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Murphy G: Hi House,

I just started a rship with a lady whom I really like. She's a 'marriage material' I would say, a graduate but her spoken English is not all that good and I'm the type who appreciates ladies who communicate well in spoken and written English. What can I do to improve her communication skills. I haven't told her that her comm skills need to be 'pimped'. How do I tell her such that she won't feel embarrassed? Secondly, how do I improve her comm skills?
Pls advise. Thanx!

You found a "wife material" and all you can think of is her spoken english? Men?? Send her to school or home school her since its seems the issue bothers you so much! And before you tell her ask her if there's anything she'll like to change about you! It will surprise you what she tolerates about you.

Coldfeet: You found a "wife material" and all you can think of is her spoken english? Men?? Send her to school or home school her since its seems the issue bothers you so much! And before you tell her ask her if there's anything she'll like to change about you! It will surprise you what she tolerates about you.

I think as humans we should strive to become better each and everyday through continual learning for personal deveopment. The fact that she is a 'wife material' doesn't mean that she shouldn't improve her personality abi?
And I didn't say I'm perfect so if there's anything about me that she feels needs to be improved upon or probably changed then such constructive criticism would be welcome.

op,buy her some good novels,and always correct her wen ever she make mistakes in her speech.

tasandra: op,buy her some good novels,and always correct her wen ever she make mistakes in her speech.

Thank u!