Most of the time when your Boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you, you know by instinct that something is amiss in the relationship, whether or not you heed the things your gut is telling you. The following will prove to you if you are being cheated. 1 change of habits: you should pay attention to any differences or changes of behaviours and habits and determine the need for the sudden change and the amount of contrast it may have to the normal behaviour of your boyfriend or girlfriend. Messaging: he or she hasn`t been answering your calls or calling you as often as before; always busy texting when with you but refusing to let you kmow who he or she is messaging. 3 not telling his or her next plan: you call but realise he or she has gone for a sleepover that was never mentioned to you before. 4 changing sex habit: be worried if he or she constantly makes up excuses as to why he or she doesn`t want to have sex with you. Someone that used to disturb you for sex suddenly stop giving you sex. 5 working longer at work: someone that you used to come early suddenly start coming late with everday excuses. 6 wallet/pulse over protecting: he or she keeps on protecting it even in the bathroom. Something is wrong. 7 friends excuses: start to use friends excuses. HOW TO CATCH HIM OR HER CHEATING. 1 investigate all excuses and make sure they are checked privately. 2. Check every call line by line of his or her mobile phone privately. 3. Check his or her pulse or wallet. 4 notice what he or she is wearing when leaving,then compare later. 5. Keep track on how much money he or she have and what spent. 6. When he or she gives a friend as an excuse, call the friend and ask