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Why Do We Have To Marry? by habibi777(m): 2:48pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
why do we have to marry? why cant we just have kids without marrying my peeps what do you think |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by omega25red(m): 3:16pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
well you dont have to get married but if you are having children the word "bastard" comes into play and besides why do people get so tense about marriage you are already together why not just make it legal in the eyes of God and man. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Nobody: 3:25pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
omega25red:good reply |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by habibi777(m): 3:28pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
that a good reply but the question here is WHY |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by presido1: 8:53pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
habibi777:Cos is illegal in the sight of God and man as one poster wrote and we dont need our kids to be called bastard by others that were born legitmately. Hope question answered. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by habibi777(m): 9:34pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
what you are trying to say now is every kid born out of wed lock is a bastard ? |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by drrionelli(m): 10:24pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
Sad to say, but the term bastard is still used in such cases, although it doesn't carry nearly as much influence as it once did. It still suggests that the children suffer for the putative "mistakes" of their parents. The social construct of marriage is deep-rooted and one that, for better or worse, is culturally fairly ubiquitous. Clearly, one doesn't have to be married to make children. It happens a lot. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by habibi777(m): 10:35pm On Oct 27, 2007 |
bro i feel you |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by presido1: 11:24pm On Oct 28, 2007 |
drrionelli:That why we have too many bastards dis days. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Seun(m): 3:42pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
We have to marry so we can bring up children in the best possible environment - with a dad and a mom. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by fregene: 4:05pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
My Guy! E no compulsory. Even Apostle Paul in the Bible no Marry. Just be sure you have a good life while u're on this planet. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
Honestly, I have no idea!!! ,Just a stage we supposed to pass through.It's totally okay to have kids without getting married. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by jkpretty(f): 4:10pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
i feel u poster I'm scared of the word marriage |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Joey82(m): 4:11pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
aside d fact of raising children, society considers that until u're married, u're not yet settled down to begin a life on ur own as a man. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Joey82(m): 4:13pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@jkpretty, are u that scared, dont mind, am coming to marry you soon. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by larriederm(m): 4:15pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
WE GET MARRY IN OTHER TO FULFIL THE COMMANDMENT OF GOD. simple! |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by labiyemmy(m): 4:15pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
it is a sad thing to say that kids born out of wedlock are bastards - what you mean to say is that a child born outside a legally consumated marriage - when that marriage remains undesolved- that child is often refered to as a bastard -not when a child is born by two people who live together without getting married. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by ifyalways(f): 4:23pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
we have to marry to fulfil Gods commandments. we have to marry to help us curb loneliness. we have to marry to make and raise children in a family enviroment. we have to marry to have helpmate and to be of help. we have to marry cos its a societal norm. we have to marry cos we have to MARRY. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by saucekid(m): 4:25pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@ poster, u are asking for you can now consider the option of boning every jane,janet and judy abi? if u like, marry if u no like, no marry |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by jkpretty(f): 4:31pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
Joey82: I'm waiting for u dearie @Topic: There's a lot to look into b4 actually saying yes There's more to marriage than loving ur spouse There's more to marriage than raising kids There's more to marriage than fulfilling God's deal that we multiply There are more & more things which needs to be considered & not overlooked, in order to make it real. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Rosietimes(f): 4:36pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
saucekid: Abeg help me tell them o! Na you dey wear shoe, na you know wey e dey bite, so like sauce kid said, "if u like, marry if u no like, no marry" |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Joey82(m): 4:40pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
jkpretty: U're now getting me scared what're those more n more things that needs to b considered in order to make it real |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by BabyCakes(f): 4:42pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@topic, this is my opinion and pls noone should attack me oh! We dont all have to get married, its not compulsory. If you get married, thats good, but if you dont get married, its still good, when you die, God is not going to judge you on if you got married or not. Marriage is one of the hardest institutons, you will ever get into, and you have so much work to do. I admire people who stay married for years! I have a chronic phobia for getting married to the wrong person, so I'm taking my time oh! As for the bastard thing, yes oh! the literal meaning of bastard is a child born out of wedlock, but in reality, I have met more 'bastards' who were born to parents who were married!!! |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by akara(m): 4:48pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
There are those working on changing marriage as we know it, Who know it might catch on, even in Nigeria. http://today.reuters.com/news/articlenews.aspx?type=oddlyEnoughNews&storyid=2007-09-20T161412Z_01_HAR057822_RTRUKOC_0_US-GERMANY-POLITICS-MARRIAGE-1.xml |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by jkpretty(f): 4:53pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
Joey82: One of them is compatibility, its just funny how two peeps seemingly go together b4 they get married. And once they are in its "i never knew u were like this" God help us. BabyCakes: Funny, funny girl |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by JennyMan(m): 4:58pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
Marriage is an institution created by God, not man. Hence, it has to be honoured. However, your suggestion of having children anyhow is tantamount to behaving like animals, who do not have specific spouses of their own. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Joey82(m): 5:00pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@jkpretty, compatibility isnt our problem, is it? u remember the hornbeam tree stuff by vindoheney? |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by jkpretty(f): 5:09pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
Joey82: Ooops i now remember dat darl, we'll definately make it work. |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Agbo2(m): 5:15pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
No marriage, no agreement! No marriage, less commitment! No marriage, its not legalised! No marriage, it's not binding! No marriage, not married! |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by Joey82(m): 5:18pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@jkpretty so what're we waiting 4, lets get d ball rolling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by jkpretty(f): 5:27pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
@joey82 right behind ya |
Re: Why Do We Have To Marry? by kingkams(m): 5:39pm On Oct 29, 2007 |
We have to get married because its a trend. How would you have felt if you were born out of Wedlock? Bad i guess. Lets not subject our kids to societal degradation. |
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