tEsLim:

Makes me feel like a Dinosour but just 6 years down the line though. Boring as mess! I dont want to talk much I found out NL is becoming rss feeds. But seriously sh.it is boring. And non-creative partner will make it worse. One way thing, same pattern, same Kitty, same poo. And she'll wonder stupidly why you lost interest. Well you explained why 100 times , and you'd rather get more intense ejac / heavenly feeling masturb.ating. Now when it gets to that point you know what I'm saying. You super close to havin.g another girl help her secretly. Atleast twice in a month servicing so you wont rust down there. People are different but how could someone want it daily and even 3 times daily but same way? LIke its a routine chore. Some women no go talk truth for here self.

jennykadry:

Why Is it always the woman's fault? I don't get some of you at all

jennykadry:

So the woman is the problem now? What if he has generally lost interest in his wife hence the boredom? Is it her fault?

Some men have fallen out of love, women also and when they do, their sex life collapses, a lot of things might be bothering her, he needs to sit down with her and found out why SHE HAS LOST HERSELF.

They can sleep with 20 times a day, different styles but if there is something wrong somewhere, it will die after a while.

tEsLim:

Makes me feel like a Dinosour but just 6 years down the line though. Boring as mess! I dont want to talk much I found out NL is becoming rss feeds. But seriously sh.it is boring. And non-creative partner will make it worse. One way thing, same pattern, same Kitty, same poo. And she'll wonder stupidly why you lost interest. Well you explained why 100 times , and you'd rather get more intense ejac / heavenly feeling masturb.ating. Now when it gets to that point you know what I'm saying. You super close to havin.g another girl help her secretly. Atleast twice in a month servicing so you wont rust down there. People are different but how could someone want it daily and even 3 times daily but same way? LIke its a routine chore. Some women no go talk truth for here self.

Ujujoan:

Dont mind debrief . . . maybe in her own marriage she has to do ALL the work!

The mumu man saying he is bored with sex with his wife might be a flabby-stomached, bald-headed, mouth-oozing, stubby-manipulated specimen. And yet, they expect his wife to be 'innovative' in bed.

Chei, women don suffer . . .

debrief08:

Na wa oh, I don suffer. If a woman came to complain about being sexually bored I would have advised her the same way. No be fight, he is bored, read what i wrote I only advised that he take steps to make them both enjoy sex in marriage. I am sorry I didnt attack him, He said he had a problem and I adviced him as I saw fit, you have done the same. A lot of the things I know about s3x now I was taught by my husband. He voiced his concern and I was willing to listen and learn and I am happy about it today. I could have fought him and resisted but what good would that have done me?
They are husband and wife, if they have a frustrating s3x life then they should both be willing and open to work on it.

Ujujoan:

Agreed . . . . but you didnt say that to him.   

Aside from agreeing with him that his wife was 'stup1d', you went ahead to blame her 100% for the problem. How do you know he is not contributing to the 'boring-ness' Just because he was quick to complain doesn't mean he is entirely blameless. What makes u think he knows anyting worth 'teaching'

It's true that you advised him as you deemed fit,  but Jenny and I were just wondering why you were so quick to heap ALL the blame on the woman.

Like you said, you advised him based on your own experinece, but you are forgetting that your husband 'taught' you. I wonder what would have happened if your hubby just sat back and complained like the mumu teslim, while socuting for someone to 'assist' you outside!

debrief08:

I accept and I am sorry if I may have appeared to heap the blame on her. I didnt intend to in any way. I was commenting more on the fact that s3x in marriage can become boring if not spiced up.
I will never insult a woman I dont know, I was just trying to offer him advice on how to work on his marriage. My agreeing with him der was not on what he said about his wife but on the boring s3ex part.
I didnt mean to offend anyone. Like I said, it is not a war to me.

Outstrip:

Okay I just remembered something LOL. This guy I know said that he used to date this girl that sucks her thumb. EVEN DURING SEX. LOL. I am still trying to play it in my mind. He said sometimes she would take it out and moan but then she would put it right back LOL. I was speechless o. I thought I had heard everything I could hear. Everybody was laughing but I was schocked. When he was asked if he stopped he said why? The mumu kept going back for more LOL

Outstrip:

Okay I just remembered something LOL. This guy I know said that he used to date this girl that sucks her thumb. EVEN DURING SEX. LOL. I am still trying to play it in my mind. He said sometimes she would take it out and moan but then she would put it right back LOL. I was speechless o. I thought I had heard everything I could hear. Everybody was laughing but I was schocked. When he was asked if he stopped he said why? The mumu kept going back for more LOL

y me:

Twice a week

debosky:

Time tables are good if you find yourself not being able to find time due to work or kids. . . .it can also help you look forward to the times and increase anticipation.

It's all in the head - some people will hate routine timing, others like it because they store up that intimate energy till that point them BOOM!

garnetty: i have come to terms with the fact that intimacy every now and then ultimately erodes the passion traditionally associated with it. To my mind ( Just my thought), intimacy should not be a 'frequent' thing. In fact, it makes the union more enjoyable and inviting when intimacy (S*X) is 'regulated'.

tEsLim:

Makes me feel like a Dinosour but just 6 years down the line though. Boring as mess! 

olaak1:

To me I think once in every two weeks is more ideal; having it on a daily bases will make it loose its "flavours and taste"

Gaggi:

NL and their liars. After all d stress of work week in, week out who hits the sack everyday?
After a long time in marriage, sex becomes boring especially after the wife gives birth. The Kitty ain't as it was before. That's why most men have girlfriends. All these women living in lala land. Wake up o.

c.fours:

fhemmmy,of course, is just in his late teens.

Thanks . . . if that makes you happy, My daughter is in her late teens . . . .

jennykadry:

You and this your time table. You must have an angel as a wife lucky you did not marry one other excessively high libido ones that will violation you every day. Time table ko, roster ni

SimonAndal: They should first of all break-in the house. Do it in the living room, on the dining table, in the kitchen, in the shower, bath, at night on the terrace, in the car (that one's a must). Then once a day till the novelty years off and they divorce. True story.