This is probably one of the hardest questions to answer as everyone is different in their approach to dealing with a cheating partner. Some people are able to forgive where as others are not and there are of course people who stick their heads in the sand and refuse to believe anything is wrong and fall for all the lines and guilt put to their door.
In this case the aggrieved spouse is made to feel insignificant and at the mercy of their cheating spouse without knowing why. I suffered for years at the internal torment of thinking things were ok and then being thrown down the gauntlet of lies, I did by the end truly believe that I was going insane. continue reading http://talkingrelationship..com/2012/01/when-to-leave-cheating-spouse.html