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Hi

I dated this guy for less than a month.  We only went out to one date but often hung out at his house.  He does not like to go out, stays home and play video games every day.  He works a lot too and I don't mind that since he's working hard to earn money and rooting for a early retirement but what I'm having trouble with is the fact that we never really went through the dating phase.  We pretty much skipped it altogether.  I've always thought when you first start to date someone, you learn to get to know them and everything.  Now he wants to treat this as a "long term" relationship and support him.  He makes me feel bad when he spends money on me.  He's not into anything I like.  I feel like I'm in a relationship by myself.  We only dated for less than a month and I'm starting to freak out.  He's a great guy, honest, and I like the fact that he has goals and everything.  But if it worth it?  Should I dump the guy asap?

Thanks.

i wud say:so far he's not in anythin u like.wud advise u drp him if it worth.if ya wnt a peace home 4ya!

Hmm, this is a tough one, write out ten things you like about him and ten you dislike and weigh them. Meanwhile have you tried to talk to him let him know honestly how you feel, but you have to be very wise when talking to him. Let it not seem like a quarel or as if you are nagging him, choose the best time when he is happy and comforatble and talk as calmly and as politely as possible. Men love respect and hate it when it seems as if their actions are being challenged, this is why we need wisdom.

hello sweet hrt! d fact is that u dny love this guy. its only obvious. the best thing is to drop him in a polite way, b4 it gets really nasty. i was in a relationship for abt 3yrs and i tot i could change d girl, it only got worst, and i found out i was only wasteing my time.
Its only normal for u to know someone for a while b4 dateing. but do u feel any chemistry btw u guys?if not, move on babe.