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essentialone:
Have you taken time to go through Facebook? Comments from ladies both married and singles, makes me wonder how they still pray to get married. It's a cold war declared on men, as in their war is tagged We vs Them kind of War. It's toxic. You wonder what mental baggage these ladies go into marriage with. I hear they even have a group called Di Gbaka Oku. Whatever that means.

Mate! Get off the internet and go touch grass!

Olive4570:
After what I passed through in relationship first I trained my sef through med skool nd my ex through health skool brought her from village to asaba find job for her nd rent house infact made her comfortable what its my gain now wen suppose to enjoy my ex leave me tag me toxic cus the church wen I introduced her to she don see men for house on the rock lol she left me im doing fine my sef though bt my heart can never love again I see all women as betrayal i can only be a baby daddy I will never marry im only after spoiling other people love relationship so they will feel my pain also if I drive or see couple that are very much in love I will try my possible best I will always put issues in that relationship I will try to end it with my money nd resources I will mk sure they feel my pain after that I will move on the next aside my job nd business my vow its to end relationship especially those couple that re truly I love.

You could barely string together a coherent sentence, but we should believe that you went through medical school?

Nairaland is full of mad people 😂😂😂

essentialone:
Guys, avoid getting married, or having children. It is a mess these days.

Cutting off the head is not the solution to headache

Double0h7:
Mate! Get off the internet and go touch grass!

I will do so, right after you.

This is just how you sound

"guys avoid driving on Nigerian roads or even owning a car. It is a mess these days.

Kindly leave your cocoon and go out. This Saturday, so many marriages go still occur.🥱

Double0h7:
You could barely string together a coherent sentence, but we should believe that you went through medical school?

Nairaland is full of mad people 😂😂😂

Ok

A lady shammelessly came online shouting and calling men scum and liars.
She narrated how a man she met at the nightclub looked very rich and was even drinking Hennessey with his friends at the nightclub.

The Dude approached her, and after a few conversations, they exchanged phone numbers.
According to her.
After the night grove, the guy drove her to one of the classic hotels in the hood. She made her demands, which includes: 1.5 Million for the night, human hair, and Gucci handbag.

The guy promised her that first thing in the morning, they will go to the Bank together for the transactions.

She also explained that the guy lied to her that he had ran out of Naira, and he also showed her a crypto account with about 20K Dollars.

She believed him and then allowed the innocent man to pipe her thoroughly and ride her recklessly like a stolen Okada throughout the night.

The next morning, she was still asleep when the Dude checked out of the hotel very early. She woke up and couldn't find the crypto lord. She dialed the number he gave her at the nightclub, it was a wrong number. It was Aboki that even has number.

By the time she woke up, it was almost 12:pm, so she had to leave the hotel immediately without even taking her bath because time was against her and if she didn't check out, she would have to pay for another day.

I was asking myself, how can a w00man demand 1.5 Million Naira from a man because of s€x?
The Toto na gold?
Well, that serves her right. But I want to leave her with two of my favourite proverbs:👇

A w00man who has already climbed a man's bed cannot make huge demands and succeed.

Promises made when two people of the opposite gender are naked, are always forgotten when the clothes are back on.

Dear Gentlemen, 🙋
Should we blame the lady or the innocent man?

Life of a bed to bed midfielder... A rebrand h00kup girl.

What is your opinion guys?

essentialone:
And why are they all Igbo Ladies always exhibiting these toxic relationship drama on social media? From Regina Daniels to Doris Ogala to Ada Igbo to Anita Joseph. All are Igbo Ladies. Why always Toxic?

Why do u keep saying igbo ladies? Well I would rather pick a home grown woman of the tribe of igbo or northern than a yoruba or SS woman. I'm not saying they are no good women from the SS or Yoruba tribe but my top pick is igbo or a northern woman. A typical igbo pr northern have more respect for marriage than the other tribes.


You finger out those ones then Tey go online from tiktok to X check which tribes write trash or display rubbish online, they are mostly for the SW/ SS. Ci spoke the other day that if the igbo are not careful the kind of wokeness the SW/ SS are practicing will creep into their tribe and it will destory thier women, which is now happening.

She Claimed Everything He Owns – He Hit Back With a Prenup

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VIS_2vkIACs

essentialone:
Guys, avoid getting married, or having children. It is a mess these days.

It's complicated.


I wanted to say if your parents didn't have you this thread won't be here but I remembered that during their time there was high value in marriage and relationships.


These days it's all about toxicity as if you and your enemy signed a contract to Live together and fight each other.


But if we don't get married or have children how do we populate the earth.

I mean with quality children, because children raised with both parents are likely to turn out great than those outside family settings.

It's complicated, really complicated

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