As a matured man I guess you talk it out with her. From your point I think the girl is good just for that age stuff. For her not to have told you all these years means she fears the unknown. Make her free with you then she will open up her life to you. Remember, if you leave her now, you might tell a worse story with another girl later on. I leave you with this "THE DEVIL YOU KNOW IS BETTER THAN THE ONE YOU DON"T KNOW"
If you settle with her and make her have total confidence in you, she will love you MOREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

You dont have to dumb her buddy, and try to build your trust in her again.

I support Davidylan.infact it show's that he is very responsible and carring,i luv his advise pls kindly take ur girl back what she's thinking that make her hide such thing to u is that she may think if u know she is older than u,u will not marry her again and she dont want to miss u in her life.So i plied to u on her behalf forgive and forget asept her back,because if u live her today b4 u see the person u will love like her it will take u alot of time and b4 u study the person that is another few month,is better u follow David's advise because that is the only solution to ur problem may God help u (ameeeeeeeeeeeeen)

don't dump her


@mtaiwo
wat did u put dat pic there for?

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Thanks a lot Dear Nairalanders, we've since settled d issue with a promise 2 be very sincere in everythin we do. Hapi new yr 2 yall

Thanks a lot Dear Nairalanders, we've since settled d issue with a promise 2 be very sincere in everythin we do. Hapi new yr 2 yall

moondust:

don't dump her

@mtaiwo
what did u put that pic there for?

lol, is it bothering u?

@sagitarius
all the best!

holythug:

busta u dey hia

Busta:

lol, is it bothering u?

@sagitarius
all the best!

@ Busta, thx Girl,

I would say forgive her but to be on the safe side do some extra investigation on her cos if she is lying about her age, there might just be more!
Ive got an old friend who tells everyone she is 5 years younger than her real age, and believe me she lies about absolutely everything, so beware of such people o!

If she cud lie about sth as insignificant as 'age' then she cud lie about anything!! Thats dangerous.

But looking at it from anoda perspective, why did she have to lie to you? Maye she wasnt sure u'd take d age difference well, and now u r proving her right. Are u leaving her cos she leid to you or cos hse's older?

no

what has aids age got to do with it? what matters is her performance behind closed door

yea dump her, and go out with me. L.O.L

what's d big deal about age sef. .

first this is quite a hard thing.it is sad as well giving the way this guy describes how much he loves his babe.ofcourse dumping her is not ur best option cos she wont be the only one that will hurt,u will too.and it will be hard for u to start all over with another girl.but lying for 3yrs is just so bad of her!she may have her reason which i want to believe is cos she doesnt want to loose him.but isnt that desperation?
then trust is betrayed.now u dont know what other things she is keeping.guess u guys should just talk things out.try to make it work too.it shouldnt be a problem afterv all since u already said u are not an age freak guy.all da best

@mtaiwo
what did u put that pic there for?

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davidylan:
You're just going to throw away a good girl and 2 yrs of love just because she was too insecure to tell you her real age?
What about you look at it from another perspective . . . if i were you i'd be more worried that for 2 good yrs she didnt trust me enough to handle the truth about her real age. How free is she with you? Can she trust you enough to know that she can tell you anything in the world and you will stand by her through thick and thin?

All through the 2 yrs she must have respected you and treated you as the leader in that relationship for you to have been unaware she was older for so long. This is your fault dear, dont let your ego get in the way of something wonderful . . . she loves you and is willing to submit herself to you not minding the fact that she is older. . . can you put that fact behind you and encourage her to be more open to you?

One thing you also have to be mindful of is that by your actions you have just shattered her confidence . . . even if you take her back she'd be even more afraid to share anything with you not knowing how you will react.

I have always believed one thing, my girl must be able to trust me enough to tell me ANYTHING under the sun. If truly you love her, you'll be willing to correct her with love and let things go.

Take her back asap, i dislike men who seem to enjoy watching their women cry and grovel at their feet to take them back. that's not the sign of a real man.

MAN! WHAT PLANET ARE YOU FROM? A RARE GEM AS YOU, COULDNT POSSIBLY BE IN THIS COUNTRY.... UR PHILOSOPHY, ITS ATTRACTING. PLS KEEP IT UP