190_@:

*Zorozo >> Animal Killer*

ghboytelle:
I am very sorry,but we need to grow up ,as in we need to act our era. I am sick and tired of going on African sites  and seeing ppl  being insulted for asking a modernize question. One of these questions are about marriage, i seriously cannot see a 21 year old marrying and having kids. It's not like olden times where people by the age of 16 have most of their future sorted out and are sure of a job to provide for their family. This is the 21st century where we might not even get a proper job at 24 years old.

So i ask this question why must we Africans not understand when a women or even a man at the age of 30 still not married?  well as a result we react to insulting them by  telling them to hurry up,theirs no chance , you will be single forever ect,

were not in the pass anymore medicines,law, and everything has advanced.

start thinking like ppl today and  stop condemning ppl who are not married by 24 or 28,29 whatever ,we got a career to be thinking about nobody wants to deprive their kids of something because of money issues. Get the better Job you want now and stop thinking about marriage.

education and money are important in today's world weather u like it or not.

ogugua88:

Thank you thank you. Some of us are still in school and our parents chasing us on marriage and grandchildren issues. E don tey wey I break my biological clock. I simply go as the wind blows. I can't be rushing to meet marriage and child-bearing deadlines because of agadis who have already lived their own lives. At about 55-60, our parents should get golfing memberships and travel, rather than meddle into the affairs of their children because they hardly make sense. 1975 and 2011 contrast extremely. Jobs that didn't need much education now require one or two levels of university degrees. Money first, family later. That is, if you wish to live comfortably.

Ijogz K:

You berra go and marry that your Aboki

190_@:

tell Nigerian girls

ogugua88:

Thank you thank you. Some of us are still in school and our parents chasing us on marriage and grandchildren issues. E don tey wey I break my biological clock. I simply go as the wind blows. I can't be rushing to meet marriage and child-bearing deadlines because of agadis who have already lived their own lives. At about 55-60, our parents should get golfing memberships and travel, rather than meddle into the affairs of their children because they hardly make sense. 1975 and 2011 contrast extremely. Jobs that didn't need much education now require one or two levels of university degrees. Money first, family later. That is, if you wish to live comfortably.

This post clearly is a HUGH BLOW to my plans in marrying Ogugua

how and where i wan from start again  

Lord_Reed:

@OP
You need to modernize your grammar.

Mynd_44:

And this is supposed to do what? Seriously people should stop blaming others for their misfortune. Granted you are being pressured to marry, did they tie you arms and leg and force you? Evrything is a choice and your future is nobody's responsibility except you. So if you say you got married becaiuse the insults are too much then be ready for more.
Feminist jargons. You want something that is already yours

Mynd_44:

And this is supposed to do what? Seriously people should stop blaming others for their misfortune. Granted you are being pressured to marry, did they tie you arms and leg and force you? Evrything is a choice and your future is nobody's responsibility except you. So if you say you got married becaiuse the insults are too much then be ready for more.
[size=14pt]Feminist jargons[/size]. You want something that is already yours

claremont:

Exactly what I had in mind to say. In addition, as far as I know, most of the feminism we see being flung around these days is borne out of inner frustration towards the menfolk.

Lets see where their feminism gets them
their kids tend to suffer and have this wayward look about live
feminist tend to give birth to daughters who see the world like their mom and so on and so forth
Just cos of the mistakes idiosyncratic of one woman she destroys her entire generation

Lord have mercy

Mynd_44:

^^^
So you would forfeit your future just cos mum and dad are disturbing you?
Is there no difference between pressure and forcing? You always have a choice and if women are as half as strong as they claim to be then they should be able to resist pressure