sorry 4 d english.But is it possible ?.especially when she never treated u with respect,ur calls were never honored ,she was seeing someone else,she was always asking for money and u was foolishly obliging.Now she wants to come back.would u give it a try?
i need ur help because i am still in love with her.
insult moi but i need to know

Nope, whats in the past, stays in the past. period.

really?thanks anyway

ur welcome.

ThoniaSlim:

Nope, whats in the past, stays in the past. period.

WELL PUT! BUT THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS ATIMES ESPECIALLY WHEN THE BREAKUP WAS SOMETHING BOTH PARTIES NEVER REALLY WANTED. BUT DA SHOW MUST ALWAYS GO ON.

@2dye4 .pls can u expantiate ?

2dye4:

WELL PUT! BUT THERE ARE EXCEPTIONS ATIMES ESPECIALLY WHEN THE BREAKUP WAS SOMETHING BOTH PARTIES NEVER REALLY WANTED. BUT DA SHOW MUST ALWAYS GO ON.

Well i don't think there are exceptions. i strongly believe whats meant to be will be. if it dosen't work out, then i see no need hanging unto it.

there are times when pple are forced to take certain decision and actions against their will/feelings and even though at that time it was the rite thing to do, they felt it was not the for the best. pple like that often find it difficult to move past that phase and get stuck in the lamentations of "had i known" and so on.   a comeback is usually attempted if such opportunity is given.

whose idea do i stick to thonia slim's or 2dye4?
how i wish i can heart of my ex to know wat she really wants?

hhhhmmmmm. still don't agree with u.
thats why we don't allow our anger over rule us. especially when taking rash decisions concerning ending a relationship. but i guess we are humans. and we make mistakes.
but i still think whats meant to be would be, and there is no need trying so hard to make it happen.

@thonia she is the one doing all the reconcilatory moves expecting me to respond in the affirmative

thats why am saying, whats in the past remains in the past. from all indications its obvious she treated you badly, and you knew it and ended it . so why do you wanna go back again to the problems?

guy if she left upon all the money u were given her then she aint worth it, she still will not apprciate u for who u are,

she probarbly see u as an end to justify the means i.e her well being

THONIA THANKS A GREAT DEAL-I WAS JUST LOOKING FOR A REAL REASON TO BACK OUT (AND I HAVE FOUND ONE)THANKS THANKS -GOD BLESS YOU
TO ALL OTHER CONTRIBUTORS--------THANKS

ThoniaSlim:

Nope, whats in the past, stays in the past. period.

ThoniaSlim:

Well i don't think there are exceptions. i strongly believe whats meant to be will be. if it dosen't work out, then i see no need hanging unto it.

ThoniaSlim:

hhhhmmmmm. still don't agree with u.
thats why we don't allow our anger over rule us. especially when taking rash decisions concerning ending a relationship. but i guess we are humans. and we make mistakes.
but i still think whats meant to be would be, and there is no need trying so hard to make it happen.

ThoniaSlim:

thats why am saying, whats in the past remains in the past. from all indications its obvious she treated you badly, and you knew it and ended it . so why do you want to go back again to the problems?

@ThoniaSlim
girl i like your logical reasoning. nice to see it coming from you especially as a girl. well said. brains to match the beauty you have [s](if that's you in your profile pic[/s]. can i hit you up on messenger?

@ Poster

i think there are many reasons why the girl may want a comeback.

First, I think she has realised that you truly loved her.

maybe she was going through a heart break at that time and was not sure you were for real.

I think she has realised her mistakes.

Please give her another chance since you still love her but you have to be very careful. Talk to her and find out why she suddenly wants you back.


Btw: True Love is the only condition to redate and re-love your Ex.