tonak:
You guys like tory too much, surprised people are still reacting to this story seven years after, how time flies. Thank God for life.

August that year, she started calling and asking for forgiveness. After a lot of consultations, decided to take her back. Long and short of the story, we just aren't meant for each other, she left again after 5years, late 2016 to be precise. This time, she brought a 7ton truck and cleared the house, also went away with a car I bought for her when she returned the last time. If thats the price i pay for my peace, no wahala .Tried warming her way back 2017, but mans tired, can't continue to live with so much uncertainty. She just isn't ready for marriage. Still send her money though for upkeep, school fees etc,, though I hear she has caught a very very big fish in town. She now drives a crv 014 and a land cruiser.I'm sure some of you will knows her in town if I put out her number tag. Happy for her, that's the life she always wanted, no hard feelings. Mans getting married in a couple of months.

tonak:
You guys like tory too much, surprised people are still reacting to this story seven years after, how time flies. Thank God for life.

August that year, she started calling and asking for forgiveness. After a lot of consultations, decided to take her back. Long and short of the story, we just aren't meant for each other, she left again after 5years, late 2016 to be precise. This time, she brought a 7ton truck and cleared the house, also went away with a car I bought for her when she returned the last time. If thats the price i pay for my peace, no wahala .Tried warming her way back 2017, but mans tired, can't continue to live with so much uncertainty. She just isn't ready for marriage. Still send her money though for upkeep, school fees etc,, though I hear she has caught a very very big fish in town. She now drives a crv 014 and a land cruiser.I'm sure some of you will know her in town if I put out her number tag. Happy for her, that's the life she always wanted, no hard feelings. Mans getting married in a couple of months.

wasak:


I'm sorry, but how can you take her back? Come on!!!!!!

I know it's gone now, but I'm not sure you have learnt your lessons and you seem to know very little about women. I wish you the best tho.

You reacted pretty fast. Maybe you shouldn't have sent her packing just like that :/ A round table discussion with her & two or three witnesses would have been okay. Sometimes, 'we' women aren't sure of our NEEDS, always thinking that the grass is greener on the other side. I pray to God to lead & direct your path.

tonak:
10th january this year,my marriage to E.L finally came to an end,february 17th would have made the union 5years,it was a very turbulent marriage right from the start,filled with intrigues,drama and fast paced.quoting her ex bf,who incidentally is the reason for this break up 'may be the marriage itself was a mistake'i totally agree,E.L wasnt prepared.on that faithfull day,i overheard her discussing with her sister that she was still plannin to leave me but she wasnt sure when, she went on to tell her little sis about a particular guy,how the guy loves her and has been giving her money,wat further infuriated me was wen she said she was sure the guy would accept and take care of our 3yr old son.i immediately went in and confronted her with all i heard,she initially played dumb bt later agreed she planned to dump m later in the year.i told her not to bother to wait that we should just end it now,i have accepted my faith,she has moved out and im trying to rebuild my life.my question dear nlanders was i too hasty. 2 should i have played along.i hate pretencies and hate to live a lie.3 one major issue we had was her constanty communicating with her ex bfs one of who happens to be a prominent nlander,always referring to them affectionately as 'babe','sweetheart'etc,even goin as far as using their pictures on her bb dp.im not a saint and i always acknowlege my own shortcomings as a husband and father.she treated me so badly, i feel so sad but im happy it has now come to an end.but,she has my son with her and i miss him so much.i just cant imagine him not growing up under me.so sad.sobs,

tonak:
You guys like tory too much, surprised people are still reacting to this story seven years after, how time flies. Thank God for life.

August that year, she started calling and asking for forgiveness. After a lot of consultations, decided to take her back. Long and short of the story, we just aren't meant for each other, she left again after 5years, late 2016 to be precise. This time, she brought a 7ton truck and cleared the house, also went away with a car I bought for her when she returned the last time. If thats the price i pay for my peace, no wahala .Tried warming her way back 2017, but mans tired, can't continue to live with so much uncertainty. She just isn't ready for marriage. Still send her money though for upkeep, school fees etc,, though I hear she has caught a very very big fish in town. She now drives a crv 014 and a land cruiser.I'm sure some of you will know her in town if I put out her number tag. Happy for her, that's the life she always wanted, no hard feelings. Mans getting married in a couple of months.

UjuJoan2:

In a happy happy place now, married with a very handsome son.
Apparently her relationship with the Lagos big boy lasted only for one year. She is full of regrets now. Cried so bitterly the day she heard I was married and with a kid. Her friends says she hoped one day we'd get back together. She never knew the horse had bolted. She's so pitiful these days, very very humble now. I wish her well.
That's really sad . . . so she has the kids then? Is that the right decision, considering how unstable she is?

I'm happy you've found love again, no one deserves to remain lonely for making the wrong choice the first time.

I hope when she comes back after losing the 'big fish' you will have enough discipline to respect your current wife and say NO to her.