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| Am I The Problem? by adaperry25(op): 1:53pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
I've not been lucky in relationships. Now I'm trying to get married and it seems all the ladies I meet have a red flag. I created a thread on my last relationship https://www.nairaland.com/8324668/wedding-plans-suspended-advice My uncle referred one to me and she's subtly billing already. Saying her phone hangs and she doesn't take calls only Whatsapp. I'll call and she won't pick up and she'll say hello on Whatsapp. I have prayed and fasted. I just need a 25-28 yo igbo lady preferably imo state that's very reasonable Am I the problem or is it a general thing for Nigerian women? |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by dawnomike(m): 1:57pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
adaperry25:All I can say is this, no matter what happens... Do not make d mistake of marrying a lady who ghosts you at will!!! |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by koladata(m): 2:03pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
I have one igbo lady , she's 29 based in UK, we still talked yesterday , she's a good lady but she's based in UK , i can link you guys up if you can travel to uk , but she's not ready to come back to Nigeria though except for occasional visit adaperry25: |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by Nobody: 2:05pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
adaperry25:Either she is always with a man or she lives with one. Brother come out, road no dey there.
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| Re: Am I The Problem? by OlaOfLagos(m): 2:32pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
Bro! disembark and keep searching. When you finally meet the right one you will know! I wish you best of luck in your search |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by odinson1(m): 3:06pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
adaperry25:Oga must the girl be igbo ![]() |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by Exceed15: 3:21pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
Bro you do not know the peace you are enjoying now until you marry. I pray you don't rush out same way you are desperate to get in. Good luck! |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by Helpout12345: 4:09pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
Not only you. Many men face similar situations before and after marriage. Now back to my advise for you. It seems you are going after wrong women. The other one never loved you and came from "women affairs only" family. This one too is showing a sign that she doesn't like you and only interested in billing you. Go after ladies in your societal class. STOP looking down to pick a wife. That method is now old and not working with modern women. The modern tactics or method for men too is to marry in their class or even marry higher class women. These days, no matter the class of a woman, poor, rich, educated, non educated, famous , unknown etc. They all demand same responsibility from men. They are looking for a "sponsor" that they will be bossing around in the name of "gender equality". |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
odinson1:Come still emphasize the Imo state join. Hahaha maybe na Imo man 😂 |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by Damilgodwin(m): 5:07pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
Baba don't be tribalistic. If na Anambra babe nko |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by adaperry25(op): 5:15pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
Damilgodwin:u have any? |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by odinson1(m): 6:19pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
dkidd:Igbo girls fine for face and body, but their character and morals na wetin i nor dey sure of |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
odinson1:Before I dey pray to God say na Igbo girl I must marry and they started coming my way oo till I jam wetin I nor know... now na me dey run 440 once I hear say babe na igbo no matter how I done dey involved ![]() |
| Re: Am I The Problem? by odinson1(m): 8:31pm On Mar 29, 2025 |
dkidd:When i small, i dey always say i go marry Igbo girl ![]() But the igbo girls i dey see online now ehnnn, many of them get bomb for head |
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