise

my brother this is really a pandemic....even working class ladies woo...my current girlfriend owns a spa I still buys gift for her and she hasn't given me one naira and she keeps claiming she loves me...

advanceDNA:
Lol..... most Nigerian relationship is largely an exploitation arrangement against the man...

U are the one that must tip the scales in your favour by avoiding hungry girls at all cost, especially hungry, entitled, unkind girls without shame..

U are nothing to them but a means to an end, and the reason they will never return any nice gestures to you, or go out of their way for you the way you do for them is because they already have the mindset the legs they spread is greater than wateva you can do for them....

my brother they're all like that... I've dated a lot of independent ladies and they're all like that...before ending of the month they'll say there salary have finished ...my gf owns a spa living in a well furnished apartment still sge still demands

Cesarr1:
Oga dey don't see u as rich .
U get car

my brother if I send my pics you'll understand...the say I look fresh like a rich kid

Cesarr1:
Sorry what's apa

a wasteful person. Someone who lack manner of spending , spend anyhow..does that help...

Cesarr1:
Sorry what's apa

pls what's apa

MrNice04:
my brother they're all like that... I've dated a lot of independent ladies and they're all like that...before ending of the month they'll say there salary have finished ...my gf owns a spa living in a well furnished apartment still sge still demands

Don't get it twisted, a girl is working and earning money doesn't mean she's not hungry, unkind and entitled.....these attributes is usually not hidden..first date u would have noticed unless u are too driven by pvssy...

MrNice04:
my brother if I send my pics you'll understand...the say I look fresh like a rich kid

you never get money and you day Clam fresh, well a fool at 40 can still be wise at 41


The only girl I'm into relationship with wrote single on her employment form 😭😭

Na u cox am,mayb u re the type that always tell a girl that taking care of her is ur responsibility.
So the girls been stingy by nature decide to take the backseat ND allow u to keep spending

Be selfish with your resources foolish man, anybody that doesn't sacrifices for me I no go sacrifice for am ,na my policy.

You do for me I do for you

Ayomide11111:
Stop it. Stop wasting your resources on ladies. That's how most of them do. When you start ascending gifts and other materials on them they will think you have and they are ready to lock their own purse to give out to you. They don't know that we guys are just striving to make up to responsibilities, no be say the money dey so much like that but a mumu girl and greedy girl will not reason like that Na you go use your brain as a guy man make you no go finish your hard earned resources because of all these stupid, selfish and greedy ladies we have outside. Be wise

my brother I try to be nice since most of them complain their ex's are terrible and I love for real...

advanceDNA:
Don't get it twisted, a girl is working and earning money doesn't mean she's not hungry, unkind and entitled.....these attributes is usually be hidden..first date u would have noticed unless u are too driven by pvssy...

hmmn...thing is this entitlement mentality is been exhibited by all this so called big girls...how do i fish them out from a mile away pls...they really got bad energy

Ballzproblem2:
Be selfish with your resources foolish man, anybody that doesn't sacrifices for me I no go sacrifice for am ,na my policy.

You do for me I do for you

Hmmm... honestly you're right no wonder guys do hit and run...😂😂😂

Dyfynezz12:
Na u cox am,mayb u re the type that always tell a girl that taking care of her is ur responsibility.
So the girls been stingy by nature decide to take the backseat ND allow u to keep spending

even at that she's not supposed to take the back seat..

Olachase:
you never get money and you day Clam fresh, well a fool at 40 can still be wise at 41


The only girl I'm into relationship with wrote single on her employment form 😭😭

lol...but she's not married nah

Olachase:
you never get money and you day Clam fresh, well a fool at 40 can still be wise at 41


The only girl I'm into relationship with wrote single on her employment form 😭😭

I no get but I look like I get

advanceDNA:
Don't get it twisted, a girl is working and earning money doesn't mean she's not hungry, unkind and entitled.....these attributes is usually be hidden..first date u would have noticed unless u are too driven by pvssy...

lol ..I guess I'll start hit and run...😂😂😂...btw there are girls that buy things for their boyfriends...even dangote receive gifts

MrNice04:
my brother I try to be nice since most of them complain their ex's are terrible and I love for real...

When a woman starts complaining about her ex to you, you are done for.

I had this lady tell me her ex was too nice, even bought her cake on her birthday and brought his friends to celebrate with her on the day. I was surprised a guy doing all those for her, and what he gets is, he’s too nice. She said the guy says “sorry” even when she’s at fault.

Guess what, on her next birthday She was at my place, her expectations was so high that around 4pm of that day, She could not control it any more. She blew out of anger because She was expecting I was going to do those “para ran” for her

Omo I lock up. We even got into a heated argument that day because She was losing her mind over the fact I did not even care to do anything for her. As She was taking the whole thing too far, I tear for her. When She saw I was even getting madder than her, She burst cry and hugged me. Around 8pm we went to a wine shop, bought wine and drank. That was the end.

I mean if a man can do all those for her and she never appreciated it, I had to use my sense.

Ayomide11111:
Stop it. Stop wasting your resources on ladies. That's how most of them do. When you start ascending gifts and other materials on them they will think you have and they are ready to lock their own purse to give out to you. They don't know that we guys are just striving to make up to responsibilities, no be say the money dey so much like that but a mumu girl and greedy girl will not reason like that Na you go use your brain as a guy man make you no go finish your hard earned resources because of all these stupid, selfish and greedy ladies we have outside. Be wise

please how can I turn the tide....I really want to settle down

Cesarr1:
Oga dey don't see u as rich .
U get car

I no get car woo...just that I dress very well

MrNice04:
lol ..I guess I'll start hit and run...😂😂😂...btw there are girls that buy things for their boyfriends...even dangote receive gifts

You don’t have to do hit and run else you’ll continue running and never get the real experience to filter out the good ones from the bad ones. The mistake I made in the past.

If you are spiritually inclined, you can spot a girl that is manageable and ready to learn. Even if her head is full of shlt at the time you meet her, provided you notice she’s willing to learn, no need to hit and run. Teach her the things you know about life, give her corrections at the appropriate time.

Watch what happens after. A lot of women are ready to learn from us but we are not ready to teach them. Some of us do not even have anything tangible to teach them. The honest truth.

Carcholce:
When a woman starts complaining about her ex to you, you are done for.

I had this lady tell me her ex was too nice, even bought her cake on her birthday and brought his friends to celebrate with her on the day. I was surprised a guy doing all those for her, and what he gets is, he’s too nice. She said the guy says “sorry” even when she’s at fault.

Guess what, on her next birthday She was at my place, her expectations was so high that around 4pm of that day, She could not control it any more. She blew out of anger because She was expecting I was going to do those “para ran” for her

Omo I lock up. We even got into a heated argument that day because She was losing her mind over the fact I did not even care to do anything for her. As She was taking the whole thing too far, I tear for her. When She saw I was even getting madder than her, She burst cry and hugged me. Around 8pm we went to a wine shop, bought wine and drank. That was the end.

I mean if a man can do all those for her and she never appreciated it, I had to use my sense.

alot of them do that they'll start comparing me with their ex's...

MrNice04:
I no get car woo...just that I dress very well

So between God and man
Between me and you
You rich ?

No
Na fake life u dey live for your girls
Hope u dey achieve goals sha

.

Cesarr1:
So between God and man
Between me and you
You rich ?

No
Na fake life u dey live for your girls
Hope u dey achieve goals sha

Jess I don't have time for that just that they assume I'm rich even when I don't own a car they feel I can afford it

Carcholce:
You don’t have to do hit and run else you’ll continue running and never get the real experience to filter out the good ones from the bad ones. The mistake I made in the past.

If you are spiritually inclined, you can spot a girl that is manageable and ready to learn. Even if her head is full of shlt at the time you meet her, provided you notice she’s willing to learn, no need to hit and run. Teach her the things you know about life, give her corrections at the appropriate time.

Watch what happens after. A lot of women are ready to learn from us but we are not ready to teach them. Some of us do not even have anything tangible to teach them. The honest truth.

wow...this is a classic submission... Thing is I have a list of things I need in a woman...but most girls I meet don't think all my boxes

MrNice04:
hmmn...thing is this entitlement mentality is been exhibited by all this so called big girls...how do i fish them out from a mile away pls...they really got bad energy

Baba.....if you are superficial..the chances superficial things will drive you to superficial girls is high.....

The last thing I will do is approach a random girl on the street, mall, or online because of fine face, yansh or brezz, by telling her she's fine

....man, of course she knows shes pretty, infact she already probably has an inflated sense of self...it will end in exploitation because there is likely no attraction, likeliness of any kind from her end.

Me I cant approach a lady without noticing something impressive about her, and it can never be yansh, brezz or face....

Altogether...me I have a principle...I give only when i like....I resist all billings even if she claims her shes dying im the hopsital
Its because u guys wants to form capable for girls that don't even like you that makes u fall for billings...and sadly they don't see u as capable, because u gave them stuffs...they just see u as mugú