moremi2008: Is Uncle Serubawon about the close the deal on a pretty young thing?! I likes!

Me ke!!! How did I get in this picture?

No, it's not me. I would like to say to the poster that if you can't love his kids like your own, don't do it. It might seem easy now, but the real test comes when you have kids of your own. Ask God for grace and wisdom. I'm a widower and believe me, I'm talking from experience. I truly wish you the best. debrief08 has some very good points, take them to heart. With God on your side, you won't regret it.

@op , getting married to a widower with 3kids is huge and tough. Men, with only kid is a drama on its own,talkless of three. And the problems, cud start setting in, when u start bearing your own kids. There is no much love, u will give the other three kids that sometimes, they will not be appreciated. Its not just you giving the whole hearted love. How about the kids are they really ready to welcome you into their life for real and to stay for good. Will their dad avoid taking sides if touching issues comes up and sort the issues wisely and diplomatically? Will they also love your own kids wholeheartedly, when u start bearing kids. Its not an easy peasy deal. Think wisely. Do u want this next phase of your life to be peaceful or in complaints when real issues start coming up. Pray fervently, and follow your heart and intuition.. Best of luck.

Please,Don't forget to make inquiries about what killed his first wife.Good luck.

This has been an old post...but can we at least know how it has been....?