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| Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Smartsyn(m): 12:49pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
One of my aunties was complaining to me that her hubby gave her a separate room in the new house they pack in recently, citing her having many clothes, shoes and other feminine accessories as the reason. She's arguing that as a young couple, they should be staying in one room. When the issue came up as I was having a chat with her hubby, he maintained that the separate room is just for his wife to have room for her numerous accessories and that he sometimes need to be alone. He however said that the wife sleep in his room almost all nights and all what not....... But should married couples have their separate rooms?? 5 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by specialguest(f): 1:09pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
NO! Eat together, live together and SLEEP together. When my clothes become too much for our room to contain I will request hubby to let me convert the spare room to my closet. That's all 32 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 1:11pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
I, alutacontinua, would have my separate room. Just for my personal retreat moments, I'll mostly be too busy playing woth his nose on OUR bed in OUR room anyways  16 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by nerodenero: 1:15pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Your moniker would even frighten anyman that says you won't get your own separate room   alutacontinua: I, alutacontinua, would have my separate room. 17 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
nerodenero: Your moniker would even frighten anyman that says you won't get your own separate room I'm the most gentle Nairalander. I've been earning that award for 2 years and still counting 3 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by cococandy(f): 1:22pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
I don't see anything wrong with this. I go soon do am sef Smartsyn: One of my aunties was complaining to me that her hubby gave her a separate room in the new house they pack in recently, citing her having many clothes, shoes and other feminine accessories as the reason. She's arguing that as a young couple, they should be staying in one room. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by luvablesam(m): 1:23pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Marriage isnt an institution that has a 'one rule fits all' kinda policy...Every family has what works for them...If your family would thrive by everyone having a separate room,so be it.If not,stay in a room... Do what works for you. 75 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 1:26pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Yes! Thesame way Tom and Jerry should be on seperate shows!! 5 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by beeevan: 3:39pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
No separate room for me, i keep my clothes in any room I deem fit. 1 Like |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by egopersonified(f): 4:00pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Moral of story, dont allow yr husband build his house, just squeeze yr family in a 2 bedroom apartment. 28 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Olarewajub: 5:46pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
egopersonified: Moral of story, dont allow yr husband build his house, just squeeze yr family in a 2 bedroom apartment.Very funny. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by damiso(f): 6:20pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
luvablesam: Marriage isnt an institution that has a 'one rule fits all' kinda policy...Every family has what works for them...If your family would thrive by everyone having a separate room,so be it.If not,stay in a room... WORD.. I like the idea of a private suite, 2bedrooms and a lounge with a connecting door btw the two bedrooms that is never locked complete with a walk in closet and ensuite toilets and bath.That way we sleep in the same room most times but can also retreat into private solitude when needed. It is said though that newer couples should share a room but like above quote said it is subjective.what works for A might not work for B. 15 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Abiagirl777(f): 6:28pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
My hubby is an AC freak,he cant hav enough of it even at de highest even though de room is freezing,to avoid stories dat touch i had to opt for my own room,my health is very much important it hasn't stopped any1 of us frm sleepin anywhere we want to,infact i enjoy my little world de more. 32 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by OmoAlata1(f): 6:35pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
separate room  what if you woke up at 2am ho.rny? it really defeats the purpose of being married. I like 2am sexx, when you are half asleep, half awake. you always get the best orgassm49 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by ogawisdom(m): 6:46pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Separate rooms is a must for me ooo, but we ll mostly sleep together in ur room or in mine @ nite  I dnt think one room can contain all our items really n we need some space too. Also this ll help a lot during omugu visit by my mother in law too  2 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
2 rooms work just fine... When we wanna tango, we'd meet in one of em rooms... Every man/woman needs privacy..... 2 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Smartsyn(m): 7:44pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
OmoAlata1: separate roomWill try that 2am thingy with my partner, hope it'll work. But how about the kissy dovey thingy, won't it be kinda stinky? 2 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by OmoAlata1(f): 7:47pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Smartsyn: Will try that 2am thingy with my partner, hope it'll work. But how about the kissy dovey thingy, won't it be kinda stinky? stinky? you and ur partner have bad breathe? I never had that issue 1 Like |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by dechandel(f): 7:49pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
My mum has two rooms to herself.. Her clothes,her set of boxes including trunk box na die My dad's room which z d matrimonial room is d only free room she has dats empty 5 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Smartsyn(m): 7:52pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
OmoAlata1:Nope, just asking though... our breathe is fine. thanks 4 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by OmoAlata1(f): 7:55pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
lol good, but you should try it |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by armyofone(m): 8:14pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Same room but super king size bed. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by teeboo: 8:37pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Well,I don't see a big deal in it,we have a separate room it doesn't stop us frm having access 2 eachoda,though d room is linked together with a door in between. it even make it sweet wen am angry I lock d door behind "no entry" 6 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by timsbee(f): 8:51pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
Seperate rooms is gud. But wen d guy is d type dat wil hide one omo Ale inside his closet,den e go be say na me allow am in d first plce. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by maingwaest(f): 9:48pm On Jul 26, 2014 |
It is not a bad idea cos the other room does not even have any bed, it only serve as a closet and for keeping other things like boxes,trunks etc u know we women never have enough of anything but the main bedroom *winks* naim be the koko. Therefore to avoid clutter and all what not, separate bedroom is a good option. 1 Like |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Kanwulia: 6:35am On Jul 27, 2014 |
There are no couples in polygamy. Only triples, quadruples, quintuples. . . . .e.t.c! You wanna put them ALL in one room?  The SMELL go be HELELE!!!! Toto water and akamu efrywhia! TUFIAKWA!!!! 5 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by MARKone(m): 7:35pm On Jul 27, 2014 |
Kanwulia: There are no couples in polygamy. 4 Likes
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| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Mintayo(m): 1:22am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Not sleeping in the same room?= One of the fastest way to breakup/cheatin/divorce. 25 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by armyofone(m): 2:22am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Kanwulia: There are no couples in polygamy. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Nobody: 3:21am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Not for me. If I want some space I move to the couch in the living room. I doubt it's healthy for my personality. Soon, I would find it tedious going to the joint room. Nah, not for me. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by TRADELYN: 5:33am On Jul 28, 2014 |
Two rooms OK. However, they should always sleep together in any of them. BTW, I hate seeing people acquiring too many new things (clothes, shoes, phones, cars, etc) and still retaining old ones (just wasting away)...why not give them out at discount or free 18 Likes |
| Re: Should Married Couples Have Their Separate Rooms? by Dominionng(m): 5:38am On Jul 28, 2014 |
If it works for you, fine! If it doesn't, change! One man's food is another man's poison after-all.. 3 Likes |
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