hi am 23yr old male international student studying abroad and am in my final year now, myself and my girlfriend have been going going out for about 5months now and she is a black american, i love her and i think she feels the same way for me too, but she said she doesnt see our relationship going anywhere on the long run because she thinks i dont care, when i asked her why she feels so, she said its because 1)i dont know her work schedule even though she told me more than once and i dont know her birthday even though she told me before. now my question is that if i dont pay attention to all those detail does that mean i dont care, i really need to know what to do cos its affecting us, and i cant even go for a summer trip in naija cos she is gonna ask me the big question 2)whats gonna happen to me(her) ...so guys wat shud i do, pls reply asap

Face your studies,that's what you should do.

5 months old relationship already giving you stress and the girl trying to make you center your whole life and time pussyfooting over her?

Hope you would have time for ya studies left?boy, don't forget why you went to the states. . . Get the degree and dough now, women would always be there once you've got both.

Do what she wants by trying to know her schedule and show more interest in her affairs. I think you should both be fine.

This should be in romance though, but i'm tempted to comment because i feel your pain.

@OP
at least, it means that you dont care about THESE issues. funny how you are quick to say (after 5 months) that you "love" her but yet dont know her birth date or when she is free/available to meet. i am compelled to ask: what exactly do you pay attention to in your r/ship?!