Dear Linda ikeji,

I am a fan of our blog, and I often visit your blog.

Please Linda, I need your readers’ advice on my indecisive situation over two girls currently in my life.

The story is this: I travelled to UK in 2003 to study Medicine and Surgery, at a top UK university. While I was in first year, I met this British born Nigerian girl; she is from a very wealthy family. The girl is full of intelligence; she graduated as the best medical student.

After our graduation, she asked which area I would like to specialise. I told her, I just want to be a GP, and work in any small General Practice office in London. As for her, she wanted to be a Surgeon or Anaesthesiologist. We pursued our aspirations, and now she is indeed a Surgeon and I work as a GP in a local GP Medical centre.

Since two years ago, our relationship has been going town hill, my GF does not do normal things she use to do to look prettier; She has stopped doing her hair, she is always at the hospital, and she has put on weight a lot because she stopped exercising. I even spent £2,000 to install all sorts of gym equipments in a spare room at our house, yet she won’t exercise.

Here is where the story got awkward; five months ago, I was at my office a Brazilian single mum came in with her daughter. Her beauty is incomparable. Her ass is something from outside this planet. I checked her daughter and found out she had influenza, after prescribing medications for her; I could not control myself, I asked the lady for her number. We started texting each other, she told me she is a divorcee, and she also has no job. Her sources of income are jobseekers allowance and child benefit. Yet, I found myself felling for her. She has learnt how to cook Nigerian Soup via youtube just to impress me.

I am confused. At the moment, I love the Brazilian girl, but she has no career. My girlfriend has a career but she doesn’t know how to cook, and she is not half pretty as the Brazilian girl. If I were to brake-up with my girlfriend, we will surely have a legal battle on who would have a lion share over our £550,000 house. But the property is not what bothers me at the moment. What bothers me is to make the right choice. Sex with the Brazilian girl is a dynamite..

Attached here is the back view picture of the Brazilian girl (see attached picture below); she took this photo when she went to her country on a holiday. I sent the photo on a UK based blog requesting for an advice, people were busy downloading and uploading the photo on their facebook instead of giving me an advice. Based on our ages, i am 29years old; my gf is 27 years old. The Brazilian lady is 30 years old. What would you do if you were in by situation?

Culled from Linda Ikeji's blog.

My dear, dont u think you might be making a mistaking considering the fact that your choosing ''a woman '' cos she's a good cook? Lusting for someone just cos of she's a good cook could be detrimental in future. Consider the fact that ''love has to do with ''interest'' all round.. It' means having great and strong affection for someone... Come to think of it,have you find out extent the 2nd girl have for you that would warrant you to such whims and caprises... Just be careful.. Search your heart very well...

Thread moved to romance.

Well you have to consider what you want in life carefully to avoid future regrets

you could possibly advise your girlfriend to diet and excercise

Well the question is to linda ikeji, didnt even bother reading