most women/ladies r just selfish in what and how they think. as far as they are concerned, they should b the center of attraction in their guy's life. what if d guy is one that needs a little tlc once in a while. what if when u r thinking 'hw come u didnt call me last night' he is thinking 'how do i get my tummy to stop aching' we need to stop talking, and listen. its not every need of a guy that gets communicated. but when you are observant and not being a bitchy selfish nag, you will see that his needs are more than just a kiss on the cheek for that pretty gift or a lay-me-down session after a trip to your favorite holiday spot. just think....it happened to me, i was too selfish to actually see reason with him and i ended up loosing him. i was always about what i want, how i want it or no other way...so selfish....most ladies do it...but it aint right.

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