MLS12: Hi NL.I gave birth december 26th thru ceasarean section.before d birth I laboured for 2 good days witout any sign of progress,so operation was d wayout.2 cut d long story short,we passed thru a lot dat nite of my delivery.from Lagos traffic(because d hosp I registered didn't ve a gynecologist on board to perform d operation)so I was referred 2 Lasuth.on gettn deir dey said deir was no Bed space to accomodate me,dat everywhere was full.Finally I was referred 2 a good private hosp where it was finally done.so am very ok now,am back 2 shape,my tummy is flat like I was neva pregnant BUT my hubby said he won't sleep wit me Till six months time.D doctor said my wound is finally healed and I can ve sex buh my hubby is insisting 6months.so my worry now,is he feeling 4me,all I went thruy cos he was present or he wants to get it outside.cos I miss him in Bed a lot.my hubby loves me dearly and we re good friends.Advice pls

MLS12: Hi NL.I gave birth december 26th thru ceasarean section.before d birth I laboured for 2 good days witout any sign of progress,so operation was d wayout.2 cut d long story short,we passed thru a lot dat nite of my delivery.from Lagos traffic(because d hosp I registered didn't ve a gynecologist on board to perform d operation)so I was referred 2 Lasuth.on gettn deir dey said deir was no Bed space to accomodate me,dat everywhere was full.Finally I was referred 2 a good private hosp where it was finally done.so am very ok now,am back 2 shape,my tummy is flat like I was neva pregnant BUT my hubby said he won't sleep wit me Till six months time.D doctor said my wound is finally healed and I can ve sex buh my hubby is insisting 6months.so my worry now,is he feeling 4me,all I went thruy cos he was present or he wants to get it outside.cos I miss him in Bed a lot.my hubby loves me dearly and we re good friends.Advice pls

MLS12: Hi NL.I gave birth december 26th thru ceasarean section.before d birth I laboured for 2 good days witout any sign of progress,so operation was d wayout.2 cut d long story short,we passed thru a lot dat nite of my delivery.from Lagos traffic(because d hosp I registered didn't ve a gynecologist on board to perform d operation)so I was referred 2 Lasuth.on gettn deir dey said deir was no Bed space to accomodate me,dat everywhere was full.Finally I was referred 2 a good private hosp where it was finally done.so am very ok now,am back 2 shape,my tummy is flat like I was neva pregnant BUT my hubby said he won't sleep wit me Till six months time.D doctor said my wound is finally healed and I can ve sex buh my hubby is insisting 6months.so my worry now,is he feeling 4me,all I went thruy cos he was present or he wants to get it outside.cos I miss him in Bed a lot.my hubby loves me dearly and we re good friends.Advice pls

dasparrow:

So what would you like us to do? Would you like us to go and beg your hubby on your behalf to make love to his own wife? He probably decided not to touch you for now so that he does not get you pregnant again after merely 3 months of you putting to bed. Even though you claim to feel ok, the insides of your body need to heal. Allow your body to heal and give your private part a break from the constant pounding and concentrate on taking care of your new born baby. All the best lady!

dasparrow:

So what would you like us to do? Would you like us to go and beg your hubby on your behalf to make love to his own wife? He probably decided not to touch you for now so that he does not get you pregnant again after merely 3 months of you putting to bed. Even though you claim to feel ok, the insides of your body need to heal. Allow your body to heal and give your private part a break from the constant pounding and concentrate on taking care of your new born baby. All the best lady!

chaircover:
Now back to the sex thing, you are a woman for goodness sakes. You dont go up to him and say lets make love. You subtly do it. Give baby a big meal put her/him to bed and then subtly seduce him; dimmed lights, scented candles, a good meal, nice music and just sit very close to him; let him smell you. It may take a few attempts but go further and further each time until he finally gives in. Once he has done it the once he will be fine.