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Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
According to him, he's now ready for long term commitment. The only way to know his level of seriousness is by accepting him back, whilst expecting a ring soon. I'll thread carefully. Tnx though.Do that and you'd have fallen for the oldest trick known to man! You'll expect that ring till thy kingdom come! Make decisions without a beclouded sense of reasoning! The only thing that should make you even consider accepting him back is a wedding date! Someone else had said so earlier! |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Ogaga4Luv(m): 2:40pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
[size=13pt]Cuddle what have come over u ? Your questions does not really make this issue okay i hope u kno ? [/size] Cuddlemii: |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Ogaga4Luv(m): 2:44pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
[size=13pt]Make girls nor do u long things this days ooh. . . . If i were u , the next thing is to excuse the French professor , ( u know how it works ) and have the chance to gist her. . . [/size] Mynd_44: |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Ogaga4Luv(m): 2:47pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
OK2NV: |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Cuddlemii: 2:53pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
Ogaga4Luv: That is why I said it may/may not be relevant to whats going on. But the op took it in good strides and has answered them. I am very certain she would do the right thing with all the advise so far. Btw I saw ur fb page months ago, I am a horror movie freak but I could barely leave my room. Even when I managed to get to the kitchen, I was still watching my back & shaking. Na wa oh. |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Ogaga4Luv(m): 3:06pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
[size=13pt]really? that sound quit interesting darling. . . .dunno think u should meet me there on facebook ? [/size] Cuddlemii: |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Kanou(f): 3:14pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
sexkillz: OP, you have your advice here oh! It's up to you. And please remember that marriage does not have the same value in the nigerian context as it has for germans. It is very normal for two Germans to live unmarried and with kids, never pressurized by anyone, and to never think of marriage. He does not mean evil, but you have to reaffirm clearly what you want and not move an inch forth until both of you have agreed to get married. You have known yourselves long enough, so either a ring or you keep apart (or you keep "expecting". |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Nobody: 3:20pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
You have known yourselves long enough, so either a ring or you keep apart (or you keep "expecting".Very Good! |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by horny4u(f): 3:24pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
La Parisienne: sexkillz: Sexkillz said it all: When men speak i like to listen, Sweetie , That take me back letter should have your wedding invitation and definite wedding date plus ring, whereby you engage (Lol) on Friday and marry on Saturday. What is he still trying to get to know you for, , abeg so you can start moving forward with your life, Biological clock waits for no woman , no need to let someone dismantle your clock. Jokes apart ; Babes if you are sure this is the man for you, be firm and strike while the iron is still hot ( before another phobia will enter as any new phobia will take another year to commot from him eye). When he wakes up you will be his MRS, Just my opinion |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Cuddlemii: 3:24pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
Ogaga4Luv: Hmm do u make friends with xtains too? |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Mynd44: 4:11pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
Ogaga4Luv:It was after the class I realised she only spoke french. Ironic ain't it? |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by pedestal82(m): 10:12pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
Quote from: pedestal82 on Today at 09:30:45 AM @ OP, from ur last post, I think u hv decided to go back already. And I also blv u shld, was in the same situation once, left her for A year, after dating for like 3yrs. Now we back and planing our weding. That year gave me a clearer picture of things, hw much I valued her and what I was going to miss by my action. Wish u luck. Oh congrats! I wish you the bestest. Happy married life in advance. . . Thanx, *smiles* |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Mynd44: 10:37pm On Jan 21, 2012 |
When you know you were goning back to him, why waste our time? *hisses* |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by LaParisienne(f): 6:54am On Jan 22, 2012 |
Mynd_44:Why are you taking a piss? I got valuable responses but the decision is mine |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Mynd44: 12:57pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Why would I not take a piss? You knew what you wanted to do you just wanted to see what people felt about your case. Why not just take your decision and let everyone rest. And here we were thinking you were really confused *hisses again* |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by LaParisienne(f): 4:23pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
You can piss off your big head for all the tea in China |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Mynd44: 4:27pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Just go call him up and tell him he is forgiven jorh |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Dyt is SPOT ON but I think you should still approach the situation with caution. If you have ANY DOUBT what so ever, follow your heart!! I can't tell you how many women come on here and practically bawl over not following their intuition. It's true that it's generally unrealistic for men to just change like that (over night or in a year's time) so take it easy.Don't just agree to engagement just so, give it time and watch his actions in the meantime. |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by MrsChima1(f): 4:48pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Follow your heart, it will never lead you wrong. Never follow with emotions for emotions are flawed. Good luck. |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Mynd44: 4:55pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Mrs Chima And Msdarkskin, you are just wasying your time, OP has already made up her mind before asking the question |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Mynd bro, why are you hating? |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by MrsChima1(f): 5:01pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Ain't he justa cockblocking? |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
and i think i know why. |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by LaParisienne(f): 5:42pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
Mrs Chima+Msdarkskin=Funny ladies Thx Mynd_44: I'm living my life, stop hating and c0ckblocking |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Mynd44: 7:02pm On Jan 22, 2012 |
She asked a question she already had an answer to just to disturb averyone I get pissed off at this and I am called a C0ckblocker. WTF I give up get back together with him I am so happy for you how you both live happily ever after |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Ogaga4Luv(m): 12:33pm On Jan 23, 2012 |
[size=13pt][font= OldMan Book Style]ha ha that is funny man now i understood wht u have been talking - - - If she can only speak French i believe there would be problem of communication between u both . well , u can still go ahead and gist her by giving signs or usimg the impression on your face nahh--- [/font][/size] Mynd_44: |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Ogaga4Luv(m): 3:59pm On Feb 03, 2012 |
Ogaga4Luv: |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by olaboy1: 5:25pm On Feb 03, 2012 |
i dont understand everyone here at alllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll. marriage na by force, i will never take such a bamboozled matrimony serious, dont you ever force a man or woman into marriage whether european or african. Before you started dating this man, didnt you learn about his belief system about marriage. Some europeans get married at 60 years when they know market don close for both man/woman, and this is due to the uncertainty embedded in it. I see your approach as coercion and it will lead you nowhere. |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by olaboy1: 6:19pm On Feb 03, 2012 |
hmm |
Re: 1 Year Later, Should I Give Him Another Chance? by Youngpo413: 7:11am On Nov 01, 2014 |
Dyt: wow! |
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