Loko one one: He who created them from the beginning,created He male and female_Gen1:27

A further reading of the above chapter says a man shall leave his parents and cleave unto his wife and they both shall become one flesh.

Is it safe to conclude from this biblical version of man and woman union that a man is saddled with the responsibility of initiating a relationship?

Most culture of the world today aptly believe it's a man thing to ask a woman out and frowns at it when it is the other way round.

The question is;is there any gender tradition or rules that says the man is expected to make all the efforts when it comes to courting,dating and marriage proposals?

Personally,I think women should break social norms and conformities when it comes to approaching men if romantically or sexually interested.Pronto!

Let me feel ur pulse now.

matobaba: DONT THE WOMEN HAVE CONSCIENCE, IT IS MIND BLOWING, ANYWAY WHO GO SEE FREE BONTO WAY E NO GO CHOP. BUT NO CHOPGO HEAVEN, REMEMBER MAGUN (DONT CLINB)

lefulefu:
ehn so MAGUN still dey town?

acidtalk:

Heard that's what killed Mr.C*ock aka "Co*cky man".

ijebabe: Men prefer to do the chasing and most men don't like it when a woman ask them out. I have asked my male friends this question and this is what they told me, only a few don't mind. I think most women are open to this but don't just to avoid criticism from men only because she expressed her feelings. [size=14pt]I have done it and I don't regret it one bit because now he keeps saying he's at his happiest since he met me :[/size]D

ogugua88: I expressed my feelings to my bf first. It was very awkward putting myself out there because it was something I'd never done before. I'm so glad I did though! Wasn't about to let that one slip away at alllllllllll lol. Sometimes, you have to go with your gut instinct.

TroyJay: Boy. . . Do i love when ladies come out of the closet.

ogugua88: I expressed my feelings to my bf first. It was very awkward putting myself out there because it was something I'd never done before. I was very fearful of rejection. I'm so glad I did though! Wasn't about to let that one slip away at alllllllllll lol. Sometimes, you have to go with your gut instinct. It's very unconventional, but the guy may end up liking you the more for it.

ijebabe: Lol! Exactly. When its the right guy you screw those tradition bullshit and just go for it.

Skii:

Given as the poster used bible passage, which I believe is twisting it in favour of this argument, where in the bible was there a woman who made a move or an approach towards a man?

Go and read the book of RUTH!

TroyJay:
Go and read the book of RUTH!

Skii:
WOMEN PLS MAINTAIN UNA VALUE, highest give advances

Amaka G29:
Part I: No one really wants to put himself/herself out there and make the first move. While I won't ask a man out, I will let him know that I'm interested and that it's okay to ask me out. I feel like if both parties indicate interest in each other the plans to see each other again will come naturally. The key in either case is to openly express interest and gauge if the interest is mutual. I may say "let's keep in touch" or "do you have a card?"

The problem arises when I have shown no interest in you, you haven't started a real conversation with me, and you act entitled to my number. I'll be polite at first. Asking more than once won't elicit anything beyond resentment on my part.

Part II: Why won't I ask a man out?
I don't have to ask nor do I want to make him feel that I took something from him. Some men like the conquest of asking a woman out. Also, if it's a first date, I don't intend to pay, and you shouldn't ask if you don't intend to pay for the date.

Skii:
Given as the poster used bible passage, which I believe is twisting it in favour of this argument, [size=14pt]where in the bible was there a woman who made a move or an approach towards a man?[/size]

Go and read the book of RUTH!

Skii: @TroyJay
Ruth Sleeping in Boaz's tent was the advance, it was left for him to do the follow up. But women outrightly doing it? Come on?

It was the advance you say, but you earlier inferred that there was no place where a woman made a move or an approach a.k.a advance, towards a man in the bible! I asked you to read RUTH so that you will see where a woman made an advance. . . Therefore, you contradicted your earlier statement and also LIED blatantly against the bible. . . Care should be taken when referring to bible passages in a bid to prove a point.

Where in the bible were women asked NOT to outrightly ask a man out? It's a matter of choice. If a woman decides to ask a man out, she should not be castigated. Pls leave the bible out of this!

ogugua88:

You only live once lol