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dollytino4real:
U just posted wat was on my mind to post one of these days,!!! Me like my father helll NO but like my mother YES one million times

Is your mother a good wife to your father?
Take a closer look at the relationship between your father and your mother from a neutral and unbiased stand point. Before you crucify that man (your father)
Is mummy treating daddy the way you will want to treat your own future husband?
Be sincere my sister...

ebubeson:
Parents are very important to us and good parents make it beautiful.

Now, with the way your Parents behave, will you marry a partner that behaves like any or both of your parent?

yes...my mom
I don't want a man like my dad.. He hardly talks and he blames people for his actions

debbydams:
yes...my mom. I don't want a man like my dad.. He hardly talks and he blames people for his actions

Your mother, by being the way she is, ended up with your dad. This implies that if you become like your mom, you might end up with a man like your dad.

Talkisneeded:
They are saving you from the chaos of the world,you are calling it overprotection.
Asked those who had all the time and freedom how life is and you’d learn??!

Ahswear. Growing up, we used to envy those kids whose parents allowed all the freedom in the whole world to do whatever they liked. My mama go punish you so tey you go begin doubt say na she born you.
Guess what, today, over 85% of those guys turned out badly while those of us who had very strict parents tuned out much better.
My level of upbringing makes me disagree with this modern time model of child raising. As for me, I won't spare the rod. I don't care if my kids hate me later when they grow up, but my priority will be to raise them as as tough and as disciplined as ever.

Nah! God forbid in Jesus Name Amen

Kobojunkie:
Your mother, by being the way she is, ended up with your dad. This implies that if you become like your mom, you might end up with a man like your dad.

lol, I don't want to be like my mom, she's too calm..
My siblings takes after her...im the only one in the house that don't take nonsense, I'm not troublesome tho but I don't tolerate nonsense...

debbydams:
➜ lol, I don't want to be like my mom, she's too calm..
My siblings takes after her...im the only one in the house that don't take nonsense, I'm not troublesome tho but I don't tolerate nonsense...

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A lot of Nigerians go on to become just like their parents before them, and these are some of the many who cry out, "Generational curse," when they find themselves repeating the same mistakes those before them made. I tend to believe that rather than become like our parents, we are instead to learn from their many mistakes and endeavor instead to become better, upgraded versions — nothing of the old — of them. Version 2.0 should, in all ramifications, be better than Version 1.0, even though it came from its existence.

Kobojunkie:
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A lot of Nigerians go on to become just like their parents before them, and these are some of the many who cry out, "Generational curse," when they find themselves repeating the same mistakes those before them made. I tend to believe that rather than become like our parents, we are instead to learn from their many mistakes and endeavor instead to become better, upgraded versions — nothing of the old — of them. Version 2.0 should, in all ramifications, be better than Version 1.0, even though it came from its existence.

Na why u write all this epistle.
Can u summarise it

Godfullsam:
Is your mother a good wife to your father?
Take a closer look at the relationship between your father and your mother from a neutral and unbiased stand point. Before you crucify that man (your father)
Is mummy treating daddy the way you will want to treat your own future husband?
Be sincere my sister...

yes my mummy na good woman but my dad no folo at all

Each with their flaws and merits