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Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Ejaisky: 8:34pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
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Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by owo2390(m): 8:39pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
you are probably thinking of the good memories of the relationship but remember there was a reason you left him in the first place. Also, its unfair to your current husband that you are thinking about your ex because you are not giving him your whole heart. Tell him about your dilemma and maybe you can find a favorable solution to your problem. 2 Likes |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by luckgames(m): 8:46pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Ejaisky: Please help me. I got married last December and I can't stop thinking about my ex. I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband. You are evil and you will cheat with your ex Just question of time fool I hope your husband find out and kick your black A?? 3 Likes |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by luckgames(m): 8:50pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Evil lady You will cheat with your ex very soon I hope your husband find out and kink out your black A?? 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 8:55pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Lmao @ "help" a woman married less than 4 months to escape back to her ex. Chineke! Help to do what exactly? To carry your cross? To bear the consequences of leaping before looking? Are you fccking kidding me? When they read you "for better for worse till death do you part" were you pinging? Were you smoking when you said "I do?" 10 Likes |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Ejaisky: 9:05pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Luckgames and kills, i asked for help nt insults. I wouldn't cheat on my husband. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by luckgames(m): 9:07pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
~Killz~: She was stoned out |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by queensmith: 9:09pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
People always think this, theres meant to be fear of the unknown not a longing towards it! lol OP trust me when I tell you your ex is not the perfect man you believe in, in fact he's the complete opposite. Which is the reason why you probably broke up and he is now your ex. I think you should make an effort to look forward into the future rather than waste time pondering about your past. It's not fair on your husband foy you to harbour these thoughts and you owe it to him to forget about all the nonsense and focus om your marriage. It's early days and you are already carrying on like this, I fear for the future of your marriage! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by kelz88(f): 9:12pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
This is what happens when you don't marry for love. . . . Good luck. 6 Likes |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:15pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Ejaisky: Luckgames and kills, i asked for help nt insults. I wouldn't cheat on my husband.Define "Help". Define "cheating". And finally describe the kind of help you really need. . . While you are at it, i want you to realize that there is something like "Emotional Cheating". **Thinking of another man while your husband is lying beside you. . .** I'm guessing you think of your ex while your husband is making love to you right? (Cant deny. ) Conclusively, where the fcck did i insult you? I can't even find discombobulated in my post. . . I'm waiting for your definitions before i diagrammatically reveal to you how you are in fact cheating on your husband already. . . #Waiting! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by owo2390(m): 9:19pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
why are people so judgmental, she started the thread seeking help because she knows that her residual feelings towards her ex is detrimental to current marriage. Attacking her doesn't solve anything, I understand that people have a right to their respective opinions but all the assaults on the poor woman's character are unfounded and uncalled for. 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Nobody: 9:19pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Soul ties . . . Like every other thing when not engaged properly, are very dangerous. OP, don't see it as "I","me", "my feeling" etc. See it as what it is, a soul tire. Try to look at it from a 3rd person perspective (It) and not 1st person (I, me). You have to engage what you must to break that tie which must no longer be entertained at this point in your life. Focus on creating a tie with your husband. What were the terms of this marriage anyway? Did you not feel anything for the man you currently call husband? 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by xynerise: 9:19pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Op is missing d sexx fantasies with her ex |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by slimyem: 9:24pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
jeez! What were you thinking when you said 'i do'? Like 2buff said,you should focus on what is now not what could have been. Search again the things that made you decide to choose your husband as the one forever and explore them. One man is a plate full already.manage it for better or worse! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:30pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Smh @ I can't stop regretting i should have gotten married to him instead of my husband. And someone said something about being judgmental? Your yansh dia! How will you feel if you were this woman's husband? And how will you feel if you were a close friend to her husband? Bluntness does it for me in cases like this. . . This is so effed up! 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by queensmith: 9:33pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
^^ Thank you owo2390: why are people so judgmental, she started the thread seeking help because she knows that her residual feelings towards her ex is detrimental to current marriage. Attacking her doesn't solve anything, I understand that people have a right to their respective opinions but all the assaults on the poor woman's character are unfounded and uncalled for. We are doing so because we pity the poor man that married the OP who is obviously still in limbo with her feelings, she is selfish and confused, she had no right to drag another man into her foolishness. She should have dealt with her problems before jumping into marriage. Its downright wrong what she has done, the insulting is even not enough, she should be flogged mercilessly! marriage is not a joke! 2 Likes |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by xynerise: 9:39pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
~Killz~:easy bro |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:40pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
queensmith:It's only people that don't "really" value marriage and what it entails that'll not understand what is really going on here. . . This aint no boyfriend/girlfriend relationship! Since we can't flog her physically, we'll flog her lyrically. . . 3 Likes |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by owo2390(m): 9:44pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
I'm not in support of her action; her actions are obviously unethical. However, i'm against the incessant raining of insults on her, she's clearly misguided and asked for help, people should be trying to help her and not condemn her to flogging or whatever. This is 2012 not the 1800s. I don't want this to turn into some big arguments, there are too many of those on nairaland already. I think she deserves some sympathy because she was brave enough to ask for help on such a sensitive issue on a public forum in a pretty conservative country as Nigeria. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:46pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
xynerise: You dey laugh? You sure say no be skydeep use another ID post this thing? 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:48pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
owo2390: I'm not in support of her action; her actions are obviously unethical. However, i'm against the incessant raining of insults on her, she's clearly misguided and asked for help, people should be trying to help her and not condemn her to flogging or whatever. This is 2012 not the 1800s.Define "Insult". Categorically state where she was insulted. . . Define "Empathy" State why she deserves empathy, and define what it is she is doing to her husband. Thank you in advance! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by xynerise: 9:48pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
~Killz~:your green yansh. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by owo2390(m): 9:51pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
luckgames: Evil is an insult. You will be cheat with your ex is an unfounded accusation. I said sympathy not empathy. And in my first post i told her to tell her husband and work it out. |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 9:53pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
xynerise:It's black sir. . . |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Goldieluks: 9:59pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
~Killz~: Who knows? @OP slap yourself for making such statement. You think marriage is moi moi annd garri?? Besides what kind of advise were you expecting from us when you posted this? " divorce your husband,go on and marry your ex"?Marriage is for better for worse remember? Anyways, whatever decision you want to make, you better think twice sha! |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 10:00pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
owo2390:Pls sir relax. It's not an accusation. Can you define "accusation?" Bullshit is bullshit and does not look like chicken sh[i]i[/i]t! When treating bullshit, you use a shovel, and not a spade. In treating chicken sh[i]i[/i]t, you use a broom and packer. . . This is BULLSHIT! If you agree what she did was wrong, advice her accordingly without sounding "pettish". If this woman was your wife, and you mistakenly stumbled upon this thread, what will you do? Smh @ Evil is an insult! 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Ejaisky: 10:15pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
Thanks @Owo2390. I'll put the past behind me and be a good wife to my husband. 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by angelhair(m): 10:18pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
I wish you guys would get off her back. @op, I understand because I have bn in ur shoes. When I was married, my husband started d beating during our honeymoon! I was doing laundry a few months into d marriage and I saw a condom in his pocket. It wasn't for me because I was pregnant then. I hated him. I cursed him and I wanted to get back with my ex. You guys can never understand what she is going thru to make her think that. My dear op it does get better. Hang in there my love and tell it all to God. He really understands what you are going thru and he will make things well with you. Take care luv! 1 Like |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 10:25pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
angelhair: I wish you guys would get off her back. @op, I understand because I have bn in ur shoes. When I was married, my husband started d beating during our honeymoon! I was doing laundry a few months into d marriage and I saw a condom in his pocket. It wasn't for me because I was pregnant then. I hated him. I cursed him and I wanted to get back with my ex.Hellooo. Ask her to explain how her husband wronged her first, before you use an entirely different scenario to spoil runz here. . . |
Re: Should Have Stayed With My Ex. by Killz3(m): 10:25pm On Mar 12, 2012 |
OK2NVME: [s]All of u critisizing shuld shut dah hell up! 1 Like |
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