really disturbed because my partner behaviour changed towards me lately, ordinarily she clamour to see me every blessed day, during the course of the strike we couldnt see for 7days though we communicate on phone, we saw each other just immediately after the strike and the expression on her face appears as if she forced herself to see me, probing through her phone i realized she had calls and chat with her ex, is this an indication she's fed up, i dont like wasting time on issues, my mind is going off this relationship already, What can i do to save it,or i should just let her go

It happens like that sometimes, esp if she has jst spoken τ̅☺ her ex, give her some time τ̅☺ accustom herself τ̅☺ u again, she sd return τ̅☺ her normal self soon.

listen to R-Kelly's song "when a woman's fed up"

eya! all is well.

@psoto, thanks , ur input is relieving, we've been together for a year and i think she should be over with such babyish way, i think she isnt feelin me anymore, maybe i should fly b4 i realise she's cheatin with her ex, i dont wanna make mistake

That means her Ex has more swagger than you .  . . . .  Dude, step up your game!!!

hahahaha

I think you are the one who is fed up with her and looking for every excuse to break off the relationship
be honest with yourself. that is the first step to happiness 

daves2ng:

is this an indication she's fed up, i dont like wasting time on issues, my mind is going off this relationship already,  What can i do to save it,or i should just let her go

daves2ng:

, i think she isnt feelin me anymore, maybe i should fly

yes fly and let her be. your mind is not in d relationship anymore.
why blame her for your own problem.

@jenifa, dont get it twisted, i care for her so much and gave my all, i guess she may take me for granted knowing that i love her so much, am scared of diappointing myself at the end if she misbehave,this is just an indication which i see as early warning, she once cheated and i forgave her, once beaten,twice shy they say, i expect much more from her and i dont want my calm nature to be taken for being a fool, am just trying to be careful here and seek advice to spice up the union or to fly

When a women's fed up
They ain't noting you can do about it
it's like running outta luck

When things get to this stage, best thing is to start acting aloof, too. The more you try to 'win her back', the more you look pathetic in her eyes, and so the more she despises you and acts like a biaatch. . .preparatory to dumping your a$$. Stop calling/texting and checking on her. Take your mind, heart, money and prick elsewhere (girls yakpayaski for town) so you wouldn't be preoccupied with her. I assure you that in no time her ego would be bruised 'cos you did not fawn all over her like a wussie and give her the opportunity to dump you ruthlessly. Most of her type like to break your heart when they see you're so vulnerable and addicted to their bullshyt.

By acting 'busy' and aloof, you'll turn the dynamic around. Before you know it, she'll start disturbing you with calls and visits, asking 'what did I do to you to deserve this cold treatment'? But then, don't be fooled into thinking she's back for good; it's merely an ego thing for her. Just toss her around until she gets the message and dumps herself. Life is too short to waste one's juices on one plain jane that doesn't adore the ground you thread on, Playah.

The poster above me is gangsta

@pro01, wow, i think u offered me what i really need to know, thanks

Very gangsta

phuck her in the most degrading way and then toss her confused azz out for the occupiers to r@pe.

^ ^ why would he do that?

^
Because he has no regards for the female folk.

@daves2ng, my guy, my advice to you is similar to pro01. However, I would also add that you should first ask her straight up "I've noticed you've been a bit distant lately, is anything the matter?"

If she says "nothing", there is a strong chance the matter has to do with you, and she is just trying to hide it. In that case you can pretty much do what pro01 said. I would only say that if the change in her mood continues for an unreasonably long period, then you can walk away.

Relationships are supposed to make you happy, not stress you out.

@Pro01

You are a guy after my heart. I will like to meet you whenever I visit 9ja for some good time, deal?

When a woman is fed up, she would rather give your siblings punny than you

@pro01, u iz d man, infact ur next beer/wrap of weed is on me, u done hit d head on d nail, Sorwi,u done hit d nail on d head,
@daves2ng, phuleaseee, adhere strictly to gangsta pro01'z advice, folo it to d latter and watch as events take turn, Afta dat,anytin u decide is ur call

So thread closed right?

NobiGod:

@Pro01

You are a guy after my heart. I will like to meet you whenever I visit 9ja for some good time, deal?

Sure, why not? As long as you are (1) straight, if male; (2) drink alcohol; and (3) 'REAL'.

I never get tired of socializing and making new friends of both sexes. . .as long as they adhere to the biblical injunction: "eat, drink, and be merry, for tomorrow you shall. . . "

Life is short, and so it should be fun. Cheers*

holusormi:

@pro01, u iz d man, infact your next beer/wrap of weed is on me, u done hit d head on d nail, Sorwi,u done hit d nail on d head,
@daves2ng, phuleaseee, adhere strictly to gangsta pro01'z advice, folo it to d latter and watch as events take turn, Afta dat,anytin u decide is your call

If na for Femi 'Afrika Shrine', no problem, lol. All na part of subsidy protest. *set-up*

see all these crackheads.
who dash you girlfriend?

@jenifa, be my gurl, u can cheat(shiit) if u want to

^
wit what?

Meklex:

@jenifa, be my gurl, u can cheat(shiit) if u want to

what is your salary per month?

^^

interesting. . .you seem to know this a little too well.
Been pissing off women lately?