Hi i am in a fit right, i am involved in a relationship with a girl, i really like her but she is a little girl in terms of age, she is still 16, and everytime she is always making it clear to me that i am going to marry her.

I know deep within my heart that i am not goin to marry her because of small reasons. i do not no what to do. she really loves me and i really like her because she is caring and makes lots of sacrifices.

If she is 16, what is she doing wanting to get married?
And if you dont see a future wth her, why are you wasting her time?
***shaking my head***

Girl at that age normally fall madly in love and do everything for a guy.
What are these small reasons?
If you are allot older, what are you doing with her?

like nawa said if you are much older then what are you doing with her, she is at quite an impressionable age and would very much give anything because she thinks you are the definition of life right now so please i plead, do not give her a bad foundation for life. let her go and find someone your size

bros na wah o! follow people your size abeg!

Oh boy! leave that little innocent baby and let her understand that she is too small for marriage ,i beg if u no act fast u can have problem.

How long have you been dating her?

22 to 16 is not bad. Come on now, i've seen 24 to 15. If you really like her, you'll wait till she's 18, then u'll be 24. it's allowed.

But if u don't want anything to do with her at all, then please let her know that u only want her to be ur lil sister. Leading her on, would be wrong.

PLEASE dont break her heart

u mean sacrifices like been the first person to shag her. (loosing her Virginty with you)

rkelly!

@steve
and just how old are you? you musnt lead her on then you stated that you liked her not loved her why not leave her to find someone who loves her and will marry her hope you havent done anything with her

You are talking I have 30years that wants to go out with me am 28, she wants Marriage.

I told her, I am getting married in the next 5 years. That i want to face my career, she wants to wait. I told her not to.
But she is a nice lady, wish she was my age or younger. Marrying someone older is out the question for me.

Abeg pass the 16 years girl come my side. In the next 5years she will be 21 years.

She wants to marry yo u b/c she loves you & she's young. That's not a crime so don't vilify her. But, since you know you're going to marry her, TELL HER! Also, be a gentleman and end the love affair please. This is the sort of thing that happens w/ grown men date teenagers (non-adults). If you tell her and don't break up w/ her she'll still have hope b/c "actions speak louder than words" so leave her and find someone a bit older. Whatever you do, just remember two things:

1) She'll be hurt b/c she won't get what she wants (i.e., marriage).
2) What goes around, comes around. (So try and be kind.)

Good luck

why are guys like this?
quit playing with her and tell her your stand on the issue of marriage
what is the essence of being in a relationship knowing fully well that it is not
leading you anywhere?

But if u don't want anything to do with her at all, then please let her know that u only want her to be your lil sister. Leading her on, would be wrong.

Straight outta Heaven
Who's Hot Angel?

she is 16 and u are 22, which is a good one

you must have touched her thing for her to want to marry u

Now, 4 years afters, are u guys married?

Why don't you want to marry her?Let me start from there.
Why are you leading her on when two of your have different motives for this relationship.
You are the older one and should help her out with this situation(as your younger sis).
Pls let her go and find through love now that she is young.

first how old r u?