Am 22 and currently serving in Imo state. the problem i have right now is that i just can't keep a relationship and its really painful. my longest relationship lasted for just a year and two months. I fantasise alot about being happy with someone that luves and finally settling down but at this rate i don't knw what will become of me. a fwen of mine says its my fault i don't know why but i wish i had a guide book on these matters. i nid your adice pls, am also a very emotional person nd sometimes i feel like i act beore i think. currently i met someone buh he's presently abroad we talk about an average of once a week and hel be back by the end of the year.

when the right time comes, you'll know. between age 34-49yrs

@ acidosis take it easy u dnt haf to be mean.

Open your self and let yourself change

@ iice noted everything u sd tanx alot

^case close.

Mayb in ur fantasies makes u have a very high expectatn from those u date. And wen they dnt meet them u get turned off.
My advice; dont fly to the sky when fantasizing, or better still, stop it for a while. Think of the kind of person you really want, and dnt rush to date anyone until he matches wat u want to a point.

*and remember to warn him u dnt stay to long in a relatnshp*

What do you mean don't fly to the sky when fantasizing? It's only in our dreams that we can go overboard without anyone complaining and you wanna take that away from the OP?

(Wit 1 hand on yhur ear and 1 on ur balls)Rub pepper on yhur balls and repeat after me:=> YES I CAN! YES I CAN!! Practise this exercise evry morning for 2weeks. Come back nd give ur testimonies!!

^^^
See wickedness

@ changes,

Op happens to be a girl, so no ba, lls to rub wt pepper.

 

Mynd_44:

^^^
See wickedness

when ever he/she remembers the pain, i think d urge 2 break up will cease immediately

doe-eyed:

@ changes,

Op happens to be a girl, so no ba, lls to rub wt pepper.

 

then d alternative is virtually the best 4 the excercise

lwkmd