Onyi you sound like my "wife" already
Its all cheap jealousy
without proofs you are just hunting him.
Only fools doubt proofs
Go get your concrete evidences against him
and lets see whether all your evidences are not circumstantial.

For you to be happily married for a long time
u must be ready to overlook a lot of things
tactically wear him out with your patience and prayer
and woo your husband over and over again
or else, Unilag he goes!

Why won't i confront her a dishonest wife or girlfriend? this is a life threatening decision we are talking about. e be like say una know know watin wey una dey talk?

Never confront until you are ready to go all the way. Do not believe in half and half battles. Have a detailed plan and a well mapped out escape route if you are going to attempt such a "feat"! You never know where the bru ha ha is going to "end" all! Don't miscalculate for heaven's sake!

@ Poster,

Relationship must be based on trust. However, if there is any form of suspision, I will ask her and expected her to tell me what I dont know about the matter.If she debunk the allegation, I will burst it and look for evidence and this time arround, it won't be funny at all.

Depends on what the situation is.
Depends on if you can handle the truth when you stir up the dust