gree-die:
R u close enuf to d girl in qus to advice her?...

Reassure her of d guys love 4 her nd let her knw dt her actions r uncalled 4 nd may end up driving her love away.
She has trust issues, let her go 4 counselling nd finally, advice her to get a job, wit less tym on her hands nd more work to do, d problems ll reduce

seconded!

To an extent, I'm that jealous girlfriend. I rummage through my bf's phone every other day, read his pings, messages e.t.c and as expected there'd be something definitely to fight about.

While I'm not as the lady in the post, but who knows stuff like that don't grow on you. Who says I won't grow into all these! He says he finds it sexy that I'm jealous, and he actually looks forward to our bickering and making up soon after. (weird right?)

Who are we to say the guy doesn't like it? Well after reading most post about it. I know I definitely have to loosen up and be more trusting of my bf so I won't end up pushing him away. I can't bear the thought of becoming like those people.

Amya: To an extent, I'm that jealous girlfriend. I rummage through my bf's phone every other day, read his pings, messages e.t.c and as expected there'd be something definitely to fight about.

While I'm not as the lady in the post, but who knows stuff like that don't grow on you. Who says I won't grow into all these! He says he finds it sexy that I'm jealous, and he actually looks forward to our bickering and making up soon after. (weird right?)

Who are we to say the guy doesn't like it? Well after reading most post about it. I know I definitely have to loosen up and be more trusting of my bf so I won't end up pushing him away. I can't bear the thought of becoming like those people.

You better loosen up o,btw where have you been?kinda missed you .

The guy needs to take a long permanent walk

are you sure you are not the person in question? anyways tell the guy to leave the girl na must he marry her?

sweetcocoa: You better loosen up o,btw where have you been?kinda missed you .

Awwwww I missed you too dear. Gave NL a little break. But I'm back now. You'll see me around now.

It's so sad. Why are most ladies feels to possessive, jealous and most time insensitive. I have one as a gf but right now she is a goner.

To be realistic, that guy is in trouble. He's being abused emotionally and verbally. I'm sure he's addicted to the make-up sessions too.
He better leave now before he becomes permanently damaged goods.
What happens when he has to work late? She'll go to the office and tear his cloths to shreds? Business trip, nko? She'll ring his phone off the hook every minute?
He better learn from the case of that handsome Tanzanian actor that was killed by his 18 yr old girlfriend last week. During an argument, she pushed him, he fell, hit his head and died instantly.
Don't stay with someone who endangers you in any way.
Things can't be a 100 percent perfect in a relationship but you don't have to get high bp just cause you in a relationship....

I simply let her go. Who get time for nonsense talk? I no wan die like the Tanzanian actor. I know say after me she go carry her jealousy kill another man. God forbid!

martyns303: they'll be fine with time, just dont like the idea of she being verbally abusive, words hurts me alot as a person, but if he's fine with it, i'd say let them be.

Like the F.uck you are serious? they will be fine SERIOUSLY?

Forgive me for my directness, I think he should take a temporal walk to see if she wld learn from it. But if it persists then he shld dump her like a bad habit. If its that hard then he shld go for rehab.

Forgive me for my directness, I think he should take a temporal walk to see if she wld learn from it. But if it persists then he shld dump her like a bad habit. If its that hard and he is so addicted to her then he shld go for rehab.

@poster.what kind of job does he do that exposes him to lots of women?

beautybaby4me: @poster.what kind of job does he do that exposes him to lots of women?

Amya:

Awwwww I missed you too dear. Gave NL a little break. But I'm back now. You'll see me around now.

cool

Tell your friend that we can't help him
because he know what to do
She is a girlfriend not a wife
Put her things on the street
Bye, Bye

He should wait till the girl kills him

Ok,so how does he end it.should he cal her over d phone or tel her to her face,really i think he really needs to end it.their relationship future looks to scary

LOL @ the insane girlfriend. Why doesn't she just keep him locked up in her basement so she can have him all to herself? To be fair, the guy might have given her solid reason to be this insecure. If they both like it, then who are we to comment and give advice. It's a free world jare.

Lheyhe:
This makes me remember 'ANGELA' in one of the Hollywood films I watched 'WHY DID I GET MARRIED TOO?'
Most ladies like that does not really mean to harm their boyfriend they are only trying to protect him but sometimes they go haywire about it.

guy u correct I don watch dat film! I learn a lot 4rm it!! Can't imagine a girl like angela 4 my life